137, it's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, let her go!
Jian's mother Zeng Yu finally came back from her hometown in Ten Cities, with a happy face.
This joy comes not only from the debt-free body that has finally paid off all the debts she has had for seven or eight years, but also from the change in the attitude of her younger brothers and sisters towards her when she returns to her parents' home this time.
Seven or eight years ago, her two younger brothers and one sister, including her brother-in-law and brother-in-law, were of course respectful, thoughtful and enthusiastic in front of her, the eldest sister. When she returned to her parents' house, she was either invited by this family or by that family, and she would have a big table of delicious treats for her, who lived in the city and became a "city person", the first eldest sister of the Zeng family to buy a house in the city!
However, these treatments were all available before her "dead ghost husband" died and she didn't borrow money from her mother's family.
Later, her husband had cancer, she borrowed a lot of money from her younger brother and sister, so many years, because of Wang Jian's study, her personal ability was limited, and the money owed to her mother's brothers and sisters has not been able to be paid off at one time, and she can only "pay in installments", and the family pays back a few thousand every year, just like that, slowly, she feels that the attitude of her family towards her and Wang Jian does not seem to be as warm and thoughtful as before.
For example, when she goes back to her parents' house, except for the eldest brother who has the best relationship with her, she will invite her to dinner, and the eldest brother and sister will not invite her to eat at home. Even if you invite it occasionally, you won't treat her and Wang Jian with a lot of delicious treats like before, but what you eat.
Not only that, the eldest brother and the younger sister's family, including their wives and husbands, also "pointed out the country" and "called her to be a man" in front of her eldest sister from time to time, asking her to "should be like this", or "should be like that", and saying "eldest sister, you can't do this, you should listen to me"......
The change in the attitude of the mother's family to himself Zeng Yu saw in his eyes, and felt pain in his heart, but there was nothing to be done, who called his man dead, and the archway of his own "city people" fell to the altar, not only can he not find some short-term and high-paying odd jobs for his mother's family in the city as before, and help them in all aspects, and now they still owe them a lot of money, and they owe it for five or six years?
Poverty takes away pith!
If you don't have money, you don't have a waist pole, and you can't afford to say hard words!
In this regard, although Zeng Yu was disappointed, he would not blame his younger brothers and sisters for the change in their attitudes towards him.
Because she knows that the relationship between relatives often depends not on how the blood brothers and sisters treat them, but on the attitude of their wives and husbands, her younger brothers and sisters-in-law.
My brother-in-law and brother-in-law are not related to her, and they have not grown up since childhood.
When their own life is good and helpful to them, people are warm and thoughtful to themselves, which is human nature!
When one's own life is declining, and even needs to rely on the help of others to get through the difficulties, people snub their eldest sister, and even say a few cool words, which is also "human nature"!
No, when she went home this time, when she carried a few large bags of Jiangcheng specialties, she paid off all the arrears at one time, and carried her younger brother and sister behind her back, and gave her two brothers-in-law and brother-in-law a red envelope of 10,000 yuan privately as a thank you, and finally, according to Wang Jian's meaning, she revealed to them the current "roughly" of her family income, but also let them have any difficulties at home in the future, or if they want to go to the county to buy a house if they are poor, they can open their mouths to borrow from her, a few brothers-in-law and brother-in-law who were a little cold to her before, suddenly, almost only in an instant, they became extremely enthusiastic, thoughtful and extraordinary, they had to keep her to eat, and let their children drive to the city, chickens, ducks, geese, fish and rabbits, and bought a lot of good dishes to entertain her aunt, who was "rare to come back"!
It is also for this reason that Zeng Yu, who originally planned to stay for only one day and return to Jiangcheng, stayed in his hometown for three days - the three younger siblings rushed to invite her to dinner, especially the wives and husbands of the three younger siblings made the most fierce trouble, and the attitude of retention was the most resolute, after learning that she and Wang Jian would not return to their hometown for the Chinese New Year this year, they had to leave her at home for a reunion dinner in advance! Two younger brothers and a younger sister, one person a day, feng shui turns, Zeng Yu had to be reluctant on his face, reluctantly, but his heart was very happy, and he only felt that he had stayed for the New Year half a month ahead of schedule.
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Jian's mother Zeng Yu was beaming with joy, and his second cousin in the next room was also happy in the past two days, with a smile on her face, walking with the wind, and she didn't know what the other party was happy about.
The two women in the family are all happy, but Wang Jian has been sad and depressed in the past two days.
The reason for his malaise is naturally because of the green leaves.
On the night of the awkward quarrel with Ye Lu, he opened WeChat and left a message for Ye Lu in WeChat, first admitting his mistake to the other party, expressing regret and reflection on his "sneaking behavior" this afternoon, and saying that he would definitely change his past mistakes in the future, even if Mars hit the earth, he would definitely hold her hand and never give up.
After some introspection and promise, Wang Jian explained to Ye Lu the reason for his abnormality in the afternoon. Wang Jian left a message in WeChat:
"Xiaolu, I am indeed sorry for the incident in the afternoon, and I regret it afterwards, but I really have a reason why I have to do this! I am not afraid that Zhou Xiaohai will beat me, nor am I afraid that I will not be able to beat him-I may not be able to beat him-but I can't clash with Zhou Xiaohai in public, and I can't let the public see my face and take pictures of my image.
"As for the reason why I can't be seen by the public, I want to explain it to you in person.
"Midori, I want to see you, the sooner the better, I hope you can give me a chance to explain and explain. ”
After the above news was sent, Wang Jian did not get a response from Ye Lu that night. He thought that the other party was asleep, so he planned to watch it again the next day.
However, the next day, the message area under the WeChat leafy avatar was still blank.
So, Wang Jian called the other party again.
However, Chlorophyll's phone is still turned off!
"So, do you really don't want to forgive me? you won't even give me a chance to explain?" Wang Jian looked at the second-hand fruit 6SPLUS that couldn't be clicked in his hand, and thought depressedly.
made no less than ten phone calls to Ye Lu, but the other party didn't answer him, and he didn't reply to the message in WeChat, and in desperation, he thought of Lin Xiaoya's suggestion to him last night:
Tell Ye Lu directly about his other identity on the Internet!
What if you let Ye Lu know that he is a "pink cute man"?
It's easy.
All he needs is two selfies, one of him covering himself with a hat, glasses and a mask, and one of him removing the burden from his head and face.
Wang Jian believed that as long as he did this, Ye Lu would definitely be like Lin Xiaoya, who looked at his face for the first time, shocked and dumbfounded, and then he would take the initiative to contact him, and even take the initiative to come to him.
But what's the point of that?
If he really does that, what works, makes Ye Lu's heart soft, and makes the other party change his mind and choose to forgive him, it is not him Wang Jian, but the "first person in Douyin" on the Internet who is "fascinated by thousands of people, loved by thousands of people" and has more than 20 million fans - "Pink Cute Man"!
Compared with the "pink cute man" who has only existed for a few months, Wang Jian still cares more and prefers the identity of "Wang Jian" who has accompanied him for more than 20 years in reality!
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"Alas, forget it! I should have done, I should have said, I should have saved, I have done it, I have said, I have saved! If Ye Lu still doesn't want to forgive me, and thinks that I am a 'coward' and 'seed' who is not worthy of her, then it is up to her.
"In the past, when I encountered such a situation, I would probably choose to lick the dog, choose to give up my self-esteem and ask for her forgiveness, and ask her to give her another chance to 'forgive' my sins.
"Now, though, there's no need for that. It's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, let her go!"
When a person has no choice, face and dignity are of course not very important, as long as the price is right, he can sell it at any time.
But when a person has a choice, and there are still many choices, face and dignity are very important, because that has become a spiritual need.
Looking at the mobile phone, and then looking at the face in the mirror that was "beautiful and fragrant" and "captivating the country and the city", Wang Jian finally chose to maintain his dignity and decency, and deleted the two selfies in the mobile phone album from the same person, but one was at home and the other was outside.