Chapter 56: I'm Getting Married

Father Fan and Mother Fan glanced at each other, if this is the case, it seems to be okay, as long as it does not cause too much burden to Fan Shasha.

They admit that they are a little selfish, but they have to be selfish about their daughter's future life. They don't want Fan Shasha to live a rich and noble life, but they want her to be comfortable and have enough food and clothing.

Then Dad Fan said the next process: "You young people fall in love, in fact, we as elders should not interfere too much, but in terms of process and some etiquette, I still hope to be able to follow the habits of our county, and the etiquette that should be there must be no less, otherwise the hometown and the neighbors will laugh at Sasha." ”

Ju Ze nodded: "Don't worry, uncle, I have already told my uncle, and he will come forward to take care of it for me when the time comes, and he will not be wronged by Sasha." ”

"Well, when is your uncle free? Our parents will meet formally to discuss other matters. Father Fan paused for a moment, and then said, "I know that it is not popular for you young people to accept bride price now, so our family doesn't want it, but I want you to know that we don't want a bride price is not easy for us Sasha to pursue, but we are considerate of our elders and understand that it is not easy for you to live a young life." ”

Ju Ze also nodded.

But Fan's mother glanced at Fan's father with disgust, but she didn't say anything.

"The rest of the process, I will discuss it after meeting with your parents. Father Fan finally summed up, and then his tense face finally showed a smile, "You go talk to Sasha." ”

Ju Ze also breathed a sigh of relief, and hurriedly went to his grandmother's room to find Fan Shasha.

Mother Fan saw Ju Ze enter Grandma's room, and scolded Father Fan in a low voice: "Why did you suddenly say that you don't want a bride price?

Father Fan looked at her in surprise: "Do you want a bride price? ”

Fan's mother said: "Why is it not popular? My eldest brother's Lili got married last year and received a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan!"

Father Fan smiled: "The eldest brother has a son, they want Lili's bride price for his son to get married in the future, and you look at Lili, her parents asked for a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan, and the little couple was hollowed out, and now Lili has basically cut off the relationship with her parents, and she will not come back for the New Year...... Why bother breaking off the relationship with his daughter for some money? The two of them will definitely regret it when they get old. ”

Fan's mother said dissatisfiedly: "Our family is different from my eldest brother's family, their family gives their daughter's bride price to their son, and the bride price our family receives, I will definitely go back to Sasha, I just want to test whether Xiaoju has put Sasha in an important position." ”

Father Fan thought about it for a while and said, "Don't do it, it's a meaningless test at all, but it's looked down upon, thinking that we are greedy for money and selling our daughter." ”

Fan's mother didn't know how to persuade her, and she couldn't go together with different concepts.

She still has time to persuade Fan Shasha, she thinks Fan Shasha should understand her thoughts.

Ju Ze stayed at Fan's house until the evening, and Fan Shasha had to go to work the next day, so he went back to the county town with him. While sitting in the car, Fan Shasha suddenly received a short video link from her mother.

She clicked on it and watched, the video is a pair of men and women with very strong makeup, the opening scene is a boy drinking with his brother on a vocal occasion, boasting: "My family status at home is the same, I didn't spend a penny when I married my daughter-in-law, and now she has to give birth to a child at home for me to do laundry and cooking!"

Then the picture turned, and a woman in tattered clothes appeared in the video, she squatted on the ground to wash clothes, and behind her was a rural earthen house that had long been absent in Blue Bird County and was about to collapse, the scene was in stark contrast to just now, and then the woman warned the audience earnestly while washing: "Woman, you were considerate of him at the beginning, you didn't ask for a car, a house, or a bride price to be with him, he wouldn't know how to cherish it." You have to remember that in this world, what is easy to get is a bargain. So, don't be afraid of others saying that you are materialistic, and don't be afraid of others saying that you worship money, you have to put yourself in an expensive position, so that you can have a happy life!"

After watching this small video, Fan Shasha felt angry and ridiculous...... What is this? Isn't it naked objectification of women?

And she couldn't complain about the whole video, in order to show the suffering of this heroine, they deliberately let her wear tattered, but she may still want to take the idol route, but she painted a lot of heavy makeup...... Any girl who does housework at home won't apply your thick powder, okay......

Ju Ze also poked his head over curiously and looked over: "Why do you look so funny?"

"My mom sent me a little earthy video, you can take a look. ”

After reading it, Ju Ze also laughed for a while, then held Fan Shasha's hand and said, "Mother-in-law, this is implying that I will pay the bride price." ”

Fan Shasha was very helpless: "My mother's old concept can't be changed for a while, don't blame her." My father told me about the bride price, saying that the state does not advocate it now, and our family does not want it. ”

"Of course I don't blame your mother, but I think your mother's worries are justified, and she is also doing it for your own good. Ju Ze looked at her and said with a smile, "Don't worry, the amount of bride price in Bluebird County is not much, and it is not the sky-high price in other places, generally it is 66,000 or 88,000, please make a good fortune, there is no need to make a gap between you and your mother for this money." ”

Fan Shasha looked at him in surprise: "Sixty or eighty thousand is not much, your monthly salary is six thousand, right?"

Although a salary of 6,000 is considered good in a small county, if you want to give a bride price of 60,000 or 80,000 yuan, you have to save for a year and a half.

Ju Ze smiled and said mysteriously, "I'll tell you a secret. ”

Fan Shasha asked curiously, "What?"

"Three months ago, my college classmates contacted me and said that they have now set up a team to take on outsourcing work, and they have also invited them to join their team to make an official website and app for a cultural company in Shenzhen. I was going to tell you when I got the money, but now that you suspect that I don't have the money, I can only tell you in advance. ”

Fan Shasha said in surprise: "You still take private work?"

Ju Ze nodded and said with a smile: "Doctors can practice more, what's wrong with me outsourcing one after another to write code? Besides, I don't take up work time, I stay up late after work to catch up with work." ”

It seems that it doesn't take much ...... private work, "No wonder you seem to be listless every day these days, it turns out that you did that at night." Fan Shasha continued to ask curiously, "Then how much do they charge you?"

Ju Ze spread out his palms, Fan Shasha looked at it, and guessed: "Five thousand?"

“…… Fifty thousand, is after tax. ”

"Oh my God, so much?" exclaimed Fan Shasha.

Ju Ze reached out and hugged her shoulder, and said jokingly, "I just like the way you have never seen the world...... If a company does not look for outsourcing but sets up its own department for development, the cost of personnel invested will be at least 500,000 yuan, and it will have to be doubled in large cities. Our outsourcing is already very cheap, and the whole team has received more than 400,000 payments, excluding operating costs. So you don't have to worry that I can't afford the bride price, at least I still have the money to make my mother-in-law happy. And after the app was launched, my classmate said that the follow-up maintenance was still done by us, and there was also a commission. ”

"Oh my God......" Fan Shasha was surprised and could only use this word to express it.

Ju Ze looked at her tenderly...... He recalled the time when his father was first imprisoned, and he was afraid every day, and he almost gave up Fan Shasha. Now I feel that I was really stupid at that time, even if the family suffered a change, but he has hands and feet, he is already luckier than many people, what can not be obtained through hard work?

He remembered the lyrics of one of his favorite songs: "To the world, if you have too many complaints, you don't dare to move forward if you fall, why should people be so fragile and degenerate? Please turn on the TV and see how many people are working hard for life to go on bravely, should we be content, cherish everything even if we don't have ......?"

He held Fan Shasha's hand tightly, now that everything was getting better and better, he was very glad that neither of them gave up on each other easily.

I am also very grateful that Fan Shasha took the initiative to take that step.

A few days later, the company in Shenzhen came back, and a large number of relatives such as Ju Ze's uncle and second aunt went to Fan Shasha's house to meet Fan Shasha's parents. After the two sides negotiated, the Fan family's parents politely sent the other party's parents away, and then returned home, Fan's father reluctantly said to Fan's mother: "Now that the bride price has been given, are you satisfied?"

Fan's mother glared at him: "I said that I didn't want it for myself, I just want this kid to prove that he really cares about our family! You say I'm a money obsesser? Do you have a conscience? When I married you, did I want a penny? I didn't marry you without asking for anything? You still owe a lot of debt, can I say anything?!"

"That's right, you see that I don't have the money to pay a bride price when I marry you, but can you say that I don't cherish you?

"Why are you so desperate? I told you that my parents also wanted it at the beginning, if it weren't for the two of them to see that you are really honest and have gone to school, they wouldn't have agreed to let me be with you!"

Father Fan pouted: "Okay, okay, I can't talk about you." ”

"Of course you can't talk about me if you don't pay attention!" Fan's mother snorted.

Two days later, Fan's mother handed over all the bride price to Fan Shasha in front of Fan's father, and said to her seriously: "Sasha, Mom and Dad interfered with you and Xiaoju before, don't blame us, we really think about your good." I asked Xiao Ju for a bride price, not to embarrass him, but now this money is for you...... Don't give it to Xiaoju, keep it yourself, and don't tell him. Girls must have some money on them at all times, so that they can have confidence. ”

Father Fan laughed on the side and said, "Your mother is sometimes nervous, don't listen to her, how can there be any secrets between husband and wife?"

"What do you know?" Fan's mother glared at Fan's father, "You are nervous, you don't know what to plan for your daughter's future!"

Fan Shasha looked at the pair with a smile, and even though they were arguing, she could see a strong sense of love.

Then she and Ju Ze picked a date to get the certificate with the help of their parents.

On the first day of receiving the certificate, Ju Ze went to the detention center without telling everyone and met his father.

On the other side of the glass window, he could see that his father was much older than before, he used to be a pampered man, but now, his hair was almost completely white, and his wrinkles were deep.

He picked up the microphone and said, "Dad, I'm getting married." ”