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I enjoyed our relationship very much, although I knew that in view of my divorced status and age, I might encounter a lot of resistance to facing Zhou Yaze's family in the future, but since Yaze had promised me that he would handle it well, then I wouldn't worry about this for now, just live every day with Yaze.

During that time, my life was like a honey pot, unbelievably sweet.

I felt like I was back in my teenage years and met the Prince Charming I had been longing for for a long time, and really, it was that feeling.

When we were young, we didn't understand love, and when we met someone we thought was suitable, we joined hands with him.

When we really know love, but the youth has long passed, the shackles of reality also make us have no courage to pursue love again, at this time, the vast majority of people choose to maintain the status quo, in order to seek a peace of mind, although occasionally see those love at first sight sweet lifelong love couple, will also be envious, but this is just thinking in the heart, to implement, to pursue, there are few people like my age dare to try it personally.

I think the above close-up is the state of mind that many middle-aged people who have gone through the adolescent season have had, including myself.

My love with Xu Minghui was not love at first sight, mainly because we felt that we were suitable for each other and were together, many years after marriage, before he cheated, in fact, our marriage had some problems.

I have a strong personality and like to take care of everything, and Xu Minghui is a lazy person who likes to be a gentleman without doing anything, my character trait just meets his needs, he is happy to leave everything to me to take care of, and at the same time I know that I will definitely take care of it in an orderly manner.

In this process, of course, the fatigue and bitterness do not need to be mentioned, of course, Xu Minghui will use some nice praise and praise to maintain my enthusiasm, but to be honest, in the dead of night, there will still be a little grievance in my heart.

I want a man, he doesn't have to be rich, he doesn't have to be handsome, but, after all, I'm just a woman, I still want my man to be stronger, and at the same time, be more empathetic.

But Xu Minghui can't do this.

In essence, Xu Minghui is a very smart person, he knows that a woman like me is the most suitable wife, hard work, and after marrying a man, he will focus on him and his children.

The most obvious shortcoming of my person is that sometimes I am more anxious, but compared to my dedication to this family, this shortcoming is nothing, so sometimes in the face of my complaints and grievances, Xu Minghui usually responds with curve tactics, uses some nice words to coax me, and never has a positive conflict with me.

Therefore, in the years of our marriage, I have endured some of Xu Minghui's shortcomings and shortcomings, if it weren't for his later derailment, I really couldn't make up my mind to divorce this marriage.

When I divorced, I was at a loss, I didn't know what kind of one I could find again, many people, including Xu Minghui himself, said that I couldn't find more than his standard, so I could only retreat to the next best thing, and pursue a middle-aged man with much worse conditions than myself to live with, to be honest, in the face of these remarks, I also had hesitations in my heart for a while, and I thought that I might never meet a perfect man who could make my heart pound again in the second half of my life.

Although sometimes there is a desire in the heart or in the dream, it is only an idea, and there is no courage to practice it in real life.

Yes, the thirties are the golden age for men, which outstanding man in his thirties would choose a woman like me who is thirty-five years old, mediocre in appearance, and divorced once?

The odds are almost the same as winning the jackpot by touching the lottery.

However, I won this jackpot today, and it was a super jackpot, and I got the favor of a top diamond king who can almost make the hearts of most women happy, and most importantly, he is not only younger than me, but also unmarried.

So, although the love process with me Yaze is very sweet, in fact, I always have a feeling of unsteadiness in my heart, I am afraid that this is just a sweet dream I made, I woke up from the dream, there was nothing, I was still the ordinary woman who was betrayed by my husband, divorced him in anger, and then forced to run at various blind date banquets under family and various pressures.

At this time, I have always been worried, although I will not say it in front of Zhou Yaze, but in the process of falling in love with him, I have always hidden such a time bomb in my heart.

In fact, as smart as Zhou Yaze, how could he not see through my psychology?

After we have been in love for a while, the relationship between the two parties has been stable, in fact, at this time it has reached the point of meeting the parents of both parties, my parents are in a remote mountainous area, and, with Zhou Yaze's excellent conditions, my parents have no reason to be dissatisfied with him, so my family can skip this pass, the main problem is Zhou Yaze's family.

Although Yaze told me at the beginning to find a suitable time to take me to meet his parents, this plan was not implemented for a long time.

On this issue, I don't want to ask Zhou Yaze, after all, he once promised me, if he doesn't fulfill his promise for a long time, then he still encounters some difficulties.

At that time, this was the case, I had a faint worry in my heart, and Zhou Yaze's promise to me had not been fulfilled for a long time.

One night, when Yaze and I were in his bedroom, he put his arm around me, looked at my seemingly smiling but couldn't hide the faint sadness in his eyes, and he told me the truth.

Zhou Yaze put his arms around me, his gaze seemed to be about to speak, he pondered for a long time before he said to me: "Haichao, in fact, I have long wanted to take you to meet my parents, but I will also tell the truth, that is, after I told my parents about our actual situation, the two old men couldn't accept it in their hearts. ”

When I heard this, the disappointment in my heart was conceivable, but I couldn't show it too obviously, that would give Yaze more psychological pressure, because I could see the deep helplessness in his eyes.

So I just let out a faint "oh" and didn't react too strongly.

Seeing that I didn't have an overly aggressive expression, Yaze's heart gradually relaxed, and his expression was not as worried as just now, he hugged me tighter, and then said to me seriously: "Haichao, since I promised you, I will definitely do the ideological work of the two old men, but give me a little time, after all, the old man has the opinion of the old man, my father's side is okay to say, generally speaking, he respects my opinion, but my mother's attitude is very tough, and it takes some time to resolve the misunderstanding of you in her heart." ”

Hearing Zhou Yaze's frank words, I smiled helplessly, I looked at him, and asked softly, "What does your mother mainly care about me? Is it my origin? or my appearance? Or is it my age and divorced status?"

Yaze looked at me, his eyes looked a little embarrassed, he thought for a moment, nodded slightly, and said to me: "Actually, my mother is not too strict about the girl's family background and appearance, after all, with my ex-girlfriend's experience, she mainly cares about ...... Age & ...... Marital history. ”

I listened to Zhou Yaze's words quietly, and my heart was even more uncomfortable, but I was silent for a moment, then raised my head and smiled bitterly at Zhou Yaze, and whispered to him: "If I were your mother, I would not agree to my such an excellent son marrying a divorced woman several years older than him." ”

Hearing my words, Zhou Yaze smiled helplessly, he hugged my body, rubbed his broad palm lightly on the back of my hand, and whispered: "Don't say that, in fact, as long as two people love each other, these are not problems, but as sons of man, we can't help but take care of our parents' emotions, after all, they gave birth to and raised us, so as juniors, sometimes we have to be more patient......"

Speaking of this, Zhou Yaze gently raised my face and asked me softly, "Do you understand what I mean?"

I smiled faintly at him and muttered, "Understood, I will do what you tell me to do." ”

Hearing my words, Zhou Yaze smiled with relief, and then he said to me seriously: " Sometimes, the old man's opinion can't be changed all at once, so I think my mother's resistance to you may exist for a long time, I think so, during this time I try to do her ideological work, at least to make her accept you on the surface, and then I will take you to meet them, and slowly integrate you into our family, I think in this kind of contact from shallow to deep, even ordinary people will slowly develop feelings, not to mention that you are the woman I really love. ”

Listening to Zhou Yaze's sincere words, I was very moved, I reached out to hug his waist tightly, snuggled in his arms, and murmured: "I know your good intentions, I will try my best to cooperate with your ......"

Listening to my promise, Zhou Yaze smiled bitterly with relief, his hand kept rubbing against my back, and his eyes were thoughtful.

***

I told Ya Ze what Qian Yaya told me that our relationship was widely spread among the employees of Yiyou Advertising Company, and of course I didn't say who said the news.

Unexpectedly, as soon as he heard this, Zhou Yaze asked me directly: "Qian Yaya told you, right?"

I laughed in surprise and asked him, "How do you know she told me?"

Zhou Yaze "cut" disapprovingly, squinted at me and said: "Can you hide this little kitten from me? Before you left Yiyou, you liked to be with that girl in private, and that girl was also very ghostly, she was a bag to inquire, if you heard anything about Yiyou, 80% of it was from her mouth." ”

I smiled and scratched Zhou Yaze's nose with my fingers, teasing him, "Who can't ghost you?" and then I said to him with concern, "Why don't we keep a low profile in the future?"

I didn't finish my words, but the hint in my eyes was enough for Zhou Yaze to understand what I meant.

Yes, after all, our relationship has not yet been recognized by the families of both sides, and it is really not good to make a lot of rumors in the city before this.

Hearing me say this, Zhou Yaze nodded thoughtfully, pondered for a long time, and then said softly: "It's okay." ”

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