In fact, there is no such thing as poor people's thinking and rich people's thinking, and it is still used to the chicken soup for the soul of successful learning. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

Saying that the rich should be like that, or the poor should be like that, has the flavor of a framed person.

There is always a reason why you are poor or why you are rich. Everyone's opportunities are different, or everyone's family environment, education level is the cause of the gap between rich and poor.

Whether poverty leads to wrong thinking, or wrong thinking leads to poverty, Li He is unclear about the order of cause and effect.

For example, he knows an economic truth, and understands that "spending money to save time" is much more economically reasonable than "spending time to save money", but after his income rises, he still can't change the way he picks and searches.

Now it is the same for He Fang, who will not easily change his previous thinking just because he has money. Especially people like Wang Yulan, who are now also rich people, their thinking can't be changed, and they don't have to expect to have that so-called rich thinking for the rest of their lives.

But he Li Lao Er transitioned from a poor person to a well-off, and he has the clearest understanding of the psychology in this.

If he were asked to explain some of the reasons, the term 'information asymmetry' would pop up in his head, and it was information asymmetry that caused the poor to get poorer and the rich to get richer. When he was ignorant, like his parents, he stood in a low place, and always had a blind spot in the cognition of the high place.

What changed him?

It is reading, and through reading, the cognitive gap and information gap with people are narrowed

So that's why he supports the idea that knowledge changes destiny anyway.

In addition to education, there are other easy ways to alleviate poverty.

What diligent sweat is best used in reading, to put it mildly, reading is the best shortcut to become rich. Of course, with the advent of the Internet era, everyone relies on fragmented knowledge, thinks they are broad, everyone thinks they have made up for the information gap, and they don't know, and knowledge is also deep.

After the things were bought, Li He didn't need to ask to know that He Fang was reluctant to go shopping anymore, everything that involved spending money, she was a hundred unhappy, the things she bought were basically for her children, she basically didn't buy it herself, which has nothing to do with more money and less money.

He walked down the street with three women, which caused a lot of head-turning, not because of him, he is a domineering president with a stupid face, outsiders don't know his details, that is, a passerby. What caused frequent attention from passers-by was nothing more than three beautiful women!

He Fang is a tight-fitting jeans, stretching her legs to be slender and durable, and her figure is looking exquisite.

The fourth child stroked his long hair blown by the wind with his hand, and a faint smile hung on his mouth, which made people feel kind.

Even the fifth child has grown up, with a smile on his face that is so happy whenever and wherever he is, running around the front and back.

The twenty-fourth day of the lunar month is a small year, and it is a festival to worship the stove king.

However, in some northern places, the New Year was celebrated on the twenty-third day, and she and Li He had a long dispute over which day to celebrate the New Year, and finally ended in her victory.

"Twenty-three, the sugar melon is sticky, and the old man of the stove wants to go to heaven. ”

The so-called sugar melon is sugar made from yellow rice and malt.

But where to get sugar melons?

The sugar melons in supermarkets and candy stores always made her feel that something was wrong, the taste was too sweet, and there must be cane sugar and alum in it.

The authentic sugar melon tastes slightly sour, crispy, sweet and crispy, and has a unique flavor. There is no honeycomb in the middle, and when it is made, it takes 4 hours to make the pulp, and in addition, it needs to knead the sugar, etc., and it takes at least a day to make it completely.

She and the fourth child walked along the streets, and the two of them finally found the sugar melon in an inconspicuous small storefront, of course, they were full of joy.

She is the most particular about these rules, no less backward than those of the old school, and these rules, visible and invisible, pervade every aspect of daily life and big and small things.

Li He's attention to He Fang is really helpless, maybe on what occasion and when, they will pop up and restrain his words and deeds.

He Fang said that rules are sometimes a person's upbringing, and only if you don't have an upbringing, you can be disgusted.

Li He was speechless.

He Fang let the aunt at home go home, people's hearts are flesh and blood, who doesn't want to go home for the Spring Festival and reunite with relatives, she can't delay the New Year for her own family. She once wanted to quit her aunt, she was already past her confinement, a person has hands and feet, and wherever she wants someone to serve, she has a sense of guilt.

But as soon as I said this to my aunt, my aunt was shocked, tears were about to come out, and she asked if she had done something wrong. In this way, He Fang felt even more guilty, and never mentioned the matter of resigning from her aunt, her heart was always soft.

Besides, this aunt takes care of the child, she is really intimate and decent, and she is reluctant.

She thought that the money for two more bottles of wine would be enough for her aunt's salary.

Li He looked at his aunt's frown when she left, and probably knew that her aunt was unhappy, and people were willing to make more money during the Spring Festival. As long as there are visitors during the Spring Festival, she will have red envelopes to welcome guests.

He shouted to his aunt, "Sister Jiang, it's early after the New Year." ”

"Good. Good. Then I'll come over in the third year of junior high school," Sister Jiang turned around and said happily, but hurriedly changed her words, "No, no, I'll come on the first day of junior high school." In case there is a visitor at home, the girl can't be busy alone. ”

In the employment relationship of housekeeping, young aunts generally call older uncles and aunts, and when they meet younger ones, they directly call their surnames and say hello. Aunties usually tell them what to call when they introduce their employers.

She was introduced by Yu Dehua, so naturally she called Mr. Li and Mrs. Li as soon as she came.

Li He doesn't care, He Fang is against it, just call the big sister.

Auntie has finally shouted smoothly from the beginning of the twisting and pinching, she has also done a lot of housekeeping over the years, and the only difference this one gives is respect. The family is very kind to her, one does not put on a score, the other does not scold, she likes such a master's family, as long as people give her respect, she is extraordinarily energetic in her work.

He Fang took advantage of the child's sleep to start cleaning, the fourth child was naturally not idle, she picked up the fifth child to give her a stool, she stood on the stool with a feather duster to sweep the gray layer in the corner of the roof.

After the roof was cleared, she wiped the glass, washed the sheets, and mopped the floor......

also forcibly pulled Lao Wu to help clear the range hood and microwave oven, the dirtiest things in the kitchen.

The fifth child was naturally unhappy, but he still couldn't resist the fourth child's pick-up.

She can't say why she doesn't quarrel with the fourth child now, she probably thinks that the fourth child is right, the sisters eat and drink for nothing every day, and they really become pigs. She sighed, and to prove that she wasn't a pig, she took the rag and pressed it against the glass of the window.