Chapter 41 Happy days are always short-lived
Compared with Yiyou Advertising Company, the working atmosphere of Olin Advertising Company is relatively relaxed, although there is also competitive pressure, but this pressure is mainly manifested in the simple work aspect, and there is little pressure in other aspects.
If you talk about the comprehensive conditions of appearance and personal ability, Oulin's employees are not as good as Yiyou's employees, and Yiyou Advertising Company has such an outstanding boss as Zhou Yaze, so his conditions for selecting talents are relatively harsh.
The talents he promoted, such as Wei Dong, Zhao Bingyan, etc., are commendable in terms of appearance and personal ability, and there are many such talents in Yiyou Advertising Company, which has promoted the development of Yiyou, but it has also caused great internal competition pressure in Yiyou Advertising Company, and the phenomenon of comparison and jealousy is particularly serious.
The employees of Olin advertising company, all aspects of the conditions are relatively ordinary, but it is such a group of ordinary people, the mentality is relatively peaceful, even if there are some contradictions between colleagues, but they are all from the perspective of work, on the matter, do not involve personal grievances and the like, Olin employees usually rarely talk about each other's private life.
Olin can have such a working atmosphere, which is inseparable from the style of their boss.
The boss of Orin is called Xu Bo, a man in his early forties, and Orin Advertising Company was jointly founded by him and others.
According to my colleagues told me privately, Xu Bo was born poor, began to work and study in college, and began to start a business after graduation, but his entrepreneurial process was not smooth, in the initial entrepreneurial process, he was gullible because of his lack of experience, and finally the partner absconded with the money, leaving him with a huge debt, Xu Bo was imprisoned for several years because of this.
At that time, Xu Bo was already married and had children, and during his years in prison, his wife filed for divorce from him, and took the children to go abroad with another man.
Because of his good performance in prison, Xu Bo was finally released early, and after he was released from prison, he was empty, but he was still able to learn from the pain in this situation and started a difficult entrepreneurial career again.
It is said that in the most difficult time in the early days of his business, he lived in the basement, ate steamed buns with pickles every day, and ate three meals a day, but it was with such perseverance and perseverance that he opened the prototype of Olin Advertising Company, and finally moved a large amount of money to appreciate him and made an investment in his advertising company.
The atmosphere of a company is often inseparable from the experience background of the entrepreneur, Zhou Yaze is a rich second generation, and also graduated from a famous overseas school, his vision and taste are relatively at a high level, so he is surrounded by a group of such petty bourgeoisie, and the atmosphere of the entire Yiyou advertising company is relatively gorgeous and harsh.
And Xu Bo because he was born in the grassroots, and suffered a lot of hardships that others can't imagine in his early years, so the advertising company he runs has a relatively civilian atmosphere, and most of the employees he hires are the same as him, born in the ordinary grassroots class, without too glorious history and background, but such talents are often more down-to-earth in their work, so the atmosphere of the whole Olin is relatively simple and relaxed, and this atmosphere is just suitable for people like me.
Working with such a simple and enthusiastic group of grassroots colleagues, it was easy for us to get acquainted.
Although these employees are generally younger than me, I basically can't feel the age distance between us, they are very kind and friendly, some call me "Sister Wei", some call me "Haichao", and some simply half-jokingly call me "Lao Wei", in the face of these titles, I accept them calmly, because between these young people, they are also called like this, some young men or girls in their early twenties are called "Lao Li" and "Lao Xu" But in this way, it seems very cordial and shortens the distance between each other.
When I first came to Olin Advertising Agency, I felt very happy, I felt that I had become younger, my work was very smooth, and I was more comfortable with dressing.
I have my sister Hai Jing's staff, and at the same time, I often read some fashion magazines, exercise my fashion taste, go to the mall when I have nothing to do, and carefully select some clothes that suit me, during this period my clothing style tends to be more casual and casual, because I see that most of the employees of Olin are dressed like this, wearing such clothes, work more relaxed, and more efficient.
I still keep my head, and every morning before going to work, I will also put on makeup, but the makeup is very light, basically to the point of a shallow taste, I found that those young female colleagues around me, especially some young girls in their early twenties, many of them are plain-faced, do not wear makeup, only use some moisturizing and sunscreen products.
I think it's good for them to be like this, these girls are in the season of youth, and it's also the time when their skin and mental state are at their best, and I think makeup is a kind of damage to their delicate skin, and only these young girls can do it with confidence.
And the reason why I wear light makeup every day is because I am old after all, and sometimes wearing a light makeup can lift my spirit, which is not bad.
In short, I was happy and leisurely at this time, and I even planned to buy a business car that suited me, and I was preparing for it.
Actually, I'm enjoying my life right now, but new troubles are starting to come one after another.
Xu Minghui's side, because he couldn't wait for the news of my remarriage with him, he might eventually be impatient, so he simply started a secret cohabitation with Xia Yan.
That Xia Yan has divorced Sun Qigang, and it is said that he didn't get any property when he got the divorce, which is understandable, with Sun Qigang being so ruthless, he can go out and play with women casually, but he will never allow his own woman to cuckold him, so Xia Yan, who gave him a green hat, finally left the house and got nothing.
Xia Yan may have regarded Xu Minghui as her final lifeline, so she hurriedly threw herself into his arms after the divorce.
However, they didn't live together in the house where Xu Minghui and I used to live, probably Xu Minghui was also afraid of causing his daughter's disgust, they rented another house outside, Xu Minghui would go several times a week, and I listened to my sister-in-law Mingyao tell me these things.
Mingyao told me that because Xia Yan directly caused my divorce from Xu Minghui, Xu Minghui's parents had a very bad impression of her, and they resolutely disagreed with their son's marriage to her, so their current relationship did not dare to be made public.
As the so-called hateful person must have something sad, I think Xia Yan is like this woman, she married a playboy like Sun Qigang when she was the youngest and most beautiful, but people didn't take her seriously at all, and in the end she couldn't bear the loneliness to seduce other people's husbands, and finally ended up leaving the house.
In fact, at this time, she is like buying the wrong stock, she should stop the loss in time, although she is not young anymore, but she is only in her early thirties, if she regroups and starts again, with her few points of appearance, even if she can't find too good, but ordinary honest people should still be able to find it, but she still grabs Xu Minghui like a lifebuoy.
How complicated is Xu Minghui's current situation? Let's not talk about how much prejudice Xu Minghui's parents have against Xia Yan, just talking about Xu Minghui, he is definitely not a simple person, he told me plainly that he and Xia Yan were together, and at first they were just having fun, and he also said that since he divorced me, many people have helped him introduce him to a big girl who has never been married, so if he really wants him to marry Xia Yan, he is afraid that he will have to compare himself with others and weigh it carefully.
Even if Xu Minghui's conscience found out and married Xia Yan, a bed partner, into the door, but just our daughter jumping, it would definitely be enough for Xia Yan to have a headache.
As for Xu Minghui's several times to get back together with me, it was because we had a relationship foundation of more than ten years, how could there be some nostalgic elements in it, but Xia Yan followed him, what did he want?
Of course, these things have nothing to do with me, what I am most concerned about now is the growth of my daughter Hop, according to Ming Yao, Hopping now usually lives at her grandparents' house at night, I plan that if Xu Minghui has plans to remarry, I will go to him to negotiate and take custody of my daughter.
In short, although the situation of Xu Minghui and Jumping over there caused me some trouble, it was not the most serious, and my biggest trouble during this period came from my mother's family.
I came from a poor background, and my parents worked hard to raise my brothers and sisters, and I loved them from the bottom of my heart and was filial to them.
Originally, my parents were most worried about my sister Hai Jing, because she was very depressed after the first relationship failure, at that time my parents were always afraid that she would have three long and two short outside alone, and now Hai Jing's side has finally settled, and she is ready to marry a businesswoman immediately, and she has fulfilled my parents' wishes.
Originally, in this way, our brothers and sisters had a final destination, but I never expected that at this time, there was a fire in my backyard and I divorced halfway, so my parents began to worry about me again.
Originally, I hid my divorce from my parents at first, but when they learned the truth, they called me every day to bombard me, urging me to find another one.
The old people in small places are not as open as the old people in big cities, they always think that a woman in her thirties is divorced, and it is not always the same thing to live alone in a big city, it is not safe, and there is no one to take care of a headache and brain fever.
They said on the phone, and I said yes, "mmmmmmmmmm
But I never expected that because I couldn't move on the phone, my parents actually came all the way to S City to find me, just to let me remarry quickly.
My parents sat in my house, snot and tears persuaded me, saying that if I didn't look for it again, how bleak the evening scene would be in the future, and I had no choice but to promise them, saying that I would go on a blind date when I went back.
But my parents were afraid that I would disobey me, so they also entrusted my cousin aunt in S City, and asked her to ask me to help me find a suitable partner, and at the same time, let this cousin and aunt supervise me.
In this way, I was put around my neck and began my ridiculous blind date career.