Chapter 43: Parents are the mirror of their children
Han Lemon has always felt that there is nothing wrong with her mother, and the problem still appears on her father's side and her father's parents.
Later, Han Lemon also asked her mother who remarried why she chose her father back then, and her mother's answer made Han Lemon understand a truth.
That is, when you meet a good-looking and rich man, you can't make a promise for a lifetime all at once, you must carefully investigate the man's growth process, family background, and parents' situation.
Many men look very good, have a high education, and then work very decently, have a high monthly income, and have a good social status, and then seem to get along with you, they also have a high EQ and IQ, and can spoil you to the sky.
But when you actually marry this man, everything changes dramatically.
If you don't want to step on the pit and be unlucky, you must observe in advance what the man's family is like, and the influence of parents on a man is a lifelong thing.
When Qin Jian was willing to tell the truth, he was really confessing to the end, without any concealment.
Qin Jian told Han Lemon all about his current situation, including that his education was only a junior college, and then he usually didn't want to study, he just ate, slept and ate every day, and he didn't know what he was doing.
Han Lemon listened carefully, and then looked at Qin Jian's handsome face, which was very pleasing to the eye. Then he looked at Qin Jian, his warm white jade-like skin.
Qin Jian has a height of 1.8 meters, and this Han Lemon still thinks it's okay.
Moreover, Qin Jian's parents have passed away, so there will be no trouble with his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Qin Jian is still a native of the Demon Capital, and near Baoshan Village, there are also many local forces supporting him.
It's like a real estate speculation group, Qin Jian only needs to pay for it, and there will be other things, and a group of locals are doing it.
The steady investment quotas that Qin Jian got were actually left by his parents, and he just chose to inherit them.
The local forces in Baoshan Village also recognize Qin Jian, as their own people, because they can all be said to have grown up watching Qin Jian.
After an in-depth understanding and his own observations, Han Lemon felt that Qin Jian was really okay, and as one of the choices for his high-quality blind date, he could focus on training.
Of course, to be honest, the current Qin Jian, Han Lemon still can't look down on him, and he won't treat him as his future husband.
A real man, only after experiencing emotional failure, experiencing the blowing of wind and rain, falling down and getting back up, such a man is truly mature and can be relied on for a lifetime.
Han Lemon has already discovered the weakness of Qin Jian's character, and he also knows that as long as he fools Qin Jian into society, let Qin Jian personally feel what is called the cruelty of reality.
can make Qin Jian grow up quickly, and then Han Lemon also decided to encourage Qin Jian to pursue that little girl, so that the two of them will be separated after a sweet love.
Qin Jian's character, as well as the three views, will really mature, and at that time, Han Lemon will take a look at Qin Jian's growth and decide whether to harvest this last fruit.
In this world, there is never a perfect person.
Han Lemon stood on his own position, only considering the investment and cultivation of Qin Jian, but he did not think of another serious issue.
That is, when Qin Jian is really mature and grows up, after becoming a big man who stands up to the sky, will he still look down on a girl like Han Lemon.
In this society, the vast majority of successful men, their wives will be young, and this man is several years old, even a teenager.
This situation is not without reason, or when men are really successful, they are already in their thirties and forties.
At this time, men's eyes will not be on women of their age, because women of this age are already depreciating rapidly.
Some are young and beautiful girls, frantically chasing these successful men, wanting to marry them and obtain double happiness in life and love.
Compared with these young and beautiful girls, the 30-year-old Han Lemon no longer has any advantages, age is the biggest shortcoming, and there is no way to make up for it.
The biggest difficulty for human beings is to see their own shortcomings and shortcomings.
People who know how to examine themselves and make changes are the ones who are truly strong.
Qin Jian and Han Lemon chatted while eating, and then depressedly found that this big beauty was really a big beauty, and the amount of food was really large, which was better than that of an adult man like him.
Because it was likely that Han Lemon, who was Zheng Mango's sister, gave strong righteous support to pursue Zheng Mango, Qin Jian was still in a good mood, so he decided to give Han Lemon some benefits.
"Teacher, I have decided to learn the court dance of the Song Dynasty from today, will you? If you will, all the evening lessons of this week will be handed over to you. ”
Qin Jian knew very well that Han Lemon was working part-time, and where did the income come from.
Since Red Moon gave Han Lemon the right to come and start classes at any time, the corresponding obligations also exist.
How many hours of class Han Lemon takes, how many hours of class fee will be earned, and less than half an hour will be counted as half an hour.
This rule can be said to be quite humane, so Han Lemon likes to stay in Red Moon and work as a part-time dance teacher, and does not go to other places.
On the Red Moon side, the main reason is that Han Lemon is beautiful enough, and the quality of the dance is also very professional, very good at teaching, and the evaluation of those students is also very good.
Being able to make money, Han Lemon is still very happy.
You must know that sometimes, when you go to the Red Moon at night, Han Lemon may not be able to wait, and the students she wants to start the class will sometimes play with her mobile phone over there, which is also quite boring, and it is a waste of time to make no money.
"I also learned the court dance of the Song Dynasty, there is no problem, you can rest assured, when I am free at night, I will send you WeChat, you just remember to watch, don't let me pigeon." ”
Han Lemon didn't learn ancient dance, so she happily decided to go back, and in the afternoon, she went to work to fish, first watched the video of the court dance of the Song Dynasty, and then learned.
Anyway, Qin Jian is also a rookie in dance, and it will be over after a flicker at the beginning, as long as there is a day or two, Han Lemon will be able to learn the complete court dance, this is a professional dance master.
The two looked at each other and smiled, and everything was silent.