Zhou You waved his hand and said, "Just listen to me." Raising children is very boring and troublesome, but in fact, it is also very meaningful, she gave me a perspective, witnessing a person from nothing, from a purely instinctive animal, to grow into a civilized world, she will make every mistake I have ever made, eat every loss I have ever suffered, and then understand the meaning of life little by little, and learn what is worth cherishing. But it wasn't all smooth sailing, like she's now—"

Zhou You pointed to the dormitory building, and there was still a sound of wanton unhappiness coming from inside, and he said bitterly: "She didn't complete the study progress according to my plan, because I always instinctively prefer little girls, play blindly by her temperament, eat sweets, and I don't do my duty to tutor her in her studies, as a guardian, I must be unqualified." ”

"The doting on children is really irrepressible. Patrick nodded his head, "I hate children on a cognitive level, thinking that they are ignorant and savage, but on a perceptual level, I still can't resist children's smiles." My opinion is most likely wrong, but in my eyes, children are the devil who "kidnaps your life with a smile". ”

"You're really an extreme personality, but I'm not talking about who kidnapped whom, it's how to deal with it. "I used to think that I knew how to educate my children, but when I really faced her, I realized my powerlessness, her willfulness and my doting, her instincts and my requirements, these things will be intertwined into a mess, and at the same time I have to be busy with my affairs, sometimes I am really powerless, I don't know how to face her." ”

Patrick nodded and said: "Many parents will indeed fill their children with interest classes, transfer the responsibility of education with money, and use interest classes to alleviate their guilt of not accompanying their children while claiming all-round development." ”

"Interest classes are of course a solution, but the problem is that what is learned are skills, whether it is Chinese, mathematics or music and dance, they are all skills, and children do not have the cognitive ability to understand those skills at all, so they can only memorize by rote. In the era of farming, this is not a big problem, children may only need to master the skills of farming to cope with everything, but now it is obviously not possible, you simply do not know what skills will be needed in the future, let alone what kind of person the child will grow up to become. ”

Patrick nodded frequently: "Indeed, what children need to master is not a certain skill, but the skill to learn a certain skill." ”

"Yes. Therefore, in my eyes, modern education should be to let children have the ability to learn and be good at thinking, while maintaining mental health and not going into mistakes. Once this kind of education is achieved, the child will be free to learn all the skills on his own, and in the process, he will review his behavior, thoughts and values. Zhou You turned his head and said, "At this point, I think 99% of the guardians, including me, are derelict in their duties. ”

Patrick said: "My country's culture and education undoubtedly value practical effects, or directly buckle the tradition. ”

"But now the situation is different, all parents are aware of the importance of education, but unfortunately they don't know what to do, they just blindly sign up for interest classes to develop skills, and only teach infertile. ”

"If you don't say it, our entire education system is like this, which also explains the fact that our academic qualifications are decoupled from quality, morality, and three views. The Patrick said that he pointed at himself again, "In this way, I am a typical example of moral corruption with a high degree of education, and I have a very poor personality, and I am easy to take advantage of the blind spots and go to extremes." ”

"I'll agree with your self-deprecation. "Then there is no 'education system' that allows children to develop healthily in the direction I described, rather than rote memorization and relying on mechanical learning and oppression to acquire some skills." If you want me to say, the existing educational theories are far behind this era. ”

"This is a study in the professional field of education...... "Pai Daxing bowed his head and fell into thought, "Unfortunately, education is also a science, which requires a lot of practical observation and comparison to reach conclusions, and even if there are new theories, it is difficult to verify." ”

"Then look for the basis from the existing theories, I believe that there must be many scholars who are researching and have many results, but those results are too boring and boring, forgotten in the ivory tower, covered with dust. Zhou You nodded, "And you have the ability to make them lively, interesting, and practical." ”

"Hmm...... This is indeed a breakthrough in demand. "Five years ago, I saw a video of a female education scholar on the method of educating children, the content of which probably can't blindly satisfy children, when children cry for an unreasonable request, they can neither satisfy nor scold, but use a normal attitude to let him realize that 'you can do what you want', experience 'frustration', and then guide children to recognize that 'perseverance and hard work can be rewarded', 'long-term vision can benefit more' and so on." Although the children educated in this way may not necessarily become dragons and phoenixes, at least they will not become people who output negative energy. That scholar's argument was very good and practical. Then, I saw this video again three years ago, I saw it again a year ago, and I saw it again recently - in five years, the explosion of interest classes has increased dozens of times, and even the freak of 'children's programming' has popped up, but in terms of 'non-skill education', there has been no progress in educational content, and this video is still being reprinted over and over again. ”

Patrick pursed his lips again: "The difficulty is that this aspect of the content is too professional, it takes a long time to prepare, and it needs to consult many scholars before designing the expression to make it interesting and practical...... It's difficult. But it is undeniable that if the theory is solid and reliable and disseminated widely enough, it will be a very effective thing for society, and at the same time, it will make money. ”

"yes. Zhou You also sighed, "In addition, I think it can also solve the contradiction in your heart." ”

"Contradiction in my heart?"

"At first, I thought you were doing an 'emotional public account', but now I know that you are the leader of the water army, but it doesn't matter, the meaning is almost the same, they are all using the stupidity of a large number of people to achieve their own goals. Zhou You laughed, "It's inconvenient to reveal, why are you doing this?"

"Money. Patrick smiled with a wave of his hand.

"Why are you doing this?" Zhou You asked again, as if he hadn't heard the answer.

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