My silence made Sun Zhengdong understand my doubts, he explained, "The medical treatment here is indeed not as developed as China, the main reason is that there are many patients in China, so the doctors are naturally experienced, but now it is not a problem of underdevelopment, a fracture is not an incurable disease, the general plaster cast is good, but the public hospitals in New Zealand have to queue up, the fracture is so painful that they scream, and they are not treated immediately, and the doctor lets them go home and raise them themselves, how can this stand it, and if there is a problem, the bones are crooked, so don't you fall into disability?" These days have also made me angry, private hospitals are so expensive to death, the two of us combined, let her return to China for treatment, even if it costs air tickets, travel expenses are cheaper than private hospitals in New Zealand, and indeed our domestic medical technology level is higher, more reassuring, just along the way you take care of me I am also relieved. ”

When I heard this, I was surprised and asked, "Aren't you going back?"

Sun Zhengdong said, "I also want to accompany her back, but the company didn't ask for leave, and my son's study can't be delayed, he is an important stage of learning languages, so after we discussed, I think that letting her return to China by herself is mainly to trouble you to take care of it along the way, get off the plane, and Tang Xin will drive to pick her up." ”

"Don't worry, we'll do our best to take care of her!" I told him.

I can also see that Sun Zhengdong is very worried about her lover's return to China by herself, this incident suddenly reminded me of a post I saw before, saying that a New Zealand woman had a small tumor on her face, and she could have done an operation to cut it off, but when she went to the hospital, she was in line, and the condition dragged on for half a year, the tumor became malignant, and half of the woman's face had to be removed, and despite this, the woman only had less than three years left to live, and the woman cried bitterly and complained about the cruelty of the New Zealand medical system, and she was even more worried about her three young children. Sadness.

It was originally a small problem, a small operation, and it didn't cost much, but it was delayed like this.

In this way, this free medical care really has nothing to be nostalgic for, isn't it a fracture and you have to go back to China for treatment? It sounds terrible! And some serious and serious diseases are not included in the free medical care, and you need to buy your own insurance, so it seems that it is really not much better than China's medical care, at least in China, some minor diseases can be cured quickly for a small amount of money.

In New Zealand, even if you want to find a doctor to treat a cold, you have to queue up, and after a week, the cold will either get better or ...... It is difficult to say in a word! New Zealand's Western medicine can not be bought casually, you have to find a family doctor to register and prescribe, I heard that the registration fee is more expensive than medicine, and Chinese medicine is sold by Chinese pharmacies, which is even more expensive to death! In short, in fact, New Zealand is a "gold cave", if you really have tens of millions of pocket money, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery there for a long time, so as to bring a beautiful mood, otherwise, to say something unpleasant, just like that, not to say that it is good to be a worker over there, we are not more serious.

Anyway, the idea that "foreign monks will recite scriptures" has existed in China since ancient times.

When it comes to medical care, it inevitably reminds me of welfare, all say that Western countries have good welfare, this time I also figured it out, no country's welfare is so easy to take, New Zealand mainly gives relief funds to families with low income, as soon as you hear the word "relief", you know that the money will not be much, that is, if you want to be lazy and think that you can enjoy happiness in New Zealand, it is impossible, not only will you be despised, but also live on the relief money, you are equivalent to drinking porridge and eating pickles in the country, barely living.

To tell the truth, if someone is willing to drink porridge and eat pickles in China, with our Chinese economic level, everyone can live a relaxed life, and the reason why everyone is living hard is not to make more money?

I have friends who deliver food and express delivery, and the delivery people told me that in summer or rainy days, basically they don't do it from morning to four or five o'clock in the afternoon, at that time they can earn more than 500 yuan a day, almost 15,000 a month, if you don't buy a house, only live, if you want to eat something good, it is still easy to eat, I don't know how many times better than the New Zealanders who live on welfare, and live with more dignity.

Anyway, if it were me, I would rather deliver food in China than go to New Zealand to receive welfare to live, and as for pension insurance, isn't it now possible for anyone in China to buy it? In this way, New Zealand's welfare is not much better than China's.

No matter how you calculate, China is better, and China's welfare in all aspects is still developing, while New Zealand is developing at a speed like a snail.

I don't know that much about other Western countries, but in so many other Western countries that are so good, in the corners of major cities, there are still a large number of local slums, and a large number of refugees from other places who are prone to riots!

Before we were about to get on the plane, Li Jinsheng called me again, and he told me, "Sun Chen also returned to China today, and he had a flight with us, and Sun Chen told him that if he met me, he would meet him, and if he didn't, forget it." ”

"Oh!"

When I was thinking about it, Li Jinsheng said again, "Sun Chen is returning to China for funeral, his old man died last night, I heard that it means that it is too late to see the last face, a sudden stroke, cough!" In recent years, in our middle-aged Chinese circle of friends, we can often hear who returned to China for funeral, and it was too late to see the last face, and it seemed to become a curse as a general punishment, so that our middle-aged children feel guilty and leave a lifetime of regrets......"

Li Jinsheng said in the end, choked up!

Yes, just think about it, you can know that if you work here and your children go to school here, you can't go back whenever you want, and when you have to go back, your relatives won't wait for you.

Life is impermanent, how can it all be as you want?

When we got on the plane, although it was hanging in the air, our family of three was very calm.

Along the way, Sun Zhengdong's lover "hummed and chirped" and shouted that her leg hurt, Jiang Xi comforted her as quietly as possible, helped her find her mobile phone, headphones, and funny videos to distract her.

When more than 12 hours later, when the plane landed on the land of China, my heart felt an unprecedented sense of steadfastness like returning to the roots.

I told myself that in the future, I won't go to anyone's country, I will stay in my own country, just like Jiang Xi said, when I go to other countries, there is always a feeling of being a son to someone else's family, that is not my biological parents, only in my own motherland, there is a feeling of being in the arms of my biological parents.

At this moment, I remembered an article I had read, and I felt even deeper:

If you feel that your homeland is not good, you go and build it; If you think the government is not good, you go to the civil service examination and become an official; If you feel that the people are not qualified, start with you to be a high-quality citizen; If you feel that your compatriots are ignorant, start with you to learn and change the people around you, instead of insulting, complaining, and running away.

The place where you stand is your China, and China will be what you are, China will be what you are, and if you are bright, China will not be dark.

May the young people of China get rid of negative energy emotions, be positive in everything, do not listen to the rumors of those who give up on themselves, there is a point of heat, a point of light, even if it is a firefly, it can also give people hope in the dark, not to mention that the spark of a spark can start a prairie fire! Everyone gathers firewood and the flame is high! The spark of unity can gather into a torch sooner or later! Illuminate the world!

For those who take the money they earn in China and go abroad to enjoy their lives while still unscrupulously scolding China for being bad, I just want to say one thing: the son raised by his parents with hard work will give him the opportunity to have enough food and clothing and make money, and the son will use the money earned from his parents to build the homes of other parents, and when he returns, he will scold his biological parents for being ugly!

The son is not ugly to the mother, and the dog is not to be poor......! I can only sigh pathetic!

Don't you see...... In other words, you avoid the ugliness of other countries, and always compare the beauty of other countries with the ugliness of our country, but you don't know that there is never a perfect country in this world.

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Back in Nanjing, we lived in the Baiyunyuan community again, Jiangxi went to school normally, and I received a call from the new company's human resources to negotiate wages.

Salary is a big thing for everyone, and I am no exception, so about this matter, I have discussed with Jiang Xi before, I originally thought that the salary will be reported as much as the original foreign company, and the normal job change will rise by 10% to 30%, and I am naturally worried that the salary will be high, and people don't want me anymore.

As a result, Jiang Xi said, "Such a big company, will not be bad at all for the salary of employees, they choose you, it proves that you have strength, you only need to quote the highest price within a reasonable quotation range, and in the end how much can you rise, then let it be!" When you say, don't be too hard, you just say how much you want, don't say how much you must, so that you can also give human resources a chance to bargain, if the human resources people cut some prices, it also means that his work is done well, it is his performance, right?"

Although I am still a little empty in my heart, I think what Jiang Xi said is too reasonable, and I am not allowed to refute it at all, mainly I don't want to refute it!

So I reported to the other party with a worried heart, "I hope my salary will increase by about 30% on the original basis!"

The reply to me was, "You wait for us to discuss and give you the news!"

"Good!"

This is good, I said it quite calmly, but I became more and more flustered in my heart, and I couldn't calm down.

Everyone wants their wages to be higher, but if you want a higher salary, you also run the risk of being killed.

For three days, I lay on the bed and was worried, but Jiang Xi said very calmly, "If they don't agree, they will definitely cut your price, and they won't directly say that they don't need you, if they cut the price, you will show a very face-saving look for human resources, accept it, don't worry!"

I, "......" she said very reasonably, but I still lay on the bed with a pillow and didn't want to move!

Finally, just after nine o'clock in the morning on the third day, I received a call from human resources.

"Hey, Mr. Jiangdong, after discussion, we feel that we can only give you a 25 percent increase in wages, and a 30 percent increase feels a bit too much, do you think you can accept it? To be honest, a 25 percent increase is already a lot, and we will give you 80 percent of the basic salary and 20 percent of the performance, which is invisibly more beneficial to you than other companies.

I could hear that HR was also cautious, as if he was afraid that I would refuse.

I was so excited that I wanted to agree immediately, but I was afraid that I would be too active and arouse the suspicion of the other party, so I deliberately controlled my excitement and slowed down for a few minutes.

The other party thought I was hesitating, so he said, "Mr. Jiang, the price we give is reasonable, and it is impossible for ordinary companies to give as much as you want, right?"

When he was completely finished, and I felt that I was about to die, I said, "Since you are so sincere, then I will accept it!"

The other party immediately breathed a sigh of relief and said with a smile, "I welcome you on behalf of xxx company, and I will be able to send you the offer in the afternoon." ”

"Okay, thank you!"

Hung up the phone, I almost smashed the phone happily, the moment I raised my hand, Jiang Xi glared at me, I immediately clenched the phone tightly, this phone has been with me for almost three years, although the speed is a little slow, but it is quite emotional to use, hehe! Now I feel that everything is bright.

Jiang Xi looked at me smugly and said, "How is it?

I immediately picked her up and kissed her hard, "Wife, you are so powerful, you can not only see accurately, you are simply a god operator, I want to go if it doesn't go up a point, and now it has risen by 25%, it's a big surprise!"

"Congratulations, husband, you're the best!" Jiang Xi looked at me with sparkling eyes.

"It's a fart, I can only say, the sky won't kill me, hahahaha!"

She suddenly touched my face, her eyes flashed with a sparkling light, and said, "Stupid child, God loves, you are so good, and you are so stupid, God will love you!

"I love you even more!"

Jiang Xi and I hugged each other tightly, we both cried, what kind of feeling is that? Complementing each other? are not enough to express this feeling, I think, it should be each other's heart and blood are rooted in each other's body and mind, two trees have grown into one tree!

When I received the offer in the afternoon, my heart finally fell to the ground.

Next, it went relatively smoothly, the physical examination, the submission of materials, and then, I went to Hangzhou to join the company.

Originally, Jiang Xi said that we could take back our house for me to live in, but the company said that the company would provide me with a place to live, so our house would not have to be taken back.

The first month of employment, I feel that everything is good, I work overtime until more than twelve o'clock every day, I don't feel tired, it is a sense of cherishing that has been lost and regained, thinking that I am still a little useful, and I have not become a waste, it is really good, really, only people who have experienced it know how good it is, how precious!

But after the freshness of the past month, another feeling of helplessness has become stronger and stronger, and the joy of getting back to work has taken my place.

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