Chapter 71: The Rules of the Game
In fact, at this point, many things have suddenly become clear.
Many things that I couldn't see clearly before, and many things that I felt confused about, are now gradually becoming clearer.
Some time ago, when the relationship between me and Deng Wenliang and Ye Xing, the three of us, was in a state of dire straits, Fan Yujuan always popped up from time to time, fanning the flames just right, and giving me advice, now it seems that all this is not accidental.
Deng Wenliang's silence confirmed the possibility of my speculation.
I looked at him and asked softly, "Fan Yujuan said those words, right?"
Deng Wenliang looked at me, shook his head slightly, and said to me calmly: "Fan Yujuan has her own considerations, and what she says or does is not influenced by me. ”
I smiled faintly and bitterly, looked into Deng Wenliang's eyes, and asked, "But she should like you, right?"
Deng Wenliang avoided my gaze, and then said in a low voice: "I have nothing to do with her, after all, there is also Cheng Xiaoyun's side, no matter what, I will not touch my friend's wife." ”
I sneered in my heart.
Fan Yujuan played just the right role in fanning the flames in the whole incident, now think about it, an ordinary friend will never be enthusiastic about other people's housework to this extent, especially her several persuasions were in the case of my confusion, which can be said to hint at the direction of my decision at that time, so the relationship between her and Deng Wenliang will definitely not be so simple.
I can only blame my personality for my weakness, which is why it is so easy for people to take advantage of it.
As for what she said, which ones were entrusted by Deng Wenliang and which ones they had calculated, I'm afraid only they know, and I don't want to know about this, and I don't have any interest in delving into it, because delving into it will only make me feel disgusting.
"Xiaoman, you and I have come all the way from adolescence, and now we have gradually entered middle age, but I have always felt that your character has not matured with your age, this is the biggest gap with me, in other words, I have gone from adolescence to the adult world, but some of your thoughts are still stuck in that period, which is the most helpless ...... for me"
The two of us were relatively silent for a long time, and Deng Wenliang cautiously said the above words to me.
I was dumbfounded and forced him to ask, "Do you think I'm too innocent, and do you expect too much from my married life?"
Deng Wenliang avoided my aggressive gaze and replied softly, "I just think that you don't adapt to the rules of the adult world. ”
I froze there.
What are the rules of the adult world? After the marriage has passed its shelf life, each seeks out fresh stimulation, and then maintains the illusion of a semblance of happiness and harmony?
This may be the rules of the adult world that Deng Wenliang refers to.
"I think that marriage has reached a certain period, but it is just a responsibility and obligation, and those feelings and loves have disappeared with the passage of time. At this time, I think we should have the way of doing things as adults, as long as it does not hurt the stability of the whole family, then the husband and wife can have a little freedom, after all, marriage has a seven-year itch. I thought you knew the rules, but you didn't......"
Speaking of this, Deng Wenliang glanced at me, with a little helplessness in his eyes, and he continued: "Although we have come together since we were young, and we are the same age, you have not matured as much as me. You are too simple, too persistent, and you are no different from you when you were a girl, and I have matured, I hope to have a stable family behind me, and I also hope to find a little fresh excitement outside of work fatigue, but this will not hinder the stability of our family, but you ......are different."