Chapter 367: Do you want a child?
Because it's not out of the fifteenth yet, there are no guests in the tea room.
Chen Xin and Zhou Hao made a small alcohol stove, stacked a small pot, scalded some side dishes, bought a lot of braised vegetables and cold vegetables, and warmed a pot of Huadiao sent to them by the town manager.
"Hey, I know you two must have come here when you're not home. Quick, there's no meat, I'm starving. ”
Bai Mengqing carried a large bag of things and sat down.
"I'm going to Yi Bai's dad tomorrow, I went to buy a lot of things today. Let me tell you, this is very good, and it is especially good for the elderly. Bai Mengqing took out a new heated belt, which is a far-infrared magnetic belt that often appears on TV commercials, saying that it is very effective for lumbar muscle strain, she bought four in one go, one for each of the four elderly people in the family.
Yi Bai, who followed behind, carried more things in his hands, and when he put them on the stone table under the tree, he couldn't pile them up.
"Aren't you going to sweep up?"
Bai Meng took off the down jacket he was wearing outside, and took a light cotton coat from the store and put it on. Several of them put their clothes in the dressing room in the innermost part of the store, and when they are free, they will take turns to come over as guest waiters, except for a specially recruited store manager, the others are "part-time".
"Let me tell you, this is really a science to treat the elderly. Bai Mengqing didn't shy away from Yi Bai beside him, and directly turned on the spit mode, "I didn't know before, I just thought it would be good to get along with him and his mother sincerely." You don't know ...... old lady."
Bai Mengqing shook his head and sighed: "I have cultivated in the past three years since you left, and now I have a way to deal with his mother." Besides, if there is anything new or a new health care product, don't just stuff it directly, anyway, I want to make sure that the people in my father-in-law's unit see that I am good to her, and she loves to save face. ”
Yi Bai smiled beside him, he knew too well what his mother's virtues were, wasn't it that Bai Mengqing didn't agree to his marriage proposal at the first time, and his mother remembered it until now. Occasionally, when I called him, I was still complaining, and he was so angry with his mother that he lost his temper.
In the past three years, there have been a lot of small contradictions, and before they intensified, his father directly called him and asked him to go to the station, just because he was afraid that his mother would be inseparable in the end, and the little couple could only divorce.
Since ancient times, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been unsolvable, Chen Xin has not even solved it with her own mother-in-law, and she will not say much to help Bai Mengqing make up her mind, she can only express her spiritual support for all her decisions.
After eating, Bai Mengqing had to rush back to clean up, and the plane would leave early the next morning.
Chen Xin locked the door with Zhou Hao, wore a thick coat, and walked hand in arm along the river to the house.
"Classes will start in two days, who do they plan to send the children over this year?"
Second Sister Zhang's stepson's grades have gradually come up, and he is with his classmates every day, and no one looks down on him. Chen Xin went to see him every once in a while, and bought him a lot of clothes and stationery, and even the head teacher and several subject teachers visited him one by one.
No one here asks about his family environment, and they don't ridicule him for being a motherless child because his father is married for the second time. On the contrary, the homeroom teacher took more care of Chen Xin after learning a little about the situation. That kind of care is not superficial care with pity, but takes the posture of being a mother and guides him from all aspects.
"Transferring is the right choice. If you look at him now, he was completely different when he came. ”
The Zhang family is still a little remote, and Grandma Zhang and Second Sister Zhang value their own family after all, and they are not bad at treating outsiders, but they are more polite and guarded.
In the past, the conditions at home were not good, and when there was nothing to calculate, I didn't feel that the conditions were good in the past two years, and I earned more money, especially the farmhouse of Second Sister Zhang made her waist stiffer, and her attitude towards Chen Xin changed unconsciously.
In the past three years abroad, the distance between the two has been widened, and it feels better than when I often go. Chen Xin never called the Zhang family if she had nothing to do, and asked Zhang Zhang to tell his grandparents if there was anything that the Zhang family needed.
No matter what, Zhang Zhang is always the eldest grandson of their Zhang family, and no matter how much Grandma Zhang likes the two little ones around her, she will not deny it. And Zhang Zhang's little ghost is big, he is less than ten years old, he shows his super high emotional intelligence, and he is so harmonious and proud when dealing with the Zhang family, he can't tell that he is a child.
"Xinxin, my mom called me today. She asked us to have a baby, and I told her, it depends on God, and if there were, we wouldn't want it. Zhou Hao thought about it for a day today, and decided that it would be better to tell Chen Xin the truth, "I'm afraid that my mother will call you to tell you about this, anyway, if she calls, you will say that the child is in my charge." Don't worry about her, she ......."
"Alright, I know how to measure. ”
Chen Xin really didn't want to have a child so early, but she was about to be twenty-six, although it is said that the best age for a woman to have children before the age of twenty-eight is about the same. She thought the same as Zhou Hao, if she had it, she would definitely be born, and if she didn't, she wouldn't be in a hurry. As for being afraid that Zhou's mother would call her and force her to have a child, she estimated that the other party would not do this.
Zhou Hao was afraid that he would wronged her, but Chen Xin felt that she was not so squeamish. Besides, she didn't know how many posts she had read about parents forcing marriage and children in later generations, and she knew how to deal with them.
As a result, it was not Zhou Hao's mother who came to the door first, but his brother-in-law.
"Xinxin, I'm not urging you, in short, I'm just giving you a wake-up. The old man is old, although he has been paying attention to it all the time in the past two years, but all kinds of problems are easy to come out as soon as people get old, especially when the old man Zhou was young, he suffered a lot, and his body was also very weak. The Zhou family is not a patriarchal family, even if you give birth to a daughter, you are also the treasure of the Zhou family. ”
Uncle Zhou also said that after the two of them were born, part of Zhou Hao's grandfather's property was directly assigned to Zhou Hao's child's name.
"This is what you deserve, but my sister, Haozi's mother's heart disease is there, and I am afraid that she will not be able to bear it if I give it to you directly, so give it to the child, it will be regarded as an education fund. Isn't this quite popular abroad, and I also have an extra one, which can be regarded as a birth gift for the child. ”
After listening to her uncle's words, Chen Xin also thought about this issue seriously. Not to mention the rest, if you really want to improve the relationship with Zhou Hao's mother, having a child is probably the most appropriate means. But on the other hand, the two of them are not ready to be parents now, and suddenly having multiple children may have an impact on life and work.
What to do, Chen Xin fell into anxiety.