"In fact, for us in the future, I think there should be a plan no matter how good, if there is not even a plan, then it will be a very big blow to us, I never thought that there would be so many things between us, because these things have made me very uncomfortable, feelings are not achieved overnight, feelings are not wanted to think, there is no no. ”

He knows that this kind of relationship between them now is not something you want to have, and you can throw it away if you want to, because they have put a lot of effort into it now.

If all this hard work is wasted, then they are afraid that they will also be very sad, after all, they have now invested all their body and mind.

All the feelings and these things, they just want to see a result, if there is no result, then there is no explanation for their own life.

It's like the last time something like that happened, if he hadn't arrived in time, then something big would definitely happen to this girl, and if he really got hurt at that time, he didn't know if he would have gone crazy, he didn't know if he would have gone crazy, because this girl had subtly become the biggest part of his life, so if he didn't have this girl, he didn't know how he should live.

How should he achieve what he really wants in the future, because if his future existence has nothing to do with this girl, he feels that he has lost a lot of things, and such things are undoubtedly what he lacks the most.

When a person becomes another person's emotional place, then this person will become very low that is, emotionally very short, such a short person is not short in the ordinary sense, but in the emotional sense of the attitude is very low, put himself very low, look down on himself.

"Actually, I've always felt that you think of yourself too lowly, I think you are nobler than everyone else, you should see this relationship as the crystallization between us, not that you should be careful to maintain this relationship, so if you do this again in the future, then I can't understand it at all.

So don't do this in the future, the relationship between us is based on the situation that we like each other and love each other, if you do this again, I really don't know how to face you, so don't do this in the future, I'm afraid I really can't stand it if you do this again in the future. ”

The girl doesn't want him to be like this again in the future, aimlessly giving so much to this relationship, but not asking for anything in return, because it's too stupid, he doesn't want this boy to be so stupid, he doesn't want this boy to give so much and not get what he wants.

"I hope you can think about yourself in the future, you don't just think about me in the future, if you only think about me, then if I want to leave you at that time, then how sad you should be.

So for feelings, you can't just give and not ask, you should ask me what I want, if you don't ask me for what I want, if I don't want to give you these things, then what should you do?

Then I'm afraid you're going to go crazy, so you must not do this again in the future, and if you do this again in the future, can I still be with you. ”

Life is life, life is full of a lot of impossibilities, if these impossibilities become possible, then this thing is still very simple The meaning of people's existence, that is, to be kind to each other, if there is no effort for each other, then I am afraid that this relationship will not last long.

"Okay, okay, I know, I will pay less in the future, so I will be satisfied, if I pay less, I'm afraid I can't forgive myself, because I like you, because I love you, why can't I pay more for you, this is what I want, this is what I want to do, why can't I?

So you still don't think too much, if I really don't even think about this, if I really don't even dare to do this, then how can I talk about loving you, then how can I talk about protecting you well. ”

It's true that feelings don't happen overnight, feelings really don't come with wanting, but there are some things that don't come without thinking, just like those things that they have experienced between them, if they don't want these things to exist, then there is no way to eliminate them, because this is what they have experienced in their real bodies.

So they have to do this, they have to give like this, otherwise, the things they have done, the things they have thought about, are just some nonsense, all trivial things, and what do these things have to do with them.

"Actually, you still don't have to think about these things anymore, if we have any big conflicts in the future, then you should also think about whether we have done something wrong with each other.

If we really do something wrong to each other, then we still have to correct it in the future, and if we can correct it, then this kind of relationship between us is really meaningful, if not, do you think we can still persevere?

Do you think that if there is really any problem in the relationship between us, neither of us will face such a thing, if he continues to evolve, then how much effort should be paid to really save him, I don't want this relationship to become like this, and I don't want this relationship to become a direction that we don't want to develop. ”

In fact, what they used to think was quite correct, because what they used to think was that two people could be safe and happy together, but they must not put the things they thought about and the things they didn't care about on the bright side.

Because they all rely on each other, they are the motivation for each other to live, if they put the things they don't care about, and put all the things they don't like on the surface, then they may really violate each other's taboos at that time.

Two people can understand each other, but they must not even have a little private thing, not even a little privacy of their own, so it can't last long.

"Okay, okay, I know, there should be a future between us, and we should indeed have some privacy of our own, if we don't even have our own privacy, then there will be big problems in the future, and such problems will make us not know each other very well.

Because if we have privacy with each other, if this privacy is expanding more and more, it is not good, so we have to have a boundary, and if we exceed this boundary, then the two of us can no longer continue to use this privacy to deceive each other. ”

Whatever it is, there should be some boundaries, and if there are no boundaries, then I do have a big problem, like if they really have any contradictions at that time.

If there is a very big dispute because of these things, then they will lose more than they gain, so they have to draw a line, at least they can discuss it, and now wait for it to happen, and prevent it before it happens.

If we don't think about it well, if we don't face it well, then we will actually have a big contradiction when we accuse each other in the future. ”

In fact, the kind of relationship between them now is also what they say they have never wanted to hurt, because if they really regard each other as their dependence in their future life, then their feelings can indeed become deeper.

If they don't see each other's feelings as deep and important now, then their time together may be greatly reduced.

If people don't care anymore, then what kind of love is there, if people don't care anymore, then what feelings are there to talk about, it's completely unnecessary.

"Actually, I understand what you say, and I understand what you say, but have you ever thought about how long we can get along if we really lack these things, and can we still love each other? ”

No one can explain the feeling clearly, and no one can understand the emotion, after all, they are no longer children, they have grown up now, and they should have their own feelings now.

There should be what they want, not everyone can control the other party's feelings as they want, nor can anyone command other people's feelings as they want, these things all depend on how they understand and how they experience.

"Okay, okay, don't talk so much today, after all, we have said so much, and we haven't said a practical thing, let's talk about it later, if there is really any problem, we will solve it on a case-by-case basis, otherwise, it is useless to just dream here, just talk here. ”

Human life is to solve problems, solve a problem when it happens, and prevent it before it happens, this is what people can do, if it is an animal, is it okay?

Not at all, because he doesn't have a mind, because he doesn't think about these things.

In such a situation, they should think about it now, understand it well, and how to maintain their feelings well, because they are still young.