Chapter 376: Teacher Song's Resoluteness
Now that Cheng Jie has made up her mind to send the child out, she has to prepare now. She had already gone to see it abroad last time, and she was very satisfied, but it was only because of the opposition of her family that she didn't go over for a long time, and now Cheng Jie doesn't care about the old man's thoughts at all, and she does it very quickly.
Both parents have to sign, Cheng Jie directly told Teacher Song that either sign or divorce herself, anyway, it is necessary for her daughter to send her away. Unable to resist his wife's resoluteness, Teacher Song could only complete the procedures for the child to study abroad with her.
In this process, Mr. Song put aside his prejudice for the first time, consulted in detail about studying abroad, and communicated with the parents of other children studying abroad, and finally he made a decision.
"What? you want to go over to accompany you?" Chen Xin was stunned, looked at Teacher Song and frowned, "Have you thought about it?"
"I figured it out, I went to consult other teachers, and I can apply for a job in a cultural exchange school with qualifications like mine, so that I also have a legal income and a place to live there, which is good for my children's schooling. ”
Mr. Song has lost a lot of weight, and his cheekbones are protruding, but his expression is more relaxed than before: "I talked to my father twice, and although he didn't agree with it, he didn't object, and only said that he only had the right to suggest and not decide on my life with my children. I thought about it a lot, and Xiaojie's thoughts may not all be right, but it is the best way to deal with it coldly by temporarily separating from my mother. If we were in China, no matter where we moved, my parents would be able to come and live with them, and treat the symptoms rather than the root cause. But going abroad is different, my father is determined not to go out, and my mother is even more unlikely to agree to go abroad alone, so if you completely separate it for the time being, you can really only go abroad. ”
The more Mr. Song spoke, the more fluent he became, he was still a little hesitant before he thought about the idea, but now that he had really made a decision, he was unwilling to regret it.
"Although I agreed to let my child go abroad, she was too young and a girl, and for her safety, I had to take on the responsibility of guardianship as a father, so the best outcome was that I would also go out and see if I could study again while working. ”
In the end, he is a cultural person, and he does not forget to enrich himself after going abroad. Chen Xin agreed very much with his arrangement. She was also very hesitant to persuade Shu Jie to think about it more based on this, the child is too young, even if she can entrust Senior Brother Han as a guardian, but girls are different from boys after all, and the psychological and physical changes are not something that outsiders can take care of. Before, Shu Jie planned to fly back and forth, but now that the father of the child can go with him, that is the best arrangement.
"You, mother, won't she object? She's not in good health, if you leave, will she ......" Seeing too many old people threatening their children with their own safety, Chen Xin had to act as a villain and bring up this possibility.
"I discussed with my father that I would hide the formalities from her first, and tell her before I left. My father would have persuaded her, and she is now in the hospital, so she can solve it as soon as anything happens. ”
Chen Xin sighed and nodded: "I'll help watch, you tell Uncle Song, if you need help, just tell me." ”
Although she knew in her heart that Professor Song would definitely complain about herself, Chen Xin still wanted to help them as much as possible.
Chen Xin is very familiar with foreign cultural exchange institutions, she has helped them a lot before, and now she is also familiar with the connection, and after passing on Mr. Song's qualifications, she got a reply within a few days. Then I negotiated with Mr. Song's unit and went out to participate in cultural exchange as an expatriate. Fortunately, Mr. Song originally learned this aspect, but it was also in line with the needs of the other party, and he went directly to the public-to-public procedure, and initially set a two-year exchange period.
Chen Xin gave Professor Cao's contact information to Mr. Song, so that he could contact Professor Cao after he passed, and the other party was also doing this work, and communicating with each other could save Mr. Song a lot of detours.
By mid-May, Mr. Song had completed all the formalities and was now waiting to get on the plane and leave.
Cheng Jie will also follow this time, as a mother, she must make sure that the child's school admission procedures are completed before she can rest assured, and after the past, she will have to rent a house, tidy up the house, and buy necessary daily necessities for the child and her husband. Her domestic company basically relieved itself of its actual management responsibilities, only distributed dividends according to equity, held shareholders' meetings or something, and freed up more time to take care of children who were completely uncomfortable when they first arrived in a foreign country.
Chen Xin helped, and contacted a magazine for her over there to do some copy editing. Although I don't have a lot of money, I don't get tired from work, because I don't have a journal task, so I can commute to and from work regularly, so that the family can spend the weekend neatly after my husband gets off work and the children are out of school.
Teacher Song's departure really didn't surprise him, and his mother was so angry that she almost fainted, and kept saying that Shu Jie was a bad woman who snatched her son and granddaughter and wanted them to die of old age. I cried all day long in the hospital, and when I saw people, I said that Shu Jie was not good. Later, Professor Song was directly angry and said that if she made any more trouble, he would send her to a nursing home, which scared the old lady so much that she didn't dare to toss anymore. But I also hated Shu Jie in my heart, and I also hated my in-laws, and I went over to quarrel with Shu Jie's mother.
Shu Jie's mother is not something that Mrs. Song can quarrel with, although her education level is not as high as that of the Song family, but her emotional intelligence is not low, and there are no dirty words throughout the article, but she passed on the patriarchal thing of Mrs. Song, and it also made people realize that Mrs. Song wanted to take Cheng Jie's money and sweep Cheng Jie and her granddaughter out to marry a new daughter-in-law. Although this is all speculation by others, Cheng Jie's family did not refute the rumors, and after Mrs. Song complained about the wrongs and said that Cheng Jie's money was half of her son's, everyone felt that they had guessed correctly.
Professor Song knew that this matter was only known when the people in the unit quietly asked him in private, so he was so angry that he slapped the table and sent his wife back to his hometown for a month before the matter gradually subsided.
Although the matter has subsided, there is also a gap between the two in-laws, and they will not contact each other when they are idle, and Cheng Jie goes directly to her parents' house every time she returns to China, but the things and alimony on the Song family's side have never been broken, and it is one-third more than before.
What Cheng Jie means is that if you can solve it with money, don't use feelings, otherwise you will know what it means to draw water in a bamboo basket. She used to be filial enough, but as a result, people still think she is a rake persimmon.
Professor Song was silent a lot after his son and daughter-in-law took his granddaughter abroad, and he was not very energetic. Chen Xin knew that she would definitely make Professor Song feel uncomfortable in the past, so she contacted the old friends of Professor Song who used to hold reading clubs at Song's house, hoping that they could help Professor Song come out.