I sighed and muttered, "Since the day he started his own company, I haven't interfered much with his operations, because I think that a man has to be free to do business, and if there is a woman beside him all day long, he must be uncomfortable, and he can't do his career, and now that it has become this scale, what is the matter if I step in and interfere with it again? Besides, I can't get in now." ”

Fan Yujuan nodded in understanding and muttered, "yes." ”

But after thinking about it, she still told me, "You still have to keep an eye on it anyway." ”

I thought about my thoughts, was silent for a moment, and said to Fan Yujuan thoughtfully: "Actually, I think we might as well divorce instead of getting along like this." ”

Fan Yujuan looked at me, and then persuaded me: "Don't divorce, aren't you a cheap little bitch in a divorce?" You can afford it, she can't afford it, you can delay it for a few more years, the children are older, go to college, your husband can't play anymore, take care of it, and then the third year is older, she has to be busy getting married, and they will naturally break up." Now that you are divorced and move the nest to others, do you believe that if you walk out of this door with the front foot, your husband will be able to marry a young and beautiful big girl with the back foot? It is not necessarily this junior, in fact, what kind of conditions like him can not be found? From the age of 20 to the age of 30, girls with good conditions are all rushing to the top. But on the other hand, now that you are divorced, what can you look for? You can only find someone who is forty miles away, and the conditions are definitely much worse than your husband's, can you take a fancy to them? Besides, can you guarantee that the new one will not cheat? You and your husband are the original match, and this halfway couple is even more unreliable. You know Zhao San's daughter-in-law, right?"

The Zhao San'er mentioned by Fan Yujuan is also my husband's iron buddy, a few years older than us, and his daughter-in-law divorced him two years ago.

Fan Yujuan sighed and continued to me: "She just couldn't stand Zhao San's little love outside, and then divorced in a fit of anger, and the family property was half of each." But you see now, Zhao San got married immediately after the divorce, married a beautiful girl who graduated with a master's degree, and it is said that she is still a university teacher, but what about his original daughter-in-law? I've heard people say that she has been divorced and kissed many times, and the one she saw is worse than the other, the right age, either bald or beer belly, younger than her, she is afraid that people are coming for her money, so it is not high or low, and now Zhao San and the daughter-in-law and children who married him have all been born, and his original partner is still single, so angry that he said that he has been guarding the child for this life, and he is not looking for it, but you said that she is less than forty, is it really like this for a lifetime?"

I let out a long sigh when she said that.

Fan Yujuan said to me in a summary manner: "The market of marriage and love, which can reach our level, is originally a lot of boys and girls, an excellent man in his thirties, whether he is unmarried or divorced, there are a large number of big girls competing to grab it, this is their advantage, but do you think about what advantages you have after divorce?"

I listened to Fan Yujuan's words silently and did not make a sound.

She saw that I didn't speak, and said softly: "Actually, there are some things that can't be blamed on men, if you want to blame the current atmosphere, you see that the prostitutes in the past always feel inferior, even if they come out, they are low-voiced, how dare they be so arrogant?" If you look at the young ladies nowadays, they are arrogant for fear that people will not know that she is selling, and then some young college students go to the bar to drink and sit on the stage, as if they think it is a very normal thing, and they are forced to be helpless, you are forced to brush the dishes, wash the dishes and sweep the streets, what is it not good to do something at a young age? Instead of opening your thighs to earn that share of the money from selling your body? I am really not ashamed but proud......