The topic of patriarchy is still far away from me personally, because I have never had this need, and it is very far away from me, but the patriarchal environment is not unfamiliar to me, because this is the case in Qinghe Town.

Since I was a child, I have heard countless incidents caused by patriarchy, from quarrels between husband and wife to domestic violence and even homicide.

But after all, it has been more than ten or twenty years, and the ideological impact that these ten or twenty years have brought to people is unimaginable, and I have seen a lot of one-child families, so I still can't figure it out.

Seeing that I couldn't figure it out, Ah Xue explained to me, in Ah Xue's words, it can be summarized as a family ecological model, this term is only modern and existent, but in fact, this fact exists since ancient times, how a family that is not thriving and how to struggle, it is difficult to rely on personal counterattack, so it is necessary to raise the strength of the whole family, ask people to give money to people, cultivate talents, and then feed the family after becoming a talent, just like the Gu family in Xuangu Town.

After the family is developed, the interests of the whole family will be more complicated, so the society often sees that people in a family are engaged in a certain industry, and then occupy a monopoly position in a certain industry in a certain region.

At this time, this monopoly position is stable, because in this region, your entire family occupies the vast majority of the market share or technology in the industry, so this kind of family group is also united and exclusive, they can allow their own people to join in this piece of the pie, but they will never allow people with foreign surnames to join in, because people with foreign surnames also have their own relatives and friends, if he brings outsiders in, it will inevitably bring challenges to the whole circle.

So at this time, a son, or an heir in the traditional sense, is very important, because in this way, the rest of the family will not be xenophobic, so for families without sons, they either work hard to give birth to a son, or find a way to get a son-in-law to come to the door, plus an adoption of a son, and there is no other way.

And Ah Xue's family is similar, her family has the habit of solidarity and mutual assistance, sharing some resources, but the premise of being able to share this resource is their own people who they recognize, that is, people with the same surname as them.

If outsiders are introduced, it will inevitably bring harm to their family's interests in the future, which is something that their family will never allow.

So there are only two ways in front of Ah Xue's relative, first, give birth to a son, let the son take over, continue to be linked to the family in the future, and enjoy those resources, and the second is to cut interests, relatives are still relatives, they will not deny this, but the exchange of interests is exempt, and it is impossible to use the family's resources to outsiders, unless it can be determined that the person's daughter will definitely recruit a son-in-law in the future.

This matter is forced by interests, and Ah Xue's relatives have the right to choose, but their family chose the first way, whether it is to cut interests or recruit people, it is the choice after the first road cannot be passed.

As a result, Ah Xue's relatives have endured all the hardships in order to give birth to a son, and they have been praying to God and worshiping Buddha for many years, and they have not done less to seek medical advice, but they have always gained nothing, and this process is long and painful, as long as seven or eight years.

Now that Ah Xue's relatives and husband are in their forties, these two years are the last chance, if they pass this age, even if they want to have a son, then the only opportunity they face is to choose a son-in-law or cut interests.

And these two are not what they want to see, the door-to-door son-in-law is not so easy to recruit, excellent boys will not be willing to do this kind of thing, they may not be able to see it if they are not excellent, and cutting off the interests is a great loss for their family, and it is even more unacceptable.

After listening to Ah Xue's explanation, I suddenly remembered Chen Menghan, how similar Boss Chen's situation was to this, Boss Chen's family is rich, known as the richest man in Qinghe Town, but he lacks a son, otherwise there would be no such a tragedy.

"Jin Yang, you may not have enjoyed the benefits of the big family, so I don't know how important it is, let me tell you this, in our family, as long as you want to do something, you can ask for resources from relatives, if you don't have this resource, the difficulty of his career will be ten times more difficult than now, if it is his descendant, it will be ten times more difficult, do you understand what I mean?"

"I understand, so he wants to give birth to a son, in fact, there is also a meaning to protect his current daughter, at least no one will covet the family business in the future, right?"

"You think too much, it's a civilized society now, and this kind of thing won't appear in our family, but the necessary cutting of interests is a must, I have emphasized it many times, this is also a means for us to protect ourselves"

"Well, I really don't understand the mystery of this, but if you look for me, you may really be wrong, I don't seem to have the ability to do this."

"Can't you give it a try, you are a cultivator, you have great powers, my uncle is very good to me"

"It's not a matter of trying, the point is, hey, I don't know how to say it all of a sudden, let's say, if you're going to ask a dermatologist about obstetrics and gynecology, you're asking the wrong person, even though they're all doctors."

"I know, but dermatologists have friends with obstetricians and gynecologists, don't they?"

"That's right, it makes sense"

I smiled bitterly, Ah Xue's answer was good, I was speechless, they are all doctors, they always have friends, they are all cultivators, they always have friends.

"Does that mean you said yes?"

"Can I refuse?"

"I knew my brother, you were a good person"

"Don't rush to send me a good person card, I explained in advance, this kind of thing is completely casual, someone is destined to have no such fate in this life, so, I can only say try my best, no, it should be for you to ask"

"It's enough to have you"

"Sister Xue, you make me very stressed when you say this."

I shook my head, who can guarantee such a thing as having a son, there is no one at all, if someone tells you that you can have a son, then slap him with a big mouth, because it is impossible.

Even the evil trick that Qin Lang used to fool Boss Chen at the beginning may not work, this point was told to me by Liu Laodao, so Qin Lang's original purpose is not really to help Boss Chen, maybe there is some other purpose.

So, I wrote down the cause and effect briefly, posted it in the circle of friends, and asked all the heroes to start their contacts to see who could help, of course, don't come if you fool people to cheat money, I'm not so easy to deceive, dare to cheat my money, are you tired of living.

This has also led to a lot of people who laugh at me and tease me in private, and there are many people who have bad ideas, but the person who can really solve the problem has not yet appeared.

The next day, Sister Xue took me to her house, which was her mother's house, and met her so-called uncle, who was the party who was asking for a child this time.

The couple is not young, but they are well maintained, but his wife is a little old, with thick makeup, what I know is that she went to do some test tubes and the like, which hurts her body, so she looks a little old.

The two of them should have heard Ah Xue talk about me, so they were quite excited to see me, and after a few words of greeting, they shifted the topic to this matter.

"Don't worry, in fact, I don't have this ability, I'm still looking for friends to help, but in the end, you don't have too much hope, the greater the hope, the more disappointed..."

"Jin Yang..."

"Okay, I won't talk about this, let's talk openly and honestly today, first ask my uncle and aunt, what do you think about this matter?"

I was just about to shirk it, but Ah Xue was not happy, and I had to stop talking about it.

"Mr. Liu, I think Axue made it very clear to you, giving birth to a son is a matter of comprehensive consideration, emotional needs, interest needs, I can't deny that there is a big difference in interests between having a son and not having a son, but we also really want a son, I just have a daughter, I don't want her to be too lonely in the future.

I'll give you a very simple example, if my daughter is entrusted to a non-person in the future, and her husband's family is not very good to her, then you need a strong mother's family to support and support her, at that time we are all old, Ah Xue They are separated by a layer of relationship, who can support her, of course it is her brother, are you right?"

"Yes, that's right, it's normal"

I nodded, it's really like this, this is not unreasonable, this kind of thing happened in Qinghe Town, the son of the family died unexpectedly, the daughter was married and the husband's family was not in harmony, and was subjected to domestic violence, the couple was dying, the relatives can help once but can not help for a lifetime, and finally suffered a great loss when they divorced, everyone said that if there is a strong son to support him, the people of the husband's family will not dare to bully people like this.

"Then let me ask one more question, what does your daughter think about this matter, in recent years, the country has advocated a second child, there has been a lot of news, and many families are not very happy, especially when the first child is older."

"We have communicated with our daughter about this issue, she does not understand and does not agree, this is understandable, now children are treasures, she does not look at the problem from my point of view, I am not embarrassed by her, I have told her that even if she has a son, she will not be bad, she will not be less"

I sighed, so his daughter didn't approve of it, but she couldn't stop it, and she didn't know what would happen in the end.

"Mr. Liu, our husband and wife are not ignorant people, we also have higher education, my daughter has reasons and rights to object, but we also have the right to assert ourselves, so this matter has been decided, I don't know what Mr. Liu can do to help us, we will definitely repay the kindness"

"I'll talk about it later, so let's do it for you first, and see if you have this fate in your fate."

I shook my head, forget about the gratitude and retribution, and I will talk about it later, I can only do my best to know the destiny of heaven.