My mother patted her thigh and sighed and said to me: "She is now in her early fifties, and she is still living alone, she has been married countless times in the past ten years of divorce, and she has been with several men for a while, but none of them can be too long, and what about the man she used to be? ”

I listened silently to my mother's story, and then asked her quietly, "Mom, why are you telling me this?"

My mother took my hand and said to me with a bitter face: "Xiaoman, you are in your thirties, not a young girl, you can't be so impulsive when you encounter something, let's not say whether those gossips about Wenliang are true or false, just say that the current social atmosphere is unequal for men and women, like you are divorced at your age, men can quickly find the right one, but it is difficult for women to find a satisfactory one." You said that your cousin's sister-in-law, is she not good-looking? Is her ability poor? She was only in her thirties when she divorced, and she was still very beautiful, but today she is still alone when she is over half a hundred years old, and when her man knelt down and begged her, she refused to forgive him.

My mother's words made me feel very heavy, and I knew that she did not agree with my divorce, but every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, how can she know the pain in my heart?

My mother has the final say, so my mother's attitude can basically represent my father's attitude, before I left my mother's house that day, my father came back, I didn't talk much with his old man, seeing that it was getting late, I left early and left my mother's house.

On the way back from my mother's house, I thought a lot, I know that the only people in this world who can love me unconditionally are my biological parents, they don't want me to divorce, because they are afraid that I will not find a suitable partner in the second half of my life and be lonely for a lifetime, so now in the case of my undecided mind, they are persuading me not to separate.

However, no parent wants their child to be aggrieved and depressed for the rest of their lives, so as long as I make up my mind to divorce, I know that my parents will respect my opinion, even if they will have a little helplessness in their hearts.

So what I'm most worried about now is my daughter's attitude, after all, it is my daughter Tongtong who will hurt the most to break up this family.

Although my husband Deng Wenliang has been lukewarm to me for nearly three years, his feelings for his daughter have always been deep, before, even if he went home once a few days, but the first thing he cared about when he came back was his daughter's study and life, Tongtong and her father had a deep relationship, and he was also greatly influenced by him, and even some details of life their father and daughter were surprisingly consistent.

Looking at the photos of their father and daughter, when they are laughing, the curvature of their eyes and the curvature of the corners of their mouths are exactly the same, this is really a pair of biological father and daughter.

For several years, in the face of Deng Wenliang's neglect, I have been reluctant not to divorce, just for the sake of my daughter, but now I am also on the verge of cheating, so that my marriage with Deng Wenliang is already in name only, then I can't bear it anymore, but how to say this to my daughter?