Chapter 43 Stubbornness is hard to change

That Saturday afternoon, I was bored at home, ready to ask Qian Yaya to go out for a walk, when the doorbell rang, I was wondering who would come to me at this time, and hurriedly walked to open the door, only to find that standing outside the door was a boy I hadn't met for a long time, his name was Bian Xu.

Bian Xu is my daughter Hopping used to be the tutor, Hopping in the upper grades of primary school when the grades were not ideal, it happened that Xu Minghui and I didn't have much time at that time, because Xu Minghui was very busy with work in the past few years, so I was in charge of disciplining my daughter, I couldn't count on Xu Minghui at all, if I wasn't busy, just rely on the primary school curriculum, I would tutor myself, but it happened that I had a lot of things at hand at that time, and I had to write a case or something after I went home every night, so I planned to invite a college student from a nearby university to tutor and supervise my daughter's homework。

At that time, I originally wanted to ask a female college student to tutor my daughter, after all, it is easier for girls to talk to girls, but because the tutor I hired had to tutor my daughter until nine o'clock every night, so that I had to walk for a while every night after class, which was not safe for girls, and I was afraid that something would go wrong, so I finally asked an acquaintance to find a boy in the university town who had good academic performance and was also more reliable, he was Bian Xu.

Bian Xu is a very sunny boy, very tall, very handsome, but also very polite, the reason why he is willing to accept the role of our family as a tutor, is because his family encountered some difficulties at that time, Bian Xu is from other provinces, his father is a small local contractor, because of some problems in the project, all kinds of lawsuits, the money can not catch up, the family has encountered unprecedented difficulties, Bian Xu's tuition has become a problem, it is for this reason that he was forced to come out to work.

During the time when he was a tutor in my house, he was very dedicated and understanding, basically he did what I asked him to do, and he was also very patient, although he didn't listen to me very much all the time, I had to pay attention to her to be obedient, but Hopping listened to our little tutor very much, and her grades rose very quickly when Bian Xu tutored her.

I remember one incident at that time, that is, once Bian Xu answered a phone call from my hometown at my house, and he was in a very bad mood after answering, and later I found out that his father was detained by the police because of those difficult lawsuits.

At that time, it was just in time for the new semester fee, Bian Xu had some money in his hand at that time, and the family originally said that he could support some of him, but his father was detained, and it was impossible for the family to support him, and Bian Xu's tuition became a problem, and in this way, he didn't have the heart to study anymore, so he wanted to take a leave of absence, go home to see, and then find a place to work.

I was also born in poverty, when I went to college, my family conditions were the most embarrassing, at that time I lived between 100 and 200 yuan a month, so to speak, frugal food and clothing, just to avoid adding a heavier burden to my parents, so I especially understood Bian Xu's mood at this time, out of sympathy, I sat down with him and had a good talk.

I said to Bian Xu, I suggest you and the teacher to ask for leave, said that the family encounters some difficulties, go home first, but don't be busy with the school to ask for a suspension, go home to see what the specific situation is at home, if you suspend school can not solve the problem at home, but in this way it will also delay your good studies, it will have a very bad impact on your future prospects and employment, if young people in this society do not have a hindered education, it is difficult to enter the formal enterprise to work, if you can not enter the formal enterprise development, not only waste your hard work in the past few years in your studies, I think this result is not what your parents want to see, they work hard for you to studyI just hope that you will be able to master a skill one day and get ahead, so I suggest that you carefully propose to suspend your studies, or go home first to see, and then think about it in the long run.

If you really encounter any difficulties in tuition fees, I can subsidize you first, but if there is no more, a few thousand yuan is still not a problem for our family.

In the end, Bian Xu listened to my opinion, he asked the head teacher for leave and went back to his hometown to see, and learned that his father's problem was not too serious, and his father's group of friends were also trying to get him out, but it was just a matter of time, Bian Xu's mother heard that he wanted to take a break from school and then go to work, she cried all night, and said a lot of heartfelt words to him, which roughly meant that he should not be confused for a while, saying that his father was because he had suffered from not being transformed, so he would fall to this point today, so that Bian Xu must finish his college studies, and then find a serious thing to do。

In this way, after Bian Xu learned that his father's affairs were fine, he listened to his mother's persuasion and returned to S City to continue his university studies, and he also accepted the 6,000 yuan I funded him, and in this way, he completed his college studies.

Bian Xu has been a tutor in my family for more than a year, and then I made time for myself, and at that time the difficulties of Bian Xu's family were solved, so I began to tutor my daughter by myself, and I didn't use Bian Xu anymore, and then Bian Xu returned all the money he borrowed from me, and then he was busy participating in the graduation thesis defense and looking for a job, so there was little contact between us.

But in general, for more than a year, we still formed a deep relationship between our employers, at that time Bian Xu always affectionately called me "Aunt Wei", and sometimes called me "Aunt Haichao", I was very happy to accept, he also wrote me a warm letter after graduation, expressing deep gratitude to me for his funding at the beginning.

After I moved back here, I met Bian Xu once outside the community, and I learned that he had joined the work and worked as a programmer in a large IT company, because he was originally a computer science student, and I also learned that he lived not far from my community.

At that time, I was very happy for Bian Xu, and I said to him: "Seeing you now, I am really happy for you, which shows that your original persistence and my original persuasion were not in vain, and now you are finally able to see the sunrise." ”

Bian Xu murmured back a little shyly and sincerely, "Thank you, Aunt Haichao." ”

I patted the young man's arm lightly and said with a slight annoyance, "Thank you for what? Don't be so polite?"

At this time, Bian Xu saw that I was alone, and he asked curiously: "Aunt Haichao, I have seen you walking from this side several times, have your family moved here to live?"

Hearing this, I looked a little embarrassed, I covered my sideburns and brushed my sideburns in reply, "Oh, I divorced my Daddy, and now I live here by myself." ”

Bian Xu was a little surprised when he heard this, but he quickly nodded at me understandingly, and told me: "Aunt Haichao, then you pay attention to safety, I have time to see you when I turn back." ”

I smiled and said to him, "Okay, let's have some time to come and play." ”

Then Bian Xu also asked me which building I lived in, I didn't think much about it, so I told him, I thought he was just a polite remark, after all, he has joined the work now, he must be very busy usually, and he may not have time to come to see me.

But I never expected that he would actually find me at the door today.

At this moment, seeing me standing at the door with a slightly surprised expression, Bian Xu, who was dressed in casual clothes, asked me with a smile: "What, Aunt Haichao, don't you welcome me?"

I hurriedly smiled awkwardly, and then muttered to him, "How could it not be welcome? Come in, come in!"

With that, I let Bian Xu into the room and went to the refrigerator to get him a drink.

Bian Xu sat on the sofa in my living room with a little restraint, his eyes slightly looking at the layout of our house.

I walked over and handed him the drink, he politely said "thank you" to me, I smiled and sat down on the sofa opposite him, and then pushed the fruit plate full of candy with melon seeds in front of him, Bian Xu said "thank you" politely again, this child is always so polite and polite, but sometimes too polite, but it seems a little rusty.

In order to break this embarrassment, I asked about Bian Xu's recent situation, he told me that he is now in that company in all aspects of the conditions are good, the monthly salary adds up to more than 8,000 yuan, the company also solves the accommodation problem, at the same time, the situation at home has also begun to improve, his father has already come out, and the project money owed by others has also been recovered a lot, and then took over two small and small projects, and now their family has come back to life.

Hearing this, I am sincerely happy for Bian Xu.

But Bian Xu looked at me with a slightly happy expression, but he looked a little speechless, he gently pinched the melon seeds in his hand, as if he had something to say, but it was still a little difficult to speak.

Seeing his appearance, I asked him directly, "Bian Xu, do you have anything to say to me?"

Bian Xu groaned for a while, then nodded at me and said softly to me: "Aunt Haichao, I have something to say to you, because I am a little worried, but I don't know if this worry is superfluous." ”

I was an impatient, and when he said this, I hurriedly said to him: "If you have something to say, why do you have so many concerns? ”

Hearing me say this, Bian Xu looked a little embarrassed, he smiled awkwardly, and then said to me slowly: "That's right, recently, I often meet jumping on it, she always seems to hang QQ at night, because I'm invisible, she sometimes sends me pop-ups, I asked her: Don't you have to do your homework at night, it's all this time, you don't go to sleep or something? Then she said to me: Cut, don't call me a little guy, I'm already a newborn, I don't understand anything?" Then she also told me that she lived with her grandparents, and her grandparents didn't care about using her mobile phone at night, and the most outrageous thing was that she also asked me to go to play with her in the week, let me take her to Xiangling to climb the mountain, and let me take her to a bar street, when I heard her invitation, I was frightened, I asked her, little girl, how old are you, so I invited my big brother to hang out with you? You won't kidnap me, don't talk about you, I've seen friends I don't know, he's only a few years younger than you, and he's in college. ”

Hearing this, the few "pop pops" that I was holding in my hand all fell to the ground.