Ruan's mother Hu Ling is a retired teacher, and after retirement, she has a lot of fun traveling with their middle-aged and elderly groups every day, and compared with her mother-in-law, her mother has more time to help take care of the baby.

When she just gave birth to a child, Hu Ling did intend to stay and help her daughter take care of the child, but she was sternly rejected by Ruan Ling, on the grounds that Ruan Ling didn't want her mother to interfere too much in her life, and thought that taking the child should be her own business, and she didn't want the baby to be taken with her bad habits in the future, and her own mother couldn't say it at that time.

Since her daughter refused, Hu Ling no longer insisted, and went back after taking care of Ruan Yu out of confinement.

Ruan Yu's father Ruan Feng was also a playful when he was young, but after meeting Ruan Yu's mother, he was honest, doing his duty in the fabric business, especially listening to his wife, and standing with his wife in everything, so Ruan Yu couldn't expect her father to stand between his wife and daughter.

As soon as she entered the door, she found that the house was surprisingly quiet, and after turning around, except for her father settling accounts in the study, there was no sign of anyone else in the huge home.

"Dad, where are my mothers?"

Ruan Feng raised his head and saw his daughter, and immediately put down the work at hand and started to work: "Why did you come back at this time? Have you eaten? I'll give you some heat." ”

When she got home, Ruan Yu was naturally not polite, staring at her father busy in the kitchen, and carefully probed her mouth: "Dad, my mother didn't say anything, did she?"

"Aren't you quite capable? Are you afraid of what your mother will say?"

She took the dishes and chopsticks from her father's hand: "Then I'm terrible, you don't know my mother's mouth, where can I talk about her?"

Ruan Feng sat down next to his daughter and said earnestly: "That day, your mother-in-law came to the house to complain to us, and your mother and I were distressed.

Ruan Yu couldn't eat any more when he took a bite of rice, and said aggrievedly: "Dad, you have lost me, why don't you ask her what she said about me? ”

"No matter what, she is also your mother-in-law, your elder, and you should respect her. ”

"Then I'll have to accept her accusations of being vexatious?"

"How can your mother-in-law be unreasonable? If it were your mother today, she would also find your unit, don't believe it, your mother's mouth is much more powerful than your mother-in-law. ”

Ruan Yu can't refute this, her mother's mouth can say that the black is white, and the dead are alive, anyway, don't talk to her mother with whoever you talk to, it's pure abuse.

"That's right, Chen Yan is a good child, originally your mother was so angry that she wanted to go to your unit to pull you back when she heard that you were still running to the unit on your day off, but Chen Yan stopped your mother back, saying that there was a very important meeting that you had to attend, and it took a while to coax your mother well, don't let your anger on your mother-in-law on him. ”

Ruan Feng pointed to his daughter and told him in advance.

"Got it. Ruan Yu was a little weak-hearted, and when he heard movement at the door, he immediately prepared for battle.

Chen Yan was the first to see Ruan Yu, walked over and sat down next to her, and asked, "How is the matter handled?"

"Very good. Suddenly she was cared for, but she was a little embarrassed, and her words were slurred.

He smiled and reached out to brush her hair: "You eat slowly, and no one will rob you." ”

Ruan Yan's hand shook suddenly, which one did Chen Yan sing? He usually wouldn't do this kind of behavior, pretending to be affectionate in front of her parents? No need, why did something he never do before suddenly become enthusiastic today?

Being looked at by Chen Yan like this, Ruan Yu really couldn't eat, so she quickly solved the lunch and went to the living room to hold the baby, but her mother turned around and pounced.

"Mom, what do you mean? Don't let me touch the baby?"

Hu Ling smiled and said: "Where can you, you must be very hard at work, don't take the children, go to sleep after eating, you don't have to worry about taking care of the children." ”

Ruan Yu sighed in her heart, her mother was really a set of backwords, knowing her mother Mo Ruonu, she leaned over as if flattering: "Mom, if you say you have anything to say, you can just say it, such a yin and yang weird can't solve the problem, right?"

Hearing the four words yin and yang, Hu Ling's face turned green: "Ruan Yu, are you here to solve the problem like this?" I think your mother-in-law has a sentence quite right, if you really didn't think about it, you shouldn't have had a child in the first place, since you were born, you have to be responsible for her." ”

"Okay, okay, everything you say is right, I know it's wrong, I have also deeply reflected on myself in the past two days, I decided, in the future, I will take the baby with Chen Yan at different times, and there will never be such a thing as leaving the baby alone with Sister Chen, OK?"

Hu Ling's face finally softened: "O what K, don't just talk about it, you have to take action, don't think that your mother-in-law is targeting you, this time I don't think you can make excuses about your mother-in-law." ”

Ruan Yu now completely understands that in the matter of taking care of the child, her mother and her mother-in-law are in the same boat, no matter how many faces and hearts were not in harmony with each other in the past, they can temporarily shake hands and unite the front when they encounter this matter.

"Okay Mom, you give me Yuanyuan, let you take it for a day and a night, I don't want to go. While she is asleep now, I will take her home, so that I can save myself from crying and fussing and refusing to leave my grandparents. ”

She took the baby from her mother's hands, and before leaving, her mother kept nagging in her ear about the precautions for taking care of the child, and told her to be a responsible adult.

In the past, Ruan Yu was an irresponsible adult in the hearts of her parents.

Sister Chen went upstairs first with the baby in her arms, and Ruan Yu stopped Chen Yan: "Let's talk." ”

Chen Yan had already seen that she had something to say to herself, and the two maintained the posture just now in the car, seeing that Ruan Yu was a little hesitant, he didn't urge, just waited quietly.

After taking a deep breath, Ruan Yu said solemnly: "Just now I said to my mother that I would take the baby with you at different times, I decided it myself, and I didn't discuss it with you in advance, I hope you don't feel uncomfortable." ”

Chen Yan smiled: "Ruan Yu, is this a big deal?"

Ruan Yu's face was hot, and he understood that he had always been a person with a very sense of proportion, and he knew not to embarrass people.

"Also, what you said last night......"

Before she finished speaking, Chen Yan interrupted her: "I have to apologize to you about this matter, I thought about it later, whether it is money or emotion, you are not completely incompetent as a mother." ”

Ruan Yu was originally a little moved when he heard the first half of his sentence, until he heard the last half of the sentence, and instantly had the urge to roll his eyes.

"Chen Yan, are you competent as a father? Weren't you not at home when your mother came to the door yesterday? Where did you go at that time?"

Chen Yan knew that the conversation with Ruan Yu would turn into a dispute in the end, but in fact, Ruan Yu rarely quarreled with him, as she said before marriage, she would never ask him about his private affairs, so even if she wanted to, she would not have a chance.

When he returned home that day, Ruan Yan made a schedule for the husband and wife to take turns taking care of Yuanyuan at home, Chen Yan's work was freer, and he should have taken care of it more, but when he saw Ruan Yan's carefully arranged form, he found that Ruan Yan did not give her any preferential treatment, and the proportion of time spent by the two taking care of the children was exactly the same.

Chen Yan looked at the three words on the form, and suddenly laughed: "Schedule?

"Isn't it just going to work? You see if there's any problem with your time, and I'll adjust it if so." ”

"I don't have any problems, but are you sure you can?"

He doesn't remember how many times she was called back to campus by a phone call when the two were on a date, even when she was watching a movie, she always had endless WeChat messages, and she couldn't even have a good meal, her mobile phone had to be turned on 24 hours a day, and she couldn't find anyone even on her days off.

Once Chen Yan once teased her: "I think your position should be the big boss of your company." ”

She replied with a smile: "Then I'll work hard and try to sit in that position as soon as possible." ”

In view of his past experience, Chen Yan really doesn't think that Ruan Yu has too much time to spend on bringing the baby.

He didn't want to embarrass her, so he proposed: "In addition to your two days off a week, you can arrange more time for me." ”

Ruan Yu crackled and typed on the computer, without raising his head: "No, I can balance well, it's a big deal to improve work efficiency in the future." ”

"Would your principal be willing? He would love you to be on campus twenty-four hours a day. ”

"Then let him take care of the baby for me?" she gave him a blank look and smiled.

"You'll have to tell him that. ”

But no matter what, the two finally reached a consensus on the matter of raising children, Chen Yan sometimes feels that she really can't see through Ruan Yu, saying that she is strong, and she will not hesitate to show him her weak side, saying that she is tough, and she can discuss with you in a good voice and back and forth.

For him, this marriage is more like an advanced life that slowly unlocks Ruan's skills and character.

Mo Ge saw the "schedule" in Chen Yan's mobile phone, leaned forward and backwards with a smile, and sighed again and again Ruan Yan's clear thinking, he never thought that Chen Yan would really become a qualified dad before, don't look at Chen Yan This person is gentle and introverted, in fact, he is very wild in his bones, when he was in college, he did not go through the no-man's land with like-minded people to take pictures, he is a person who can drive a jeep through most of China alone, it is difficult for such a person to imagine that there will really be a day when he will be hearted.

Mo Ge laughed enough, and became serious again, as if flattering: "But then again, I think your daughter-in-law is still quite charismatic, can bend and stretch, and is not pretentious at all." ”

When Chen Yan heard this, he immediately became vigilant: "What do you want to do?"

When did Mo Ge say that Ruan Yan was good? Even when Chen Yan decided to get married, Mo Ge was the first person to stand up against it, he always insisted on the argument that Ruan Yan and Chen Yan were not suitable, and he has not changed it until now, but now he suddenly changed his tone, if you want to say that he has no thief heart, Chen Yan doesn't believe it.

"Don't be so nervous, can't I praise your daughter-in-law?"

"You praise and praise, don't move if you crook your brain, Ruan Yu is sometimes soft and hard, you start from her, it's good not to blow you out. Chen Yan knocked on his head and warned in a deep voice.