Chapter 423: Husband and Wife

The sales lady who was speechless by Zhang Ruiming was completely stunned by this obedient and well-behaved man in front of his wife, and saw that several marketing points he had just made were broken one by one. At this time, he had to step aside and quickly stop mixing in the quarrel between the two people.

Zhang Ruiming turned his head and comforted his wife: "Wife, if you want to buy a LOFT apartment, we will buy it, but buying it doesn't mean that we have to consume impulsively, listen to me, go back and think about it, and see if other real estate is good?"

Unexpectedly, Zhang Ruiming's patient statement angered Tang Shi, only to see her cold face, slanted at the man in front of her and said: "Aren't you just reluctant to give up this money, how much do you have in it? About 110,000 yuan? I'll return it to you later! Anyway, I bought this house today! The down payment is only more than 300,000 yuan, and I kept your 110,000 yuan! Why are you in a hurry?"

After speaking, Zhang Ruiming knew that she couldn't make sense of his wife now, she was angry now, she wouldn't listen to what she said at all, what Tang Shi wanted was not this house at all, not even the hundreds of thousands, she just wanted to take a breath and vent the displeasure that had accumulated in her heart during this time, but Zhang Ruiming stopped her, which made her more stubborn, and she was not allowed to do it to show her husband in front of her.

Seeing that Tang Shi grabbed the pen and was about to sign the contract, Zhang Ruiming persuaded her to no avail, he simply pressed his palm on the contract, Tang Shi reacted instantly, thinking that Zhang Ruiming was going to grab the contract, and he also grabbed it, but saw Zhang Ruiming turn his head to the marketing staff of Zhenye City next to him, and said seriously: " I am a lawyer by profession, and I tell you clearly that today I do not agree with my wife's purchase of a house with joint property, and I tell you that my intention is very firm, and I will never buy here, and if you dare to collect this money, I will sue you immediately!"

Zhang Ruiming's righteous attitude made the staff of these marketing centers next to him stunned for a while, this situation is extremely rare, and now in this situation, how can there be a house to buy a quarrel to one party to make such a fuss. Several sales ladies at the scene were also stunned, and hurriedly stepped forward to try to persuade peace.

Zhang Ruiming ignored the persuasion of these people, like this kind of situation where one of the husband and wife wants to buy a house, but the other party does not agree to buy a house, and does not cooperate with the relevant procedures, it is actually more troublesome. And this is the effect that Zhang Ruiming wants to achieve.

Seeing that the two were arguing, now the man kept revealing his identity as a legal worker, which made these people in the marketing center feel tricky, worried about the follow-up trouble, so they could only try to persuade the two to go to the lounge below to calm down and talk.

Tang Shi was red for a while by Zhang Ruiming's angry face, how did she know that as long as she could confirm the rights of the 500,000 or divide the common property, she could buy the house in the same way, but under the current situation, where would she know this, she just thought that this trip had been stirred up by Zhang Ruiming.

"What are you talking about?

Tang Shi flicked his sleeves, then ignored the others present, stepped on high heels and walked downstairs, Zhang Ruiming hurriedly followed, the two walked out of the marketing center one after the other, Tang Shi was obviously emotional, and almost fell down after walking too fast a few times, Zhang Ruiming rushed forward a few steps, and still tried to persuade his wife: "Wife...... It's really not that I won't help...... Buy, it's really not too good for this real estate, and even if you want to lose your temper, you also think about your daughter, you look at the current situation at home, do you think it makes sense to be burdened with so many mortgages now!?"

Zhang Ruiming followed all the way with painstaking words, Tang Shi only hesitated for a moment when she heard her daughter's name, but she still didn't slow down at all, just strode towards her car parked in the parking lot.

After pulling the car door, Tang Shi didn't even look at Zhang Ruiming, so he was about to roll up the window, Zhang Ruiming was in a hurry, opened the back seat door and sat down.

"Wife, I really just spent one night in the bookstore yesterday, really, I know you don't believe it, but there really is a 24-hour bookstore café in the old city, you don't believe it, I'll take you with me later, by the way! You can also look at the surveillance there to see if I'm really there!"

Zhang Ruiming's sincere words made Tang Shi's face soothe a little, it seemed that she believed it a little, waited for a while, and said in a quiet voice: "Look at the surveillance? Do you know that I saw that you were not at home yesterday, so I prepared these excuses, even if you said that you were there at night, I don't believe that you were there all night, right!?"

"This ...... I had something to do in the first half of the night and wasn't there, but I was there in the second half of the night. Zhang Ruiming spared the top of his head, and his tone was a little vague.

Tang Shi snorted lightly, with a look of "I already knew", "Don't say it, Zhang Ruiming, I know you too well, you usually lie with a red face and a heartbeat, but your eyes can't deceive me, you obviously have a ghost in your heart, do you dare to say where you were in the middle of the night last night? Who are you with?"

Zhang Ruiming was a little stunned, he was really busy for a day last night, but the robbery in the afternoon was quite strange, but he was asked as a suspect all night, and it was even more like a fantasy than staying in a bookstore for a night.

But now there is no way, he can only answer truthfully, and tell Tang Shi about yesterday's approximate itinerary, speaking of the righteousness and courage that was brought into the Xijiang Branch, and when he asked about it for a few hours, Zhang Ruiming could see the sarcastic smile on Tang Shi's face. Sure enough, before she could finish speaking, she burst out laughing.

"Zhang Ruiming, you're too adequate, aren't you! Do you think I'm a fool? Or do you think I'm stupid? Let me tell you, it's even funnier than the one you said earlier! You're underestimating my IQ too much!"

"Wife, it's true, I don't know how to explain it to you......"

"Enough! Don't say it again!" Tang Shi interrupted Zhang Ruiming's words with a low shout, and he was shocked in his heart, knowing that his wife was really angry.

"Let me tell you, Zhang Ruiming, you promised me that you would never see that woman again, and you would never have anything to do with her!

Zhang Ruiming was completely confused by Tang Shi's words, how could he listen to her tone as if he had really had something?

"Who...... Who's who? Who do I have to do with ......?"

Tang Shi's eyes sharpened, and his eyes were faintly red, "It seems that there are still a few more!?"

"No, no, no, I don't mean that, I mean none of them!

Now Tang Shi's face was really about to fall, Yan Lu came, she raised her head, she didn't want to go around in circles with Zhang Ruiming anymore, looked directly into his eyes and said, "What is the situation between you and the person surnamed Ye, do you think I don't know!?"

"The ...... surnamed Ye?" Zhang Ruiming instantly understood who his wife was referring to, but his face still reacted after hesitating for a few seconds, and after the puzzled expression, it immediately naturally transitioned to shock, and then the anger of being misunderstood. Although the whole expression has some elements of performance, his emotions are real.

"You mean...... Ye Wen?!Oh my God!Wife, I've explained to you a few times, I'm nothing with her! and...... Anyway, I'm not going to repeat those explanations now, I'll just say that I haven't seen her for a long time, it's been a long time! and I can swear yesterday that it has nothing to do with her...... I also don't have a super-friendly relationship with any woman. ”

Tang Shi's expression did not change because of Zhang Ruiming's words, and two teardrops like dew slipped past her face and dripped into the dust of this winter day.

"You lied to me...... I've seen ......"

"What do you see?"

Tang Shi gritted his teeth and said, "The last time I saw her send you to the door at two o'clock in the morning! You and her stayed in the car for a while!

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Zhang Ruiming stood at the door, he was still a little hesitant.

In front of it is the psychological counseling room opened by the Municipal Procuratorate, which is set up by the Tianjin and Hong Kong Municipal Procuratorate in order to improve the work efficiency of the procuratorate, better improve the logistical support, and better promote the construction of the socialist rule of law, and at the same time provide psychological counseling and assistance to criminal suspects or prisoners, especially juvenile offenders.

This is some of the new tricks that Gao Yumin has recently engaged in since he came to power, and few prosecutors from the general city procuratorate have ever been there, and since its opening, they have only carried out mental health service activities, most of which are used to publicize and take pictures, and very few people actually come. After the initial freshness, this time it is even more difficult.

Zhang Ruiming longed for a place where he could vent the endless negative emotions accumulated in his heart at this time. After another big quarrel with his wife, Tang Shi soon threatened to leave home and live alone, and took his daughter away, but now Xuanxuan is on winter vacation, and the small apartment that the Zhang family used to buy for Tang Shi in the city has been rented out, and now Tang Shi suddenly said that he wants to move out, and the house is difficult to find, how can Zhang Ruiming let the two of them leave the comfortable environment of the house and go outside to rent a house to live.

So, he moved out on his own again, leaving space for his wife, and also leaving a buffer period for the increasingly tense relationship between the two to find a solution to this entanglement.

And now is the way Zhang Ruiming thinks. Although I don't really believe in these psychological counseling, after all, this psychological counseling room is also a major project in Gao Yumin's hands, I heard that it is still a service purchased from outside, and two teachers are invited to take turns to sit in class to serve the entire procuratorate.

Seeing that the lunch break was about to end, Zhang Ruiming thought about it, and seeing that there was no one around, he gently pushed open the door of psychological counseling.

"Hello ......"

There was only a middle-aged woman who looked like a doctor reading the newspaper, and when she saw someone coming in at this time, her face was also shocked, but it immediately turned into a professional smile.

"Oh, hello, hello. Is there a consultation?"

"Hmm. ”

Zhang Ruiming sat down, he looked around, this room was empty, there were no other sundries, there were a few pieces of equipment, obviously it was not long after it was newly built.

"I am your consultant for the city inspection, my surname is Liao, you can call me Dr. Liao...... How can I help you?"

"That's the case, I want to consult about the relationship between husband and wife...... Zhang Ruiming sat down and said straight to the point.

"Okay, it takes courage to take the initiative to take this step, you are already great, please continue" The psychological counselor surnamed Liao quickly put on a posture of listening, let

Zhang Ruiming began his statement. And Zhang Ruiming did not hide it, he quickly briefly recounted the feelings and grievances between himself and his wife over the years, among which the past entanglements and sensitivities about Luo Zhai and Jin Pharmaceutical Chemical were omitted, Zhang Ruiming spoke for nearly 20 minutes, and he drank a few sips of water in the middle to finish these talks, and then he let go of his guard and prepared to listen to the professional treatment of this psychological counselor.

"From the very beginning of the husband and wife like paint to the final parting of the ways, this is the whole process of the flow of the law, is a gradual process, in my opinion, this is actually five reasons, this is specifically summarized ......"

Listening to Dr. Liao's rhetoric, Zhang Ruiming put down the pressure and saw what the so-called five reasons were.

"The first point is that husbands and wives do not understand each other and quarrel endlessly, which is the first reason, and the most important thing between husband and wife is to understand each other. Some couples are eager for each other to understand themselves, but have not really understood each other, which causes couples to not understand each other, so can quarrels be less?

And the second point is the lack of trust between husband and wife

What is most afraid of marriage, except for suspicion or suspicion. Many couples don't think so, either guessing or jealousy, and as a result, the marriage is shaky in the wind and rain. That's the scariest part......"

Zhang Ruiming frowned, he had either heard of these words, or he had heard familiar words, but these "absolutely correct nonsense" were meaningless, this was just a summary of all kinds of signs, if the next rhetoric was just these, then Zhang Ruiming felt that this trip was meaningless.

Sure enough, Dr. Liao's next remarks were all some rambling words, such as "the third point is that the betrayal between husband and wife leads to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife", what "the third point is that there is a cold war between husband and wife, and the separation will be carried out to the end", just summarized the symptoms of the problem, but did not propose a solution, and spoke for more than ten minutes without any achievements, which made Zhang Ruiming only feel that it was a waste of time to listen.

When the psychological counselor made a lot of nonsense on the topic of "the pursuit of material pleasures between husband and wife leads to the breakdown of the relationship", Zhang Ruiming couldn't help but interrupt: "Wait a minute, Dr. Liao, I have a question, if you say that the husband and wife pursue "material comforts" is wrong...... Then let me ask you, then most of the people in this society are laymen, and everyone does not pursue to do a better job, make more money, and pursue a better life, isn't this all "seeking material enjoyment between husband and wife", then according to you, the relationship between husband and wife in the whole society is not good? This is unreasonable!

Dr. Liao didn't expect that there would be this situation of being asked by the consultee, and she was a little stunned, but after all, she ate this bowl of rice, and quickly replied: "No, no, I mean that some husbands and wives can sell their souls and even their feelings for financial interests." This is because of the strong desire for real materials, and the marriage can not satisfy each other, will extend the satisfaction of this desire to other places, in the eyes of both husband and wife, all emotions are a kind of transaction, before talking about feelings, you must first talk about money, I believe that most men have met such a woman outside, right? It can be said that there is nothing else between men and women in society except money, but this kind of emotion cannot be brought in...... Come into this marriage, right...... That's it. ”

Listening to this lame rhetoric like an official account article, Zhang Ruiming had doubts about the level of this consultant in his heart, besides, what is "there is nothing else between men and women in society except money", Zhang Ruiming's mind immediately appeared Ye Wen's figure, he wanted to tell the so-called doctor in front of him that there is still a relationship between men and women who know each other and cherish each other, and can pay for each other without asking for anything in return.

But as soon as this thought came out, the string in Zhang Ruiming's heart plucked, what was he thinking about!? This is treating Ye Wen as a confidant? How can he have such a bastard thought!

He thought about it for a while, and he didn't interrupt the "psychological treatment" of Dr. Liao in front of him.

“…… Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife not only relies on love from the heart, but also needs a bridge of communication, otherwise this love is transmitted to the other party, but it becomes harmful. Only communication is the only means to resolve the contradictions between husband and wife and marital problems, and if husband and wife do not communicate with each other, it will only make the two hearts more and more distant...... Okay, is there anything else you'd like to ask?"

Consultant Liao had a trademark smile on her face, but her words just now failed to impress Zhang Ruiming, or rather, these words did not reach the heart of the prosecutor in front of her at all.

Zhang Ruiming's grievances and indignation in his heart were much higher than his desire to repair the relationship, to a certain extent, he knocked on the door of psychological counseling this time, not to learn how to communicate, on the contrary, he came with a cathartic thought.

"Well, I don't think what you said is useful? Communication, communication, I will also say these words, but what is the use of just talking, I hope to learn practical methods. ”

Dr. Liao's face was a little tense, "I'm talking about effective communication, and how to communicate effectively is to avoid the five situations I mentioned earlier......"

"Wrong. ”

Zhang Ruiming's soft muttering made Dr. Liao a little unhappy, she paused her narration and asked, "What's wrong?"

Unexpectedly, in front of her, this "counselor" who should have done a good job obediently and only nodded and agreed with it took the upper hand, at this time Zhang Ruiming looked at her and said: "I think you don't understand what a real husband and wife relationship is." ”