Chapter 196: Where is everyone's bottom line?
"I just want to tell them that the door of their house has really, and very seriously affected my life......."
"And then? What else? No matter what you say, they won't accept it, and they won't fix it. I said puzzled.
Jiang Xi smiled again," That's not necessarily, I always have a good view of anyone, I think people sometimes lose their temper, or will scare people, it seems quite unreasonable, in fact, many times it does not mean that such a person is a bad person, maybe she was just in a bad mood because of something in her heart at the time, for example, watching the news, there are many people who quarrel because of a trivial matter, and then kill people with a knife, in fact, the person who killed is not necessarily a bad person on weekdays, he is just impulsive at the moment of killing. β
In this way, there is some truth.
For example, if someone has done a bad thing in his life and suddenly does a good thing, everyone will say, "This person is not so bad", and if someone has done a good thing in his life and suddenly does a bad thing, people will say, "This person is not a good person!"
In fact, it is really difficult to define good people and bad people with one thing.
Jiang Xi continued, "I don't think our next-door neighbor is not like a bad person's family, maybe they can't accept my advice just now, and their temper is a little big, I don't quarrel with them, just achieve the purpose I want to tell them about this, and then, I wait for them to reflect on themselves, and when they reflect, they will repair the door." β
Me, "......".
"Wife, I think you're thinking too much. β
Jiang Xi smiled again and said, "I think it's still possible, some people are rectum, impatient, when others say that they are not good, the first reaction is to go back, but after finding that they are wrong, they will still silently correct it, there are many people like this, and I am sometimes like this." β
Since Jiang Xi has the illusion that everyone has good expectations, then I don't need to hit her, so I said, "Okay, I hope your dream comes true, and I hope everyone can wake up and repent of themselves before the big mistake is made under impulse!"
This can be regarded as a kind of good expectation for people, but I didn't expect that Jiang Xi's expectation would come true the next day.
It was noon again when we were about to take a nap, and we used to hear the door next door every day, but today at noon we heard the aunt next door and her daughter talking to a master.
The aunt's daughter said, "Master, do you think it can be repaired?"
She said as she pulled the door open and listened to the harsh voice for the master.
The master said, "It shouldn't be difficult, I'll just put two wheels on it." β
The aunt's daughter immediately said happily, "Oh, that's great, you know this, you know how to get it at a glance, we don't understand, we think it's so difficult." β
The master said, "It's okay, I'll fix it for you in a while!"
The master fiddled there for a few moments, and the shrill voice grew quieter and quieter.
After a while, the master asked the aunt as he pulled the door, "Do you think this will work?"
The aunt immediately said loudly to the master, "It's good, it's good, it's good, there's no sound, it's great." β
Her daughter said to them in the house, "It's mainly the neighbors who complain that they think the sound is harsh, and there is no way to fix it." β
At this time, we heard the aunt say in a louder voice, "Oh, I'm also disturbed by listening to this sound all day, so I open this door as little as possible throughout the day, and now it's repaired, I can enter and exit this door casually in the future, it's good!"
The aunt's voice was louder than normal, and I just had a feeling that the aunt said this, in fact, she wanted to tell Jiang Xi, probably meaning that she wanted to tell Jiang Xi that they had repaired the door, but because of the concern for face, I was embarrassed to tell her directly in person.
At the same time, I have to admire Jiang Xi's ability to look at people and things accurately, but I also believe that most people still have a good side to look forward to, and we must learn to tolerate each other's impulses.
Although there are still some people who are selfish and have extremely poor self-interested qualities, most people are still too embarrassed to let their quality be too low due to the influence of the overall national quality getting better and better.
And about the quarrel under impulse, everyone will have it, it doesn't mean that this person is not a good person.
Of course, this does not include the urge to kill people, to set fires and cause great harm to others, the kind of person who is the devil at that moment, even if he is a good person on weekdays, is unforgivable!
From that day on, we no longer heard this kind of screeching sound of the door opening in our house, everything was fine!
About a week later, our family of three went out to play, and happened to meet the aunt next door who also went out, and the aunt seemed to deliberately not look at us, and her expression seemed a little stiff.
At this time, Jiang Xi walked up to the aunt with a smile and shouted relatively, "Auntie!"
The aunt immediately turned around and agreed, "Alas!" and then she immediately said anxiously, "I'll tell you, I had something at home in those two days, and I was in a bad mood, you are a young man, don't worry about me, I also know that the door is very annoying, but no one said it before, and I didn't take it seriously, thinking that it was not good to repair, and it was too troublesome to change the door, and it would cost ......."
Jiang Xi immediately put his hand on his aunt's shoulder, smiled softly and said, "It's okay, it's okay, Auntie." β
The aunt said anxiously, "I found someone to repair the door, but I couldn't find anyone at first, and then I found a master I knew to make furniture to repair it, and now there is no sound at all, and it meets your requirements." β
Jiang Xi immediately said to her aunt with a grateful face, "Thank you, Auntie, because I often stay up late at night, so I need to sleep in the morning, thank you Auntie for your understanding!"
The aunt said, "Thank you for your understanding!"
At this point, the two parted ways.
I saw Jiang Xi smile contentedly on her face, and then she looked back at me and looked at her and said, "Isn't it, most people actually have a good side, but sometimes they do bad things on impulse, but if they have a little conscience, they will reflect and correct it afterwards." β
I laughed, "You're right!"
In the days that followed, I continued to learn English, and Jiang Xi continued to write and sell houses.
On the one hand, the total price is quite high, on the other hand, because the house in Juxyuan is a good school district house, but Jiangxi goes to school to occupy the quota.
The best school district house, just like the hypocritical princess disease, a bunch of things, for example, my family Jiangxi occupies the number of places to go to school, even if we transfer, if the customer who bought my house wants to go to school, it is not able to go to school, not only can we not go to school after transferring, even the second year can not go to school, we must wait until our family Jiangxi six years of primary school graduation and then empty for one year, other children can go to school.
In this case, it will inevitably affect my family to sell the house, not only will there be fewer people who want to buy, but the price will also be slashed.
So this house has a long selling cycle, but there is another benefit, the longer it is sold, the more the house price will rise, so, for us, it doesn't matter, but, if we want to go abroad, we are a little anxious.
Jiang Xi is really determined to go abroad, and she discusses with the agent every day how to sell the house.
Xiao Guo, who had a good relationship with her before, said, "Sister Jiang Xi, I held a meeting with all of us to study your house, and now the market price, if the school district does not occupy it, your house should be able to be sold for 5.3 million, but because your house is now occupied by the school district for four or five years, we estimate that the whole store can only sell it for 4.8 million." β
I heard Jiang Xi say to Xiao Guo, "No, Xiao Guo, your estimate is wrong, I estimate that my house can be sold for at least 5.1 million." β
Xiao Guo's voice was very sincere, "Sister, I won't lie to you, a few days ago, your community just sold a set of first-floor houses, the school district does not occupy it, and it was sold for 4.8 million, this floor of your house is good, and the lighting is good, but your school district occupies it, 4.8 million yuan, and it may not be able to sell it? In five years, this kind of customer has been blocked; residential customers generally will not buy a house here, and at the same price, they can buy a villa in a distant place; then there is only one type of investment customer left, and investment customers generally do not put 5 million funds on this house at once, which is not conducive to the flow of funds, so our store manager said that this house can be sold for 4.8 million yuan. β
Jiang Xi looked at the phone, just smiled calmly, and could see that her smile was not a happy smile, just a kind of: You say yours, don't think that you are professional, I will believe your smile gesture.
Seeing that Jiang Xi was silent, Xiao Guo said again, "Sister, our store manager said, 4.8 million, if you agree, I will promote it for you in our company's group, so I believe it will be sold soon." β
Jiang Xi said, "I don't agree, I won't sell it if it's less than 5.1 million." β
When Jiang Xi hung up the phone, I asked, "Do you really think we can sell it for 5.1 million? If we can't sell it, we won't go abroad, then I don't need to learn English or learn to drive, right?" β
Jiang Xi squinted at me, "Since you have decided, at least you have to feel it, otherwise it's all hearsay ponies crossing the river, if you really feel bad, come back, let's leave a good way out, for example, the school in Jiangxi doesn't drop out first, and there is nothing else, the house can be bought again, and you and I don't have to worry about work." β
In this way, it also makes a lot of sense, okay, I'll continue to gnaw English, it's so difficult! It's so annoying! I don't like to learn at all!
She added, "I just think my house can be sold for 5.1 million."
"Why do you think that?" I must have wondered, is it still by feeling?
Jiang Xi said, "I feel that it is only one aspect, the most important thing must be based on the market price combined with the advantages of my house, I assessed it, I didn't meet the right customer really can't help, once I meet the right customer, I think 5.1 million, someone will definitely buy it, so, wait, don't worry." β
I immediately said, "I'll listen to you, I'm not in a hurry." "I didn't really want to go abroad!
After another week or so, there was no movement in the house, not a single customer came to see the house, Jiang Xi was actually very anxious, and communicated with the intermediary every day, but the intermediary was saying that the price she quoted was still too high, and it would be someone to come to see it if she reported 4.9 million, Jiang Xi resolutely disagreed.
While anxiously waiting to sell the house, one day, Jiang Xi was angry with the group chat again, this time it was not the author group, nor the reader group, but the WeChat group that went abroad.
I saw her come out of the bedroom with a bad face, and I was cooking noodles, and immediately asked with concern, "What's wrong wife, what's upsetting you?"
Jiang Xi really said angrily, " The status of fucking foreign men is all praised by those cheap women in China, today there is a woman in the group who wants to go abroad and wants to go crazy, she fucking hyped it up in the group, men in any country are better than Chinese men, men in any country are worthy of her initiative to post up, she said that even if she is cheated of money and sex, it is worth it, it is worth it to have a child to change the race, and also said that X people are better than Chinese men, you say I'm not angry, how can there be such a stupid X woman in this world, I couldn't help but quarrel with her in the group at that timeβ¦β¦βγ
"Why did you quarrel with her?" I was curious, and Jiang Xi, who didn't quarrel with anyone, couldn't help it.
She said, "I scolded directly, I said, you are a cheap goods, it's not that there are no good men in China, there is no man who you deserve, even if you are a beggar, you are not worthy, beggars still have dignity, you don't even have dignity, you are cheaper than a chicken girl, don't say that you go abroad, even if you go to the world, you are the most embarrassing beast for the Chinese, Malegobi!"
Me, "......".
"After scolding, I kicked her directly and blocked her, oops, it's so cool, this is the benefit of being the leader of the group! Hahaha! I'm in a much better mood now!"
"Wife!" such a vulgar and irritable wife, why do I want to kiss her so much?
"Then you should be in a good mood now, right?
I have already washed the fish, and in order not to waste such good ingredients, I hope that Jiang Xi will make a delicious braised hairtail.
As a result, she followed her heart and said, "No, I'm still a little angry, and there's one more thing that makes me unhappy." β
"What's the matter? are there any weird people in the group?" I asked.
Jiang Xi nodded, "That's right, there are strange things every year, and there are the most this year." β
"Who is it?" I felt like listening to a play that came out of her mouth.
Jiang Xi said, "There is also a young girl, said to be twenty-six years old, graduated from the Chinese as a foreign language, relying on her own teaching some foreign students from all over the world, in the group of all kinds of admiration and flattery, expressing how much she understands the high-quality life and high quality of foreigners, and then always send those to the group, so-and-so country held a butt beauty contest, so-and-so country held a luoti flower show party, I looked at her full of envy speech, I was annoyed and panicked. β
I smiled and asked, "You scolded her too?"
Jiang Xi said, "I didn't scold her, but I also blamed her, I said that you are also a literate college graduate white-collar class, what is the meaning of worshipping these vulgar things every day?"
"How did she respond to you?"
She immediately said unhappily, how can this be called vulgar? This is Western culture, I said that you treat all the that Westerners pull as culture, this kind of thing, but anyone with a little brain knows that even in foreign countries, it is a bad taste played by a few boring people."
"Well said!" I don't hesitate to compliment.
"I also told her that no matter whether it is Western open-mindedness or traditional Chinese thought, human nature is the same, whether it is a foreigner or a Chinese, there is always a difference between it and a beast, and she will always know what is not to be faced, and what is to be faced? Otherwise, the streets of the West will be full of Luoti people......."
I think Jiang Xi made a lot of sense, "Then what did she say?"
"She has always been unconvinced, saying that I don't respect a culture, this is cultural discrimination, I will be complained about abroad, and I will go to jail if it is serious, and she also said that people like me are not suitable to go abroad, only suitable for nesting in the big Chinese countryside like a native hat, damn, I'm angry. β
"And what did you say?"
"I didn't bother to tell her anymore, so I just kicked her."
"Hahaha, it's really cool to be the leader of the group. β
"But I'm not happy this time. β
"Why?"
"On the one hand, because after I kicked her, she added me again, and the verification message read: 'Uneducated', do you say I'm angry? I have a kind of self-confidence, even if I only went to primary school and didn't read other books, I am also a wiser and more educated person than her. β
"Yes, yes, of course!" I said with a smile, if worshipping Western '' is also called culture, it is also an insult to Western culture, there are many things in the West, not everything is called culture.
"On the other hand, what makes me most depressed is that after I kicked these two people out, only a very small number of people in the group agreed with my views and practices, and a large part of the people's opinion is that I am the leader of the group, I should not kick people so emotionally, I should be neutral, I should respect the individual, and some people say that when encountering such people and things, there is no need to argue about anything, just laugh it off, and respect the individual culture. β
"What do you say?" There are all kinds of people in this world, and what I am curious about is Jiang Xi's reaction, she has always been different from most people.
Jiang Xi said angrily, "I sent an announcement, the content is: this group only welcomes people with positive three views, good character, and high quality to join in the exchange of going abroad, and individual differences can be accepted, after all, no one is perfect, everyone has their own edges and corners, but the Tao is not the same, for people who deviate from the three views extremely much, the group has zero tolerance, and those who do not agree with the idea of the group can automatically withdraw from the group." β
I laughed again, "What about after that? Are there many people who have left the group?"
Jiang Xi said, "There is no one, in fact, everyone has a scale in their hearts, who is right and who is wrong, everyone is not stupid, but some people have become slippery and have become irrelevant to themselves." Occasionally, there are one or two people who are saying that there is really no need for the group owner to be so serious, this is all a trivial matter, and the group owner should be tolerant, until a person who has lived in New Zealand for more than ten years came out and sent a message, and everyone was silent. β
"What message did she send?"
She said that she told everyone with her experience of living in New Zealand for more than ten years that things like luoti gatherings, even in New Zealand, are definitely a few boring people to make a bad taste, most New Zealand natives do not like it, and do not regard this kind of thing as a culture, just an individual's deformed habits, the group owner's point of view is very correct, when encountering such a crooked wind and evil thoughts, it should be corrected, otherwise it is true, some Chinese regard foreigners' '' as culture. I fully agree with the views and practices of the group leader!"
A person who has lived in New Zealand for more than ten years is indeed much more authoritative than Jiang Xi's statement when he says such things.
After she finished speaking, there was no movement in the group. Jiang Xi said.
"Are you in a good mood?"
Jiang Xi sighed, "I'm still a little confused." β
"Can't figure out what?"
"I can't figure out why everyone knows that such thinking is bad, but they can still have a good chat with such a person instead of correcting it?
I can't answer Jiang Xi's question, because I think our society seems to be getting more and more like this.
I remember reading a book before, about the heroine who is conscientious in the decoration industry, never uses routines, and ensures quality and quantity, but she is excluded by the people around her, and her performance is not good. Everyone has a routine, only the heroine who pursues conscience has become an unknown existence.
idealized, and later a male protagonist appeared, conquered by the positive energy of the female protagonist, and the two counterattacked together to conquer the world.
In reality, if you discuss some issues about the moral bottom line in a certain group, it will be like Jiang Xi's group, and all kinds of different opinions will immediately emerge, some people say that they will laugh when they encounter no bottom line, some people say that everyone has their own moral bottom line, and some people say that they should be tolerant, and only the person who really pursues the moral bottom line has become an unknown existence.
This is the reality, most people compromise with reality, and the reasons for compromise are different, some people say that it is because they want to survive, some people say that it is because they are tolerant, and there are people who are born to be people without a bottom line.
And Jiang Xi, I think, she will also make mistakes, she will also be impulsive, but on the day she dies, she will definitely go through this life according to the bottom line and principles that she should have, and I am a little fan who follows her life!
"Don't be angry with others, there are many, many people in this world that we can't understand, what to say, you said, everyone's road is to know the depth, happiness or pain, we can't change the trajectory of others, so we have to learn to digest and excrete the garbage in this world, adjust our emotions, and live our own beautiful life."
"Husband, you said it so well, I'm in a good mood now, I'll make braised fish. β
"Okay!" "Oh mom, the trick has finally succeeded, and I really don't want to be a fish."
Less than a week later, a new agent brought in a client looking at the house.
It's been almost a month since the house was listed, and I didn't take it seriously at all when such a customer came to see the house, but Jiang Xi, after the customer arrived, she talked to the customer about the advantages of this house.
I thought to myself, it's useless to talk about it, I haven't seen a house of more than 5 million, and I can buy it with one customer.
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