Chapter 431
431
Gradually, he has been able to ignore the kind of complaints and complaints that his parents have exuded about him, and even accuse those malicious words in his current memories that have all been marked with horses, and he is generally completely unaware, but more focused on finding the meaning of his parents' words.
The little girl instinctively could feel that there must be something important in the process of her parents' high expectations for his sister and their little daughter, and in their careful plans for his future.
In the end, he finally found what he cared about, that is, his mother once mentioned that he must let her little daughter study. At that time, they discussed the father more about the younger daughter's later life, while the mother had to think more carefully, and he felt that the most important factors to consider were the youngest daughter's own thoughts and feelings.
Therefore, the father is more concerned about how to leave all the future property to the youngest daughter, in order to ensure that he can live in peace, and the mother is more about how to find a reliable support for his future, and even when it is difficult to predict this matter in the end, the mother said that in the future, the little daughter must be allowed to read and reason, with the companionship of the book, I believe that even if the little daughter can't find the soul, or can't find the other half of her life, it is not a pitiful thing.
After all, his sister's performance in the past can be said to have left his parents with a feeling that he may not leave the world at any time, so the couple often thinks about him the most, and they can't wait to give everything they can to the little girl.
After the mother mentioned the matter of studying, the father was silent for a long time, and then he also agreed with the mother's decision, and indeed let the youngest daughter study so that he could find a way to be completely self-reliant.
My mother also read some books, but after meeting my father, he thought that his life had been fulfilled and he didn't need any comfort from other places, so gradually his mother stopped reading, but put all her heart on her father and family, and later on her little daughter.
But even so, every suggestion made by the mother may be adopted by the father, and even the mother usually respects every word she says, which is probably the advantage of reading.
Li Xiucai's wife was only sixteen or seventeen years old at that time, and he couldn't imagine or think about more profound things, but the simple thing was that I saw something a little deeper, and it was indeed a skill that he had mastered in advance at this age, and of course another skill was the ability to observe words and colors.
For this ill-fated girl, precociousness was the only means by which he could protect himself. He didn't have anyone in this world to rely on, to put a sense of security, so to speak, no one in his mind could help him.
If he said that his life was not easy at home, the little girl didn't think too much at that time, but it was inconvenient for the unfair treatment she received, and she was even very angry that the black ones she was carrying were very wronged, he didn't understand why his parents couldn't listen to himself well, and what he said was true, and his sister was often full of lies or pretentious gestures, so that she had carried one black black after another, but her parents seemed to be blind and couldn't see the truth of the facts, and then the little girl understood a little, it turned out that everyone's heart was crooked, so their hearts are naturally biased to one side, but the children of each family are different from each parent, and the degree of bias is not the same, and the situation in their family is a more extreme phenomenon.
It can be said that partiality is widespread, but it is extremely rare to become such a degree, and when he figured this out, Li Xiucai's wife had also married a wife, and at that time he had suddenly become aware of these things. For his original family, he didn't have any expectations, or yearning.
This may be the reason why Li Xiucai and his wife have never had children, one is that they have a great impression of their father's parents, so they have no confidence in raising their own children, and after seeing too many examples of failure, they are simply afraid of raising a child.
In his opinion, since people's hearts are heavenly, it is inevitable that they will have their own partiality and preferences for everything, so it is inevitable that this problem will arise after having children, and in this current form, there will be more children if there is a child, which is also a knot in Li Xiu's wife's heart that can never be opened.
As long as he has more than one child, or as long as he has a child, then his heart cannot maintain the original peaceful attitude, people's hearts are not controllable, he has his own will, he can directly deviate to the other side according to his own ideas, if there is only one child, it is fine, but if he has more than two children, it is inevitable that there will be a comparison in his heart, and at that time, Li Xiucai's wife does not want those that she has experienced to reappear in her children.
Of course, many people will persuade him that you can maintain your neutral attitude and keep your sanity to treat your children equally, but Li Xiucai's wife wants to ask the people who said these things, can they guarantee that they have achieved real fairness, and can they guarantee that their attitude towards their children is the same? This does not need to be answered by anyone, everyone knows that there is no way for people as a person to do this, there is no absolute justice and fairness for people, these are things that people pursue all their lives but can never get.
As I said before, everyone's heart has its own thoughts, and it is not something that you can completely overwhelm or even correct with reason, and the preference for one of your children, or the great dislike for one of your children, is absolutely difficult to correct and change after you realize it.
As far as Li Xiucai's wife is concerned, she and her sister look almost exactly the same in foreign trade, but they are completely different inside, and because of this difference, the parents' attitudes towards the two of them are diametrically opposed, and even under the impetus of one of the coordinates, the parents' love for the eldest daughter can be said to be stingy to the extreme, and even put all their love on the younger daughter, which also caused the tragedy of Li Xiucai's wife, in fact, it also indirectly caused the tragedy of their family.
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