I really don't understand what this woman is dissatisfied with?

Some villas live, luxury cars are driven, their sons are managed by nannies, the family's meals are cooked for her, and the house's sanitation is done by the nanny, don't do any work, don't do any housework, just go to work.

Doctor Chu Li's mother felt that something was wrong when she thought about it, and the old nanny didn't seem to be able to suppress the sullenness in her heart.

It seems that I still want to say what is in my heart.

Because the nanny didn't want to see this woman, so she was discouraged, and the nanny didn't want to see such a superior woman, and she actually felt that it was a product of social injustice.

Because this nanny saw this woman, she didn't know what was called suffering, what was pain, what was grievance, and what was hard work.

Working on the construction site is called hard work, and being a nanny is called hard work, doing everything, doing all dirty work, and dealing with all difficult things.

And as the head of the finance department of a large company, what is this woman complaining about?

Sign it all day.

"Auntie, as for me, I just treat you as my own, so you must not tell anyone what I said today, I have also been depressed for too long, and I am depressed, and I suddenly burst out. I can't usually talk to anyone, and no one usually believes that I am so painful. Do you know? In fact, not all the senior management in the company live so glamorously, and not everyone lives so happily, don't look at us sitting in the office and doing the work, in fact, we are very tired, and the back hurts, and after leaving for a while, someone will say, "Why is this finance minister not there?" If you inquire about this, then you will tell me, I want to know who is behind it, and spread rumors that I am not in the office? And then it reached my mother-in-law's ears, or my father-in-law's ears......"

Hearing this, Dr. Chu Li's mother finally understood these words, and finally understood what this woman was trying to express.

I finally know that this woman is that kind of self, and since this woman can see herself, then there are some things that I really want to say to this woman.

The nanny felt that if she suppressed all the words in her heart at this moment, then she would collapse if she couldn't accept it.

Because there are really some points of view that need to be expressed, and you need to find an outlet for catharsis.

But talk to the old lady in this house?

Tell the old man?

Neither!

So it's time to talk well, and the nanny believes that this woman has confided her heart to herself, so can she also pour out her heart?

When the nanny thought of this, maybe she was thinking too naïve, maybe she was thinking too simple, but the nanny's heart was completely free of worry at the moment.

"Grandma, if you believe me, I won't go around talking about it. You know I'm a tight-lipped person about a lot of things. As our nanny, of course, we don't listen to clean words, and as long as we hear things we shouldn't hear, we pretend not to hear. Sometimes if we don't want you to hear it, we're deaf, and if we want to hear sometimes, we'll hear it all. Sometimes what we should do will be done well, and sometimes what we shouldn't do will not be done, please rest assured, I will not say a word. But I also want to tell you, in fact, everyone is quite depressed, no one is doing well, like our nanny is also wronged, you look at how well we work, there will be people who say that it is not good, and some people will say that some people work for the master, and they will be opposed by the master's family, if they say that they don't do what the master wants, then they feel that they are——"

"What are you talking about?!Auntie! Are you complaining here? Don't you have to work here? Don't you like our company? You're not used to staying with me to work, are you? Do you think you've been wronged by working today? Do you think you've been wronged by helping the old lady work? Do you feel reluctant? If you're reluctant, you can bring it up, you can leave this house immediately, no one is tied up, no one is kept, you don't help you, no one has to let you work here? I don't know what you think, I don't know how you got it, you actually complain? People like you can sleep in peace after eating and drinking, don't care about anything, don't bother with anything that happens, just think about your son, it's not a big deal at all, do people like you get tired? Do people like you also feel wronged? I think people like you are the most comfortable, whatever kind of work, just do it casually and it's over......"

The sister-in-law of Cha Hedi said vigorously, this woman felt that a nanny should not complain here.

A nanny is talking about how tired she is, how hard she is, how aggrieved she is, and she shouldn't be at all.

Because nannies work in exchange for wages, just in exchange for money, otherwise why suffer this anger here?

Since I feel resentful, since I feel unpleasant, then why should I be cheeky here?

This woman feels that the nanny should be angry, and the nanny should work hard, and feels that the nanny's words are not very hard, not tired, at least not tired, this woman completely looks down on the work done by the nanny is a thing, and she also completely looks down on what the nanny does is a serious thing.

This woman just thinks that the work done by the nanny is something that doesn't matter, and what the nanny does is something that doesn't matter.

Cha Basin's sister-in-law looked down on this nanny completely, and felt meaningless about this nanny's confiding and momentary motivation for this nanny, and felt that what she said here had nothing to do with her.

This woman thinks so, all her emotions are greater than all things, and she complains that she is crazy here, and she thinks it is normal, and she thinks it should be.

And then once the babysitter says a complaining word, then it feels incredible, then it feels very undeserved.

That's right, too!

In my family, you are here with a salary and you are eating well and using good things here, but you are not from this family, what are you complaining about here?

Shouldn't you complain?

Maybe so, the nanny may understand, this, may not understand, this, but now this time the woman has to let the nanny understand this fact.

"Auntie, look at what kind of furniture is in this living room? Look at everything next to it? Look at how much this house is worth? Look at the meal we just ate, look at the food we just ate? Look at what the people in our family wear and use, look at all the things, are these things that you don't usually see? Are these things that you have never seen before, are these things you want to see and can't see? If so, what are you sorry for? If that's the case, then what do you say here? You listen to what I say, you listen to what I say, what I ask you and you answer, I complain here that it's my business, I deserve it, because I pay a lot, what do you nannies give?

Checking the sister-in-law of the river basin, she actually said such a thing.

In fact, from this woman's point of view, it is also right.

Indeed, what can a nanny do?

A nanny is to fry a dish, cook a meal, wash clothes, and do a hygiene, or take a child.

What are these jobs?

What are the pressures of these jobs?

What are the worries about these jobs, if they are done, they will be done well, and it will not matter if they are done well.

I get paid a month after the work is done, there is no worries, there is nothing to worry about, there is no pressure at all.

What kind of nonsense is this?

If that's the case, then the woman is right.

But why did this nanny feel so uncomfortable when she heard it, and she listened to such a diaphragm in her heart, but she couldn't contradict this woman, because she finally said what she said in her heart, but this woman regarded it as her own retribution?

Is that the case?

Dr. Chu Li's mother may or may not understand this.

But this nanny is very cunning, and this nanny's brain spins very fast.

Seeing this woman unhappy, listening to this woman say some such nonsense, listening to this woman say that she shouldn't complain, and hearing this woman showing off how rich she is, then this nanny suddenly understands that this woman looks down on people from the lower class from the bottom of her bones, and even more so on a nanny.

I think that the work done by the nanny is the work of stupid people, and what the nanny does is what anyone will do, so the nanny has no pressure at all, and what the nanny thinks about is garbage, and what the nanny says is complaining, and the nanny is a complaining woman.

The nanny only works honestly, and the nanny only lives without thoughts, which is the right life.

For myself, it's different.

Chu Li's mother, the comprehension is also relatively fast, and the perception is relatively strong, this is the best material as a nanny, fully understand what the master is saying, fully understand what she should do and what she should not do.

It is completely understandable that this woman wants the nanny to do, what kind of nanny she is used to, and what kind of employee she likes to train herself.

The nanny knew this clearly, and just wanted to get closer to the master, so she said some dissatisfaction in her heart, some grievances in her heart, and some troubles in the nanny. Since this master doesn't like to hear these words, then don't say it in the future.

Don't say these words now, and see how this master reacts?

If the person is not satisfied, then try to talk as little as possible, or try not to talk at all.

If the host wants to hear something, say it.

"Grandma, yes, yes! What you said is right, we as nannies really can't have any grievances, we can't have any opinions as nannies, we eat the master's food, wear clothes, use the master's money, we take the master's salary, we should be grateful, it is you who give us the possibility of survival, it is you who give us a bright future, we should be grateful, we should be grateful for your love, grateful for your kindness, if you want, then I will do things for you in the future, I only do things for you, I must obey your arrangements wholeheartedly, is this okayGrandma, in fact, I envy you young women, you young women are not only young, but also quite capable, but also able to endure hardships, I think you are the most powerful woman......

Doctor Chu Li, please say something insincere.

After saying these words, I felt ridiculous.

But I kept talking, and I forgot what I said.

No matter what you're saying, just say good things anyway.

And this woman doesn't like to listen, although this woman knows that this nanny is here to support herself, but this woman is still very happy, very happy.

Because it can be seen from between the woman's eyebrows that this woman is very happy, very proud, and very satisfied.

It can be seen that what this woman usually lacks is praise, maybe this mother-in-law really suppressed her very depressed, maybe she was really depressed in this family, maybe she was really depressed in this family. Thinking of this, the nanny went on to say a bunch of nice things.

"Okay, I know what you're thinking, I also know that you're a good babysitter, if possible in the future, then listen to my command, you also know that my mother-in-law won't live long, if you are willing to follow my mother-in-law and work for my mother-in-law, then I have no opinion, after all, she needs to be taken care of by the elderly." But if you follow me and work hard, then I will definitely make you rich for the rest of your life, and I can ensure that your son will have a smooth job in the future, and I can ensure that your son can study in whatever university he wants, and he can continue his studies in graduate school if he wants to. Anyway, I can keep your son waiting, and I can also guarantee that your son will have a good job in the future. I mean, if you're willing to follow me, if you're willing to be on my side. ”

Dr. Chu Li's mother was amazed.

What did the young grandmother say?

Do you say that you can guarantee your son's education?

Do you say that you can guarantee that your son's future work will be smoother?

If that's the case, then you have to agree to this woman no matter what the conditions are.

If this is the case, then no matter how cruel the woman is, no matter what the woman wants to do, no matter what the woman wants to do, she will agree.

Promise her 100%, there is no way back to hesitate, and you can do without a little retreat.

If this is the case, if you can let your son continue to study, if you can ensure that your son can successfully complete his studies, and if she can ensure that her son has no problems with his future work, then such a woman, no matter what she does to herself, even if she kills herself, she can do it.

Even if you work hard for this woman, it's okay.

The babysitter was out of the way.