Chapter 385: Forge ahead
"We have already been persuaded by you, so this matter is over, no matter what kind of big things happen, we will not hurt you at all, and we will not harm your interests at all, because if we damage your interests, it will also be a great disrespect to us, so at least respect yourself, at least respect your choice. ”
If he can't even fully face up to his own choice, and can't fully understand it, then this choice can only be said to be a mistake.
"Okay, your current mentality still has to be correct, you can put more positive in the past, and you should put more positive in the future, so don't play so much WeChat, after all, I know it, and everyone understands.
Therefore, it is completely unnecessary to talk about it, and the relationship between us should also be changed, not always the kind of friendship and brotherhood that we used to have, but also the relationship between superiors and subordinates, once this relationship is formed, it cannot be changed in the future. ”
In fact, once this relationship is formed, it is more difficult to change, after all, not everyone sees these things lightly, and not everyone treats these things as problems, so the problems they encounter now are easy to occur or easy to conflict.
"I don't understand what you're thinking, and I don't know how many thoughts you have in your head, because you're thinking this way because you've lost or changed your gains, not because of what we've done to you, and what you've got in return. ”
A qualified boss definitely does not only think about his own interests, he knows how to go in and know how to come out, he knows how to communicate with everyone, he knows how to interact with everyone, and they should understand each other more often.
"Okay, anyway, when I understand you, you can understand me, because now we are not in the same state as before, if we look back in a few decades, maybe we will all be old by then, so when it comes to that time, you look back and see if what we are doing now is very correct. ”
They actually understand, they actually understand, so they're doing this kind of profession right now, and they're moving in that direction right now.
"What kind of position do you think you fit into, what position do you think you fit into?"
If this position is really suitable for you to do, then you will go, but if it is not suitable for you, you must not be reluctant, because if you are reluctant, it will make others follow suit, because you occupy one position, and other people will occupy another position, so that your complete identity is reversed. ”
He is also investigating now, after all, no matter how deep the relationship between their brothers is, they must also find out everything clearly before they can find out the bottom, so they still want to cooperate in the future, how can they not understand each other, they are not sure of each other's sense of security, how can they cooperate to do so many things, so from now on, they should have a good understanding of what kind of person each other is, and what kind of state each other is.
"In fact, I have always been a relatively smart person, at least I think that being smart is not only reflected in my own braincase, but also in my emotional intelligence.
Even at least I think it was really out of my own light, and I didn't expect me to do such a stupid thing, but looking back now, I think it was a bit of a brain pump. ”
He felt that if it weren't for his own brain, he would definitely not do this thing, because he didn't understand how much impact this matter would have, and a person should not always think about hurting others to get other people's things.
It's about how to maintain your own things, just maintain your own things, don't always think about robbing others, after all, other people's is someone else's, and your own is your own.
"Okay, I don't care what you think about it before, I don't care what you think now, I don't really care, but it depends on whether you can give us some help, if you can't give me a little help, then how much benefit do you think you can get by then? Can I give you this opportunity to carve up your share? Impossible. ”
If you don't give anything, you want to get something in return, you want to get it if you don't pay anything, how can there be such a good thing in this world, how can there be such an easy thing, to live is to live, to die is to die, there is no middle ground between living and dying.
"I have done too many wrong things in the past, even I feel very stupid, so those things I have done before, you must not remember my mistakes, you must not remember my sorrows, because after all, we are best friends, relationship, after all, we are the best partnership, so I don't want there to be too many estrangements between us, these estrangements will make me unbearable. ”
Sometimes living is actually more terrible than dying, and this kind of horror is not terrible in the ordinary sense, but it is difficult to accept such a situation in the heart.
If he can't accept that he can't imagine his future, then these things will not make them feel too happy, because if he can't be happy, then the world may become more gloomy, even if he has more scenery, even if he has beautiful scenery, it is nothing in his eyes, even if he becomes rich and becomes stronger, this may not be nothing.
"I know that you don't actually take me in your heart, you don't actually see me as a brother in your heart, if you treat me as a brother, it will be like this, if you treat me as a brother, then what will be the relationship between us?
Not at all, we friends should not talk about the mess again, but should sincerely go to each other. ”
To exchange sincerity for sincerity, to use one's own, to exchange for other people's in the future, after all, they are all going to be together in the future, they should be together in the future, if they don't understand, then basically cooperate and may not be able to achieve a win-win situation, if you want to achieve a win-win situation, then they must get it, you must get it.
"I know what you think, I also know that you should not feel good in your heart, whether it is you or us, it will not be good, to live is to have the attitude of living, to die is to have a reason to die, don't treat yourself as a bastard, don't treat others as good people, because sometimes you feel that you have done something wrong, in fact, you still do it right, but the position is different. ”
Two people are brothers, two people are friends, you can't treat brothers as friends, you can't treat friends as brothers, they are relative, they don't say when they got any benefits, and then they kick the other person, and they don't treat the other person as anything, after all, the relationship is here, and there is no way to escape.
"Or rather, you don't actually treat me as a brother at all, after all, our brothers have had a relationship for so long, not to mention that you don't have other bad thoughts about me, even if I don't think you have any crooked thoughts about you, I'm not sure myself, even if I don't have it now.
In the future, who can say clearly, after all, there must be someone who will worry about it if there are more things, if no one cares, it means that your strength is not enough, you haven't gained so much, you say I'm right. ”
In fact, what he said is not wrong at all, he is very right, after all, on the road of life, if anyone is serious, then whoever loses, if he is not serious, then who also loses, you must doubt that there is a peaceful attitude, if there is no peaceful attitude, then you will be too nervous and impatient in the face of this matter sooner or later.
After all, not everyone will have a very kind attitude towards others, and they will face their elders with a very respectful attitude, just like respect is not only for the elders, even for those who have taught themselves for a second and a minute, then there should be good respect.
"Even if we didn't have a very good relationship with each other before, we didn't have a very close relationship with each other before, then we should think clearly now, if we can't solve such a little thing, we will solve more things with them in the future, right?
Besides, my feelings for you have always stayed at that time, we were young and frivolous, when we scolded Fang Xuan, that time was real, we were really blooming at that time, we felt that there was youth at that time, youth was so rippling, it was so desirable, it was so intoxicating. ”
There is indeed youth between them, there is indeed friendship between them, if it weren't for this friendship, then they wouldn't continue to be connected now, so who can say clearly about the relationship, after all, they once knew each other, and their former feelings have accumulated so deeply.
That's why even if the two of them go against their wishes, their promises, and their thoughts in their hearts, they still confront themselves, but he will still forgive him, he still feels that he can completely forgive them, although what they did was wrong, but they would not overturn a boatload of people with a rod, and knock them into the water with a rod, and not help them up.
He has always been a more responsible person, he knows what he wants to do, he knows what he should do, so he never needs to be reminded by others, never needs others to meddle in his affairs, if he dares to meddle in his affairs, that is, he wants to dominate his future, wants to dominate his life, it is impossible for a person to let others live in his own life, and it is impossible for a person to let others live in his own future.
Therefore, he will definitely resist, he will definitely fight, he will definitely crush all the people who have such thoughts under his feet, so that he can taste his own strength.
"In fact, I am not strong, I am not powerful, this is nothing, just think well, if there is no such thing as me, then the survival between us in the future, then how to ensure the future between us in the future, there must be a military support, if there is no military support, then there is really no way to escort me, this thing is indeed difficult to do, what I am doing now in this industry.
What I'm doing now requires me to have a strong force, a strong force to support me, to be my pillar behind me, and without this pillar, I'm afraid I won't be able to go further, so this is interdependence, and if I don't build up this interdependent city, then I can't move to a higher position. ”
In fact, he has already thought very clearly, and saying these words today is also to let them know what he needs now, what he can get now, and what he needs them to bring to him.
Therefore, if they say more, it will make their relationship more cold, and now this can make them burst out with great fighting spirit, and can make them more confident in their own future, and more confident in their future.
In this way, they will work harder to do these things, if they don't have this fighting spirit, it will be like a group of guerrillas scattering, there is no need to worry at all, if they touch others, I am afraid that they will disperse at the first touch.
"Whether he lives because of each other's injuries or whether he dies because of each other's sorrows, in fact, many times no one can say clearly, whether he lives or dies, he should have his own meaning.
If there is no meaning of one's own life, no meaning of one's own life, then this person is indeed sad, Hokkaido is like dust, Hokkaido is like dust buried in the deep mud, and no one can find it. ”
When he said it, he was really very serious, indeed very careful, and he felt that all the words he said came from the heart, because if people don't understand the meaning of their own life, if they don't understand their attitude towards life, then I will never be able to get the real attitude of survival, and if I get these things, I may be able to obtain the future, and I may be able to obtain the future.
"If we can't get it, we can't get it in the future, we can't get our own ideals in the future, so what are these things worth? Do you think if we really don't have these things, then what's the point of our life? What is the difference between it and salted fish? ”
It can't be like this, otherwise they feel that their life is no different from that of salted fish, so they have to work harder, more hard.