Chapter 229: Fish and Dragon Change
However, the colorful city life when she was a student always made her feel a little unwilling and expectant in the depths of her heart, feeling that her life should be more exciting, and she should not be buried in the countryside and become one of the ordinary peasant women.
However, what can you do if you are unwilling? No matter how talented you are, no matter how beautiful your appearance is, and how beautiful your appearance is, you are not the kind of peerless beauty who brings disaster to the country and the people. One look, one look, three looks, didn't dump any city, let alone any country, the wild bee wave butterfly seduced a lot, that was not what she needed.
and her ordinary family background, especially from a rural family, there are not many ways for her to choose, so she is helpless. She's still sane and realistic. Wisely resigned herself to her fate, went home, got married and had children, and she no longer had those unrealistic illusions.
Staying in this fairly wealthy family with peace of mind, now she is a mother of two children, and there are things worth her busy doing at home, and she doesn't have to run away. After a long time, even those old classmates rarely took the initiative to contact them, and they did not go to the state city to participate in the activities organized by their classmates, and they were not even interested in participating in the wedding of their classmates. I plan to fade out of the circle of my classmates in high school, out of sight, out of mind.
What are you doing going out, watching those students who are admitted to colleges and secondary schools show off their current status, and watching those students who are urban to show their superiority?
Lei Jia has no opinion on those students who are also from rural areas and are admitted to colleges and secondary schools, which is the result of people's efforts and the treatment they deserve.
Among those students with urban identity, they are also students who failed the college entrance examination, but because of their special urban hukou and special family relationships. They don't need to work hard, and the jobs and benefits they get are even higher than those college classmates who were admitted to the university secondary school and came back to work after a few years of hard work, and their development prospects are more immeasurable, and they are more free to sway among their classmates, and those people make her speechless.
Don't look at Qi Jingtao, a classmate who was already very prominent in high school, he still performed so well after work. However, Qi Jingtao is nothing at all among his high school classmates, no matter how good he is, he is just a worker in a large enterprise. And those students whose own abilities are not very good, and with family relationships, have a better work unit than Qi Jingtao, have greater development prospects, and are more promising.
Lei Jia herself knew that among her high school classmates, Li Jian, who was her former suitor, was not admitted to a college or secondary school at all, and now he is an upright department-level cadre in the Ta District Government.
Why did Li Jian graduate from high school and work in the government department? Can he still get a so-called correspondence university bachelor's degree while his classmates who were admitted to university were studying? Now he also has a dog-like bachelor's degree and is still continuing to study for graduate school.
It's not because Li Jian's father was the deputy head of the district at the time and the current deputy mayor. Of course, Li Jian's current old father-in-law is not simple, Lei Jia's father is not as good as Li Jian's current wife's father...... Don't compare, it's not a species at all, how can you compare? How can ants and wolves be compared? There's no comparison.
In addition to her family background, how many people are stronger than her and more beautiful than her? How many are more talented than her? Including her former suitor Li Jian's current wife. They are just relying on an identity, relying on their family background, what do they have to show off?
Back then, it was because his talent was so outstanding and he had too much fun that he forgot his real family background and spent too much time and energy where he shouldn't have spent. Lei Jia didn't know how to play in the city after all, and he didn't take the corresponding professional specialty student level certificates, and he couldn't take the professional exam in the college entrance examination. She didn't study cultural knowledge well, and she failed in the ordinary college entrance examination, so she failed to change her fate and identity.
In this era, the huge gap between urban and rural identities is a watershed and a chasm that cannot be easily crossed. It is not an exaggeration to say that the difference between rural and urban hukou can be described as vastly different.
In this era, girls with rural hukou status do not seem to be a species in front of those boys with urban hukou status. Of course, boys with rural hukou status are not a species in front of those girls with urban hukou status. Don't look at them living, studying, and playing together every day, in fact, there is a difference between them. Students with rural hukou, as long as they fail to pass the college entrance examination, incarnate as dragons in this dragon pool similar to mythological stories, they will always be fish, and noble dragons are not a species.
It's not a species in the first place, and those female students who think they have good conditions and feel that they have a chance to be promoted to the dragon clan want to marry a male classmate with a city hukou, and they can only be described as difficult. Except for those lovers who are bewitched by the magic of love, a man with an urban hukou marries a daughter-in-law with a rural hukou, and under normal circumstances, there is either no way or a way.
If a woman with a rural hukou is married to a man with an urban hukou, your rural identity is still the same, and it is difficult for you to even move to the city with a hukou and become a superior urban resident.
Unless, other people's sons are too bad, or there is something wrong, and they really can't find any decent daughter-in-law in the city, and in order to pass on the lineage, they have to consider marrying a rural daughter-in-law; unless, you can really charm other people's sons, and they have connections and the ability to help you solve the rural household registration, so that you can change your urban household registration through marriage, and let you turn your crow into a phoenix.
This is the reality, not the reality that ordinary people can easily change. Other places are not so prominent, and the high school, a special place with the function of Hualongchi, is so eye-catching and dazzling in the difference between urban and rural areas.
Rural hukou students and urban hukou students are really two different species. Those students who are involved in early love can consciously distinguish their own species, and will not easily have cross-species romances. Those cross-species romances are also the possibility that the other party thinks that his or her lover is good enough to mutate. Anyway, there are not many relationships that don't mutate in the end, and there are not many good results. Especially those girls with rural hukou, if they get involved too deeply, they will inevitably swallow the bitter fruit in the end.
How many of the male classmates who were around her in those cities and towns really wanted to marry her? Everyone was just having fun, but what would be the result of continuing to associate with those people? Lei Jia had already seen countless precedents. She's a smart person, and her head isn't foggy yet. Therefore, she accepted her fate, gave up, and went back to the countryside to marry with peace of mind.
There seem to be a lot of jobs in the cities, and they seem to be full of unlimited opportunities for development, but how many of them are for rural people? How many of the jobs that are really prepared for rural people are willing to do the jobs that are not at ease in the countryside?