Because I was looking for a job in Nanjing, I took annual leave from the Beijing company, and I had a week to send my resume and find a job at home.

After Jiang Xi listened to my embarrassing narration, she almost didn't hesitate to say, "Give up this job, husband, I am very confident in your education and ability, there are few job opportunities in Nanjing, but it doesn't mean that there is none, you just lack an opportunity, sometimes you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, maybe you wait a week longer, or even a month, and a good opportunity will appear." ”

"But wife, I don't want you to take your children to Nanjing first, I'll worry about you, but if I resign now, I'm worried that if I don't have a job, our family's mortgage will be cut off?"

Now I have a loan of 600,000 yuan, and I have to repay more than 3,000 yuan a month.

Jiang Xi smiled and hugged my shoulders, looking like a big sister and said, "Don't worry, everything has a wife and I'm here, what are you afraid of?"

Do you rely on 600 yuan a month for full attendance?

I blinked and cautiously asked, "Wife, are you ......a month now?" Can you make a thousand dollars?"

"Huh?" Jiang Xi was immediately stunned for a moment, as if she didn't expect that I would ask such a question, it was like a temporary surprise inspection, and then, she looked at me obscurely, bit her lip, and blinked her big beautiful eyes weakly, and said, "That...... Probably, probably, almost closely. ”

Me, "......". Cough!

Can she be expected to repay the loan? Every breath is so big, and she is there to repay everything, don't be afraid!

I can only secretly express these complaints with my eyes...... Nothing more.

As a result, she laughed heartlessly in the next second, "Hehehehehe! Husband, you really don't have to worry so much, there will be difficulties, but I have a solution." ”

I looked at her dumbfounded, optimistic, and silent.

Jiang Xi rolled his eyes and said, "First of all, I hope you don't resign first, ride a donkey to find a horse, isn't there still a week left? ”

I sighed and said, "I have looked for familiar colleagues, and everyone said that it was too difficult to find a job with such a high salary in Nanjing. ”

"Then find colleagues and classmates who usually don't have much contact," Jiang Xi said, "and now you have to cast a net mostly and focus on selection." ”

I thought to myself, my wife is good at everything, but sometimes she is too optimistic and blindly confident, of course, she is often blindly confident in me, and I am not confident in myself, she always says that I must do it, I will do a hammer! I am sad to death.

She probably saw my expression, smiled and pinched my face and said, " You really don't have to worry too much, let's think about the worst, there is nothing to be afraid of, if, I mean, if, after a while, you can't find a job in Nanjing, and you don't want to be separated from me and your children, then I will sell the house in Beijing, the price dropped last year, fortunately we didn't sell, this year it has risen again, and now the house price of my house has risen to 80,000 square meters, even if you are in a hurry to sell, a little cheaper, you will definitely be able to sell it soon, and then there will be four in hand. Five million, what are you worried about the 3,000 yuan mortgage a month?"

"How can this house be sold, and if it is sold, it will be bought again. ”

I was actually reluctant to sell it and buy it again, and I was even more reluctant to spend the house money as living expenses like Yang Xiaojun, and I always felt that it was hard to buy a house in this life, and if we sold it, we would have no more.

Jiang Xi said disapprehantly, "Oh husband, why are you so rigid in your brain, when we are short of money, what is there to sell? We can repay the loan, and the rest of the money can be bought as big as we can, don't force everything, whether it is money or a house, it must serve our happy life, and we can't let ourselves become money slaves or house slaves." ”

Her words hit me so hard that I couldn't tell if she was right or wrong.

She seemed to feel that she couldn't move me, and continued to make persistent efforts, "While we have money and a house, we must enjoy it in a happy state without pressure, so that money and the house can really play its meaning, on the contrary, if we are burdened by the house and money, it will be meaningless! I would rather not have a big house, and still live in the 37.4 square house before us, and continue to enjoy the happiness without pressure." ”

I thought about it, it seems that this is the truth, when we don't have a house, we are stressed, there is no way, but now we can completely adjust, as long as we are not greedy, we don't have to bear so much pressure.

My heart began to be slowly moved by her, and the discomfort in my heart was relieved a lot.

Jiang Xi put his arm around my shoulders and continued to persuade me step by step, "Regarding the issue of buying a second house, I have always felt that it is the icing on the cake, not an imperative thing, it is better, it doesn't matter if there is not, why do we live our lives like hunger with a golden meal?"

I finally laughed, and now I thought she was right.

"Wife, you're right, I'm not sad now, even if I can't find a job, I also learn from Yang Xiaojun, when I get to Nanjing, wouldn't it be good to help you take care of your children at home every day!"

Jiang Xi immediately said passionately, "Husband, it's too right for you to think like this, if you are really unemployed, help me do housework and take care of the children at home, so that I can write wholeheartedly, maybe I will be on fire, now I have too many things to do every day, so it is understandable that I can't be popular......."

So, wife, do you understand yourself now?

"Really, I'll tell you, that's like that, maybe I can really be popular, and at that time, I will earn you 30,000 or 50,000 a month, and 300,000 or 500,000 a year is also possible. ”

I, the dream of "......" is so beautiful! but ...... I feel that it is more reliable to sell a house to support a family.

What I said was, "Okay, wife, I know, I'll do as you say, if you really can't find a job in Nanjing, you sell the house, and then I'll go to Nanjing to find you." ”

"Oh yes, then you won't be upset now, will you?"

"Isn't it annoying? Sure enough, everything has a wife, and there is no problem that can't be solved. ”

"Sycophants!"

"Hey, hey!"

"Since you are not annoyed, do something that should be done, don't waste time, waste is shameful, whether it is something, or time, you use this afternoon's time, call all the people who can call, don't take care of the face, maybe the face you take care of, is the deliberate alienation of you in the eyes of others, so, don't live in self-righteousness, say what you should say, as for whether people help you, it's not a question you should consider, but whether people help you or not, you are happy to accept it, always put a sentence in your heart'Seek things in people, and achieve things in heaven', it should be that you can't run away, it's not your reluctance and useless, so that your mentality will always be very balanced. ”

I looked at her little face that seemed to be shining, and said with a smile, "I was taught by Teacher Jiang." ”

She smiled and squinted at me, "I won the Jiang Gong!"

"Hahahaha!"

We had laughed enough, and she said, "Today's mission must be completed, and tomorrow I'm going to take you to an event." ”

"What kind of activity. ”

"I'll tell you tomorrow. ”

I raised an eyebrow and looked at her meaningfully, "Why didn't you let me guess?"

She laughed, "Because I know you can't guess, but what I asked you to guess, you never seemed to guess, hahaha!"

I, "......", hurt my self-esteem!

I used the afternoon to call everyone I knew and related to my work, just like Jiang Xi said, whether they were familiar or unfamiliar, and whether there had been a small friction before, they all called again anyway.

But there is one thing that is very wonderful, I remember a colleague and I had a little friction before, it was a little embarrassing at the time, and then it was no longer a company, and everyone did not contact him again, this time I took the initiative to call him, completely when that little friction did not happen, I found that he seemed to be very enthusiastic about me, as if I called him, as if to give him a surprise.

And most of the other people's responses to me were to say lightly, "If I have the chance, I will look for you." ”

He was the only one who said to me, "I'll ask you today!"

Then I naturally responded enthusiastically, "Thank you so much!"

He said, "You're welcome, we're all colleagues!"

The moment I hung up the phone, I was more and more grateful to Jiang Xi for teaching me, no matter whether this colleague could help me find a job or not, I knew because of this time I begged him for help, it turned out that he was not angry with me, it turned out that he was actually looking forward to my call, it turned out that he was a very good colleague.

After I finished the phone call in the afternoon, Jiang Xi began to pull me to eat, she made a hearty dinner, and said to me with a smile, "Now is the time to eat deliciously, put down all those things at work, the opportunity to come will come at the right time, if you don't come, you can't think about it." ”

"Yes, wife, I will listen to you for everything. ”

That night we ate mackerel stewed tofu made by Jiang Xi, Jiang Xi said, this is a home-cooked dish in the Northeast, which means "more than blessed", our family of three has a sense of satisfaction that is full of wine and food, full of ditches, and the mood is quiet and happy.

The next day, after sending Jiang Dongxi to school, Jiang Xi took me with her, dressed up brightly, and went to attend the celebration of her alma mater, the Adult Education Film and Television Professional School of Beijing Normal University.

The site of this school is borrowed from the site of the old Fu Jen School, and the buildings and scenery inside have a sense of mystery and depth of simplicity and history.

Jiang Xi took me around the back garden of the school, the scenery was very good, all kinds of flowers and plants were lush and vibrant, but none of them looked brighter with the smile on Jiang Xi's face.

Jiang Xi smiled and said, "I miss it so much, when I used to study here, I didn't think it was so beautiful, but now after so many years, I understand that I spent my most youthful years here." ”

I put my arms around her and felt with her, in this immersive stage, it seemed to be able to make up for the lack of me in her youth.

When the time came, Jiang Xi pulled me towards the auditorium.

The auditorium was already full of people, and here, I saw the classmates I had invited to the banquet when Jiang Xigang and I had just received the certificate, except for Yang Lin.

Jin Dan brought Cheng Ke here, and at the beginning of the conference, Jin Dan and Jiang Xi went to greet the old classmates arm in arm, and I sat in the corner with Cheng Ke to watch the excitement.

Cheng Ke said to me with a smile, "Do you feel that it is amazing that the two of us appeared at our daughter-in-law's school celebration party as family members at the same time?" ”

I smiled and said, "yes, it's like we're brothers-in-law." ”

"Hahahaha!"

We both laughed.

Cheng Ke sighed, "Oh, I never dreamed that I, Cheng Ke, would still have such a fate with you Jiangdong, but all this is because you saved my life, if you didn't save me at that time, how much happiness would I have missed!"

I patted Cheng Ke on the shoulder, "Let's not mention this, just look forward and don't look back." ”

The road of human growth is a train that only goes and does not return, do not want to change the past, only the future can be changed.

When the pain is unbearable, throwing it away is the best option.

The good things and bad things in the past are all in the past after all, don't be entangled and don't be nostalgic, let the years become years, regrets are regrets, you can miss the past, but you can't stop moving, when you feel the loneliest and most painful, it is also the time when you grow the fastest.

I chatted with Cheng Ke, and what we didn't expect was that at the beginning of the conference, we were pleasantly surprised to see several celebrities.

"That's ...... The famous director X Hao, right? That's the actor xx wave, right? And that xx Ming?"

Cheng Ke asked me in surprise.

I was also shocked, "yes, it's them, why are they here?"

Just when the two of us were wondering, they both went up to the stage to speak, and then the gray-haired teacher next to them looked at them with bright eyes as if he had seen his life's achievements.

It turns out that these people used to graduate from this school!

Cheng Ke and I were a little confused.

Cheng Ke said, "No, I've read the information of these stars before, but I haven't seen any of them write about this adult education school." ”

Jiang Xi and Jin Dan walked up to us with a smile.

Jin Dan said, "They used to be regular undergraduates, and then they came to study in this adult school, in fact, they are just like me, haha! After they became famous, they all went to Beijing Film Academy to study for a while, and the academic qualifications that broke out were from the film academy, and they deleted the experience they had studied here from their resumes, after all, it is adult education, and it is disgraceful to say it." ”

Jiang Xi followed her words and said with a smile, "However, it is undeniable that they are all talented people, so gold will shine wherever it is, and don't look down on adult education, adult education, because some people are already very old to study, precisely because of this, there may be bosses, civil servants, and rich second generations who have not studied well among their classmates, such as Jin Dan's classmate ......."

"Oh, don't mention me," Jin Dan covered his face, "Shame on me! I was the only one of my high school classmates who didn't get into a regular university." ”

Jiang Xi continued to smile and said, " For example, one of our seniors in the last session was Jiang XX, the younger brother of a big star, and when I was studying for a college upgrade, who would have thought that a boy sitting in my back seat who studied seriously every day was actually the director of a harmful food inspection center in Beijing, a national civil servant, as for how people became people, it is not something we can care about, anyway, I mean, don't underestimate adult education, if MBA is a channel for business elites to collect resources, then adult education is a channel for ordinary staff to accumulate resources and learn knowledge by the way, the most important thing is to yourself, whether you are a person with a heart, if you have a heart, opportunities are everywhere!"

If I hadn't taken this adult college entrance examination car, I wouldn't have known Jiang Xi and Cheng Ke. ”

"Hahahaha!"

Everyone was amused by Jin Dan.

It's really good to see Jin Dan and Cheng Ke now, instead of just being good on the surface like many second-married couples, but there are endless crises hidden inside, Jiang Xi and I are very pleased.

After the stars finished speaking, they left the school with their assistants and bodyguards, in fact, here, no one asked them for autographs at all, and no one stopped their way to take a group photo.

After Jiang Xi and Jin Dan chatted with the teachers for a while, the four of us began to leave.

Out of the school, we saw rows of luxury cars at the door to pick up the beauties.

And there are not many couples who are really age-appropriate, most of them are young girls who get into the old man's car, some are even old man's car, and there are also some young little brothers who get into the car of those fat and rich women.

This society is so corrupt, we can't change the society, but we must at least keep our hearts, and what everyone does is not necessarily right!

In this life, people must have their own opinions and discernment, otherwise...... You have the ability to marry a daughter-in-law like Jiang Xi to distinguish for you, hehe!

When I came back from school, it was already evening, and the four of us could have a meal together, but Jiang Xi said that we all had to go back to our own places to pick up the children, and there was no need to make so much trouble for a meal.

At night, when Jiang Xi and Jiang were playing in bed, although I looked at them and smiled, in fact, I was a little anxious in my heart, because I was waiting for a job opportunity!

I look at Jiang Xi's appearance, she really doesn't seem to be worried at all, is it because she has a number in her stomach, so she doesn't panic in her heart?

What I didn't expect was that the surprise would come so quickly.

It was the colleague who had a little holiday with me before, and he replied to me enthusiastically, "Jiangdong, your luck is really good, I contacted a foreign company, he just lacks a person, and the type of work you are good at, I think it is very suitable, and the company is very anxious, burning eyebrows." ”

When I heard this, my heart lit up halfway, and I quickly asked the most important question, "Can you let me go to Nanjing to work?"

The colleague said, "I asked you, there is no limit to the place of work, do you say it is okay? They all solve bugs online, and there are branches in Beijing and Nanjing, so you can be wherever you want." ”

I shouted in my heart: I'm a mother.

He pretended to be calm and said, "That's great." ”

"It's Anfu X, you should know, right?" he was excited.

I immediately said, "You know, it's a big international company." ”

It's just that this is a non-original company, which means that the products sold by this company are all products of other companies, which is equivalent to a second-tier selling company, and naturally there is no future for the original company, but I can't manage so much, the salary given by the big company will not be low, and I can go to Nanjing, then I am already very satisfied.

So, after I thanked the colleague for a thousand kindnesses, the colleague told me that tomorrow morning at 9 o'clock, let me call the leader for an interview.

This is a rush job, and I am even more happy in my heart, they are in a hurry, and their interview requirements for me will be much relaxed.

Hanging up the phone, I happily told Jiang Xi about it, Jiang Xi was naturally happy for me, she held Jiang in her arms, looked at me ambiguously and said, "You are really my excellent husband!

I said with a humble face, "It's just good luck, thank you wife, I think with a wife like you, luck won't be bad." ”

Jiang Xi's mouth grinned even wider, "Is it time for us to tout each other?"

Before I could say anything, Jiang Dongxi shouted on the side, "Mom is the most beautiful, Dad is the most handsome, and I am the loveliest!" You all praise each other without mentioning me, it's too much. ”

She puffed out her little bun face and pretended to be unhappy.

Jiang Xi and I kissed her on the cheek at the same time, and she immediately put one hand around our necks, sighed and said, "I'm so happy, why do you love me so much?

She looked at us with a look of curiosity and asked the question earnestly.

Jiang Xi and I didn't answer for a while.

After a while, Jiang Xi held Jiang Dongxi's little face, looked at Jiang Dongxi deeply, and said, "Because you are the crystallization of the love of your father and mother, because you are the continuation of your father's and mother's lives, because you have the blood of your father and mother flowing in your body." ”

Jiang Dongxi's eyes flashed brightly, and after listening to Jiang Xi's words, he turned his head to look at me again, "Dad can say a few words too?"

I said in my heart: My father is not as good as my mother's literary talents, and my mother has said all the good sentences, and she didn't leave me some.

"Dad!" Jiang Dongxi's eyes began to be a little disappointed.

As soon as I saw her little bun face, I was immediately inspired, "Because you look exactly the same as your father, there is no second you in this world, can I not love you?"

"Hehehehehe! Dad said well, I can understand what Dad said, Mom said what nonsense. ”

Jiang Xi, "......".

I looked at Jiang Xi proudly, and I had a feeling that I usually had no chance to win against Jiang Xi, but at this moment, I unintentionally overtook a game, so cool!

"What's the name of this colleague who introduced you to work? You have to remember that you will have the opportunity to repay others in the future!" Jiang Xi said before going to bed.

I, "......", because I usually have little contact, after thinking about it for a long time, I actually forgot the name of this colleague.

Oh! I remembered it, my name is Sun Zhengdong, I didn't find it before, but now I feel that just listening to the name is a good person! I will remember, Sun Zhengdong!

Unexpectedly, many years later, this Sun Zhengdong also went to Nanjing, and I repaid the favor owed to him according to Jiang Xi's instructions.

At night, when the two of them were asleep, I couldn't sleep because of the job opportunity in Nanjing, and I just hoped that there would be no problems, and it would be smooth!

The next day, I called the company's leaders on time for an interview.

At first, it was a polite greeting, the leader seemed very kind, and then after chatting about some professional knowledge about routers and switches, the leader showed more interest in me, and at the same time, his emotions were also exposed, and he was really anxious to recruit employees in this position quickly.

It can be said that the interview process went unprecedentedly smooth, and finally the leader said, "You wait for the call from human resources." ”

Hang up the phone, my heart is already half of the ground, if the general leader approves, human resources will not be stuck for no reason.

After another day of anxious, nervous, and excited, I finally waited for a call from human resources.