Chapter 193: Give Her an Answer (Part II)
"Are you smoking because I smoke? I ......"
"You may have misunderstood a lot of things, I don't care about smoking, I used to smoke, and then I learned that it is not good for male function, and I always cough, my throat is uncomfortable, and I am afraid of cancer, so I quit. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć info But I still have a kind of love and nostalgia for cigarettes, after all, they are things that have accompanied me for a period of time, I, I once had a screen name, called Accidental Smoker, so I don't have any opinion on old smokers, for female smokers, but also with a kind of appreciation, women smoke, very beautiful, Li Ting, the way you smoke is also very beautiful......"
"Really ?......"
"I'm not a liar, you know. ā
"Also, about your surgery in South Korea, I never thought your face was fake, not to mention that you went for recovery surgery because you broke your mouth when you were a child, which is not considered plastic surgery in itself...... Even if it's plastic surgery, have you ever watched a Korean movie "Ugly Girl Turns Over"......?
"I've seen it, but it should be better to call the troubles of beautiful women......" Li Ting interjected instantly, she had watched this Korean drama, or rather, almost all Chinese women in this era have fallen into Korean dramas, and Li Ting is naturally no exception, not to mention that this is still a rare movie with a female sling transforming goddess dominated by female characters.
The troubles of beautiful women, another translation of [Ugly Girl Turnover].
The heroine in this movie is a female sling who is as fat as a pig, and later went to plastic surgery and turned into a big beauty, probably brainwashed by this Korean drama, so Wang Xiu doesn't have much opinion on plastic surgery, beauty, is beauty, whether it is plastic surgery or natural growth, it is a kind of beauty after all...... In a sense, just like the evolution of the sling into a rich and handsome, this is not an alternative plastic surgery. For the sake of beauty, women dare to endure the pain and move a knife on their faces, so what do men pay in order to become rich and handsome?
"Besides, there is an animation in the Japanese manga called [What should I do if I'm too popular], and the heroine was also a fat woman like a pig at the beginning, Aiyi-chan......"
"Ahh
"I have a lot of mixed tastes, whether it's novels, movies, anime, ......"
[What should I do if I'm too popular], to put it simply, it's a chubby female student who accidentally lost weight and was pursued by four men and one woman~ Harem comics!
It can be seen from the introduction that this is a happy story, extremely bloody, but Wang Xiu still looks at it with relish, as he said, his tastes are very mixed...... Again, whether it's a novel or a comic, as long as it's interesting enough, he will read it and like it.
At this time, Li Ting said with a trill: "Since, since you don't care about these things, why, you don't like me." ā
Wang Xiu spread his hands and said with a warm smile: "I never said that I don't hate you." ā
"Huh?"
"To be exact, what I'm saying is that we're not suitable, so I'm not going to be a couple with you. The three words are not suitable, it's really not my excuse, it's my true words. ā
"Why?!" Li Ting's face was strange, and she said so much, but the answer is still this, you must give me an answer and tell me a reason!
"Probably because you always have a 'I'm good for you' mentality. ā
"You know? I was originally a novelist, but now I'm a cartoonist, and I have a hidden identity, a cultivator. ā
"Cultivator, cultivator, shouldn't you never get married for the rest of your life, don't marry a wife and have children?" Li Ting was a little frightened, is there such a man in this modern age?
"I'm a cultivator, and I don't want to be a Taoist monk, Li Ting, don't think about it. ā
"What I'm trying to say is, do you have to understand what kind of state of mind a cultivator has when it comes to feelings?"
Li Ting shook her head in confusion, how could she understand this.
"In my life, I want to learn to be a senior like Lu Zhenren. ā
"Lu Dongbin, it turns out that you once said that you want to be a man who opens a harem, but you are not joking. ā
Lu Dongbin, a fairy who integrates 'sword fairy', 'wine fairy', 'poetry fairy' and 'color fairy', forget the first three immortals, and the 'color fairy' in the back, no doubts, a romantic fairy!
"Hahaha...... Opening a harem or something is just a joke, if I really want to be that kind of person, will I always reject you?
"What the hell do you mean!" Indeed, Wang Xiu can completely accept Li Ting, and after collecting both wealth and wealth, the raw rice will be cooked into mature rice...... This is the normal harem rhythm.
"Probably because of my practitioner mentality, and I just understood this truth, because you always treat me with the mentality of 'I'm good for you', so I know that we are not suitable. ā
"'I'm good for you'?...... What's wrong with me doing this, I'm doing this for your good...... I...... I ......"
"So, you don't understand. ā
What kind of mentality and goals should a cultivator have, and what kind of mentality and goals should he have, Wang Xiu has been thinking about this question all the time.
Many of the answers linger in my heart, and they are not what I want, but if I have to say, it is probably the words 'at ease'.
is the most suitable answer, it should be said that this is Wang Xiu's own answer.
Wandering - wandering, walking slowly, you can enjoy yourself, you can travel, Zhuangzi's "Leisurely Travel" tells that Leisurely is a kind of unrestrained realm, the body and mind are not bound, and the soul is free and easy. This is the realm of the immortal family.
Comfortable - the body and mind are comfortable, the heart is at ease, the Taoist has a point to achieve nothing, the natural state of existence, which is also a kind of immortal meaning, and in the Buddhist family, at ease, the same is the abbreviation of the Bodhisattva realm, the merits of the Buddhas and the superior Bodhisattva, so it is called the free person.
In the world, if people can be free in these four words, they are immortals and Buddhas, and they have true immortal energy and true immortal quality.
This is the mentality that Wang Xiu wants, he wants to be at ease, so he always treats everything indifferently, and doesn't seem to care much about everything, so no matter whether Li Ting is beautiful or not, whether a strong woman is capable or not, Wang Xiu will always say that she is not suitable for him......
Li Ting still doesn't know what the real reason is why Wang Xiu doesn't like her.
Not because of her strength.
It's not because she's a strong woman.
It's not because of her ugly appearance, or going to South Korea for surgery, which makes him feel like he is having plastic surgery......
Neither......
It's just because she always pursues him with a 'I'm good for you' mentality and wants to bind his body and mind!
A 'I'm good for you' is probably the worst thing in the world, because it's impossible to refute it.
Parents, relatives and friends, lovers, and elders will have this attitude, the heart is the most beautiful, but the result may not be the best.
There are too many examples of elders, relatives and friends, and parents' 'I'm good for you', and you don't need to talk too much, no matter how you deal with it, listen or not, the result will be very helpless.
Listen, I don't want to, because that's not what I want.
didn't listen, but he lived up to the other party's painstaking care, and it was also hurtful.
The most common 'I'm good for you' between couples, how many couples have broken up over it?
In the end, they don't even understand why the two parties who love each other end up breaking up......? Square peg?!
In fact, it is because one party, or both of them, has the sincerity of 'I am good for you', the most beautiful sincerity......
If you don't have this kind of sincerity, then the points are divided, proving that there is no true love.
But if you have this kind of sincerity, it is the source of discomfort...... I'm good for you, why don't you listen?
changed to any ordinary person, there is a big beauty like Li Ting, who chases after her in every possible way, and she has long fallen, after all, women chase men, and they are still such beautiful beauties.
However, she was chasing a practitioner who did not want to be bound physically and mentally.
It's not that practitioners can't fall in love, but that the love of practitioners is unique, they have to respect and love each other, be independent of each other, not be affected, and will continue to be thin and eternal for a long time.
If a practitioner wants to live forever and seek immortality, then his feelings should also be long and eternal...... The love and love, love and hatred of mortals will eventually disappear after a hundred years.
Li Ting lowered her posture and flattered herself in every possible way, she was in a weak position, but her heart, character, mentality, and way of doing things as a strong woman were another kind of 'I am good for you', 'I love you, so you listen to me', 'It's right to do this'...... Standing on a high place again, restraining Wang Xiu's body and mind.
This kind of low and high situation, Wang Xiu didn't understand before, but he instinctively felt that it was inappropriate, and now, he finally straightened it out and understood why he said it was inappropriate.
The feelings of cultivators, Li Ting is really not suitable, she doesn't understand Wang Xiu's heart, then it will never be suitable, she will never be a couple, she can only be friends.
Because they are not equal to each other, there is no mutual respect and love for each other, and there is a subtle change.
is also because of her identity, before Li Ting pursued Wang Xiu, she was a successful strong woman, and Wang Xiu was still a novelist who hit the street, a cartoonist who did not become famous and did not open a company. But Wang Xiu has a hidden identity as a cultivator, with a unique temperament and handsome appearance, while Li Ting is still an ugly girl at this time. There is no equality between them, and the gap is too great.
And when Li Ting transformed into a big beauty, Wang Xiu also opened a company, and the comics also sold well, and the gap between the two seemed to be close, but Wang Xiu's identity as a cultivator, Li Ting didn't know, and she was still the mentality of a strong woman in the past...... There is no fundamental change in inequality between them...... So, it's still not suitable.
In the end, Wang Xiu left, and did not do Li Ting's car, but took a taxi back to his home, while Li Ting stayed under the peach blossom tree in the park for a long, long time......
"I don't understand your heart?......"
"The ...... of the Practitioner's Heart"
The woman finally left, leaving only this peach blossom tree, which seemed to witness a love story that ended without a problem before it began, and ended without a problem, under the night wind, peach blossoms, peach branches, swaying slightly.
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