On a warm afternoon, in a room full of pink tones, a little boy about ten years old is sitting cross-legged on a cushion by the corner wall, assembling the Lego toys in his hand very carefully, as if he is immersed in his own world.

Indeed, for a child with autism, the whole world is only himself.

Qian Yi withdrew her gaze from the child, and looked at the child's mother sitting on the sofa opposite her, a middle-aged Korean woman with a somewhat haggard face, and a baby less than a year old in her arms.

This is Qianyi's psychological treatment room, and the child who is unattended is one of her patients.

"Buddy has become very angry now, and almost every time I come home from work, the house is in shambles, and the nanny always complains to me that he is crying more and more. The child's mother glanced sideways at her son, her eyes full of worry: "Eli."

e, in the past two years, I have been following the method you taught, taking him to read, exercise and go on outings, although he still refuses to speak, at least when I hug him, he no longer yells, I think...... Buddy got better, but ......"

At this time, the little baby in the arms of the child's mother snorted twice, and the mother hurriedly lowered her head to coax, at this moment, Qianyi noticed that Buddy actually turned her head to look at her mother, but this action was too small, and in an instant, Buddy returned to her original state, even so it was captured by Qianyi.

After the baby calmed down, Qian Yi patiently asked, "Has Buddy been expressing some unusual emotions lately?"

The child's mother glanced at her son again and said in a low voice: "Yesterday, he actually pulled his poop into his pants, just like two years ago, I know that when the child reaches puberty, he will be somewhat rebellious, but he is only ten years old, Eli."

e, I can only ask you for help, now that I have another daughter, if Buddy's situation gets worse and worse, I ...... I don't know what to do!"

At this point, the child's mother has begun to cry.

Chii got up and sat down next to her, caressing the child's mother's back to show her comfort.

Buddy is the first patient to be treated by Qianyi after getting a psychiatrist's license, when he first came to seek treatment, the child had no sense of the outside world at all, and even rejected the proximity of others, and his parents were busy with work, so they kept leaving the child to the nanny, so that they didn't find out about the abnormality until very late, so when they were sent to Qianyi, Buddy was almost eight years old.

Chie remembers that at that time, she trained Buddy in sensory integration and did tongue acupuncture therapy, and after a period of rehabilitation, Buddy did improve in her ability to understand, accept and express herself, but because of Buddy's father's work, the family later moved to San Francisco, so Chie had less contact with them.

The baby finally started crying, and Buddy's mom quickly got up and apologized, "Eli."

E, I'm sorry, I have to change my baby's diaper. ”

Qian Yi smiled at her and watched the mother and daughter leave her office.

At this time, there were only two people left in the entire office, Qian Yi and Buddy.

At first, Buddy probably didn't notice that his mother was gone, and after a long time, he suddenly raised his head, then stood up and looked left and right, although his face was still expressionless, but Qian Yi noticed Buddy's uneasiness and irritability at the moment, obviously, these were all because of his mother's departure.

Suddenly, Buddy "whined" and ran around the house, even picking up toys placed around the room and starting to throw them around.

"Buddy, let's go find Mommy together, okay?" Qian Yi didn't stop the child, let him vent hard, and only later stepped forward and reached out to him.

Buddy stopped throwing toys at this time, but turned a blind eye to Qianyi's outstretched hand, Qianyi smiled and took the initiative to open the door of the consultation room, and at this time, Buddy's mother had already returned with the baby in her arms.

Under Qianyi's careful observation, it can be seen that Buddy's mood immediately returned to normal and hid back in his corner.

Seeing another mess in the office, Buddy's mother immediately realized that the child was in trouble again, and couldn't help but cry out, "Buddy, how can you do this?"

Qianyi quickly shook her head, signaling her not to be angry at the child.

Now Qianyi had roughly understood the reason, but she still wanted to be sure, so she called a nurse to come in: "Lily, take Buddy to the playroom next door!"

The nurse stepped forward and mobilized Buddy in front of her in a soft tone: "Baby, there are a lot of interesting toys next to it, do you want to come with me to see them?"

Unexpectedly, Buddy didn't raise her head, didn't even react at all, and obviously didn't want to pay attention to the nurse's invitation.

In the end, Qianyi hugged the baby and asked the child's mother to take him with him, but unexpectedly, Buddy directly took his mother's hand, although he couldn't speak, but the meaning was very sure, he wanted his mother to play with him.

Qianyi nodded at her mother, indicating that the baby could be left to her own care, and then let the mother and son go to the playroom together.

Buddy's mother was not too worried about her daughter, and seemed a little hesitant, but in the end, Qianyi smiled and comforted: "Go, I am also a child's mother, I have rich parenting experience, and I will take care of her." ”

Sunlight shone into the house through the curtains, and Qianyi sat by the window with her sleeping baby in her arms and basked in the sun together.

This little baby is really well-behaved, only crying a few times when the diaper is wet, and now he sleeps sweetly, Qianyi sighed a little, and sure enough, it is still a daughter who is likable.

When Qianguang Wing was so old, he was already like an ADHD baby, except for sleeping, he couldn't stop for a moment, and he usually stuck to Qianyi vigorously, and for several nights, Qianyi had to hold Qianguang Wing to make a report, and often by the next day, his arms were stiff.

“Eli

e, are you free?"

He knocked on the door and reached in.

Qianyi hurriedly turned around and raised an index finger to his mouth, signaling the other party not to argue with the sleeping child.

Joh

was amused, lowered his voice and asked, "Why did you become a nanny again?"

"The sick child followed his mother to the playroom next door Last year, I helped take care of the children, what's the matter?" Qianyi slowly walked to the door, only to find it, Joh

Behind him, there were several strangers standing.

"That...... Several friends of the owner came to visit the rehabilitation center and recommended Eli, the most beautiful psychologist in the center

e, so everyone is curious and wants to come and see you. ”Joh

Half-jokingly.

Qianyi could only smile, and then nodded politely to a few guests: "Please come in, rare Joh."

He is willing to boast with a clear conscience. ”

The guests couldn't help but laugh.

When everyone was invited into the consultation room to sit down, Qianyi found that there was a young Chinese woman among them, in fact, the other party had not spoken, but from the temperament alone, Qianyi could conclude that she was her own compatriot.

Qian Yi sat aside with the child in her arms and began to talk to the visitor.

After introducing each other's identities, Qianyi really couldn't help laughing, it turned out that the one was called "M."

s.She

The woman is not only Chinese, but also from City A, and after six years, Qianyi can see her fellow villagers in the United States, and she has a sense of intimacy from the bottom of her heart.

Very unexpectedly, although it looks young, M

s.She

But he is very respected by others, and it seems that his status is not low.

"Listen to D

. Ka

l mentioned, Eli

e has a unique insight into the treatment of autism in children, and we came to visit him. ”M

s.She

He smiled: "Actually, when I participated in the forum yesterday, I also listened to your speech, which was very inspiring. ”

"It's over!" Qian Yi said modestly, and lowered her head to comfort the child in her arms, in fact, she was not very confident in yesterday's speech.

"I would venture to ask, are you Chinese?"

s.She

Suddenly asked.

Qianyi nodded: "I am Chinese." Later, it was simply Chinese to reply to her: "It's really a coincidence, my hometown is also in City A, if you guess correctly, M."

s.She

I guess I'm from City A, right?"

M

s.She

First taken aback, then laughed, and simply said in Chinese: "This is not called the old man to see the old man, two tears in his eyes." ”

Hearing the A-City accent inadvertently brought out by the other party when he spoke, Qianyi felt familiar and cordial, and this feeling was really warm.

At this time, Buddy and his mother walked in, and at this time, Buddy's mood was noticeably relaxed.

Qian Yi said to the guests, "I'm sorry. Then he walked up to the mother and son, but instead of returning the baby directly to her mother, he touched Buddy's head and said to his mother: " Buddy needs attention very much, especially from the mother, I have to say, since having a daughter, you seem to ignore Buddy, don't think that autistic children don't feel, he can keenly feel that he is being ignored, and is afraid of this neglect, and Buddy can't express dissatisfaction in words, can only use a variety of behaviors that you feel unacceptable, looking forward to your attention, in fact, even normal children will be like this. ”

Buddy's mom finally understood, "Thanks, Eli

e, I know the crux of the problem, it is indeed that I did not do it well. ”

Qianyi finally returned the little baby: "I am also a mother, and I know that what children need most is care from their mothers, so don't ignore any of your children, especially Buddy, he is actually very sensitive and needs you to take care of and communicate patiently, so that his emotions can slowly stabilize." ”

Qian Yi also forgot that she still had guests at this time, and actually taught Buddy's mother several new rehabilitation training methods, and when she sent the mother and son away and returned to the office, she remembered that she had been rude, and this is when Joh

Most of the guests have been taken away, just the M

s.She

Still sitting on the sofa, I was leisurely flipping through a psychology journal.

See Chii come in, M

s.She

Stood up and walked to her, stretched out his hand, and said in Chinese again: "Hello, formally introduce, my name is Xue Fu, I used to be a psychologist, but my professional direction is depression, and now it is basically deserted." ”

Qianyi shook the other party's hand: "My name is Qianyi, it's nice to meet you." ”

"Can we talk if you don't bother?" Xue Fu asked with a smile.