Zhao Zhantao touched his hairline, smiled and asked, "That Yuyang, let me ask a question, what kind of person do you think your future partner should be?"

Seeing his daughter contemplating and pondering, Zhang Xuemin couldn't help but interject: "Yu Yang, this question is not an invasion of your privacy, is it? Your father and I are not outsiders, are we?"

"Mom, look at what you said, it doesn't count, well, I'm thinking about it. Zhao Yuyang smiled brightly, and his eyes were long-sighted: "Well, I think that my conditions are not too bad, so I may be a little picky, so you say that I would rather lack than abuse, and I have to insist on this." I think there are at least two or three necessary elements, which are the basic conditions. ”

"Two or three?" Zhao Zhantao was confused by his daughter, "Is there room for adjustment?"

"Dad, I think the third is actually a combination of the first and the second, if the first two are available, I think basically the third should be true, unless it is particularly accidental. ”

Zhao Zhantao and Zhang Xuemin were both confused by their daughter's words, and they didn't quite understand what their daughter meant, "Okay, then what are the necessary elements?"

"The first is to be self-motivated, of course, my self-motivation does not mean that I must be like my father or me, I must be in the system, like academia, like the business world, in fact, I can accept it, of course, in terms of fit, it may be more suitable for our family in the system, so I say this is not absolute. ”

"Self-motivated?" Zhao Zhantao and Zhang Xuemin both nodded thoughtfully, this is indeed a very necessary element, people who have no ambition to get by and live a chaotic life at a young age will definitely not be able to enter their daughter's eyes, which is also normal.

"Yes, if you are self-motivated, you don't necessarily have to start from a high point now, but you should have a clear plan for your future, and you will have the determination and execution to work hard for it, such a man I think is a really mature man. Zhao Yuyang lowered his eyes and added: "There are really not too many boys who can do this, I have also been in contact with a lot of the Provincial Committee of the Youth League, or there are many who pursue me, but I can roughly judge one or two through simple observation, and there are indeed many who are still good, but they are not very mature, either they are ambitious and talented, or they are not confident enough, and they are timid, I don't like this." ”

Zhao Zhantao and Zhang Xuemin looked at each other and smiled bitterly, the standard set by their daughter is indeed a bit high, it is now an era of peace, and a few boys in their twenties can really be fully mature, and they have a clear plan for their future and are working hard for it? This is enough to dispel most of the people, but it is not nothing, there are still some boys who have experienced tempering since childhood, have strong self-confidence, high concentration, and work hard in the system, but it is just how high the height is now, which is not important.

"In fact, it is not for nothing that meets this rule, there are at least three or four introduced by others or encountered by myself. Zhao Yuyang calmly continued: "One of them is the inheritance of the family's business, he himself is a graduate of West China University of Finance and Economics, 92 resigned to the sea to run the family's business, and now he is doing a very good job, the family capital is at least tens of millions of levels, and one is a graduate of the National People's Congress, and now he is the assistant director of a bureau under Handu, and he is a real officer, and it is estimated that he will go to the deputy department that is a matter within a year or two, and there is a cadre in the finance department of a provincial state-owned enterprise, and the level is also a department,...... , even our provincial party committee has people with similar conditions,......"

"Huh?" Zhao Zhantao and Zhang Xuemin didn't expect that there were so many people who could meet their daughter's vision in this article, and they thought that this situation would be very rare, but after thinking about it, their daughter is twenty-four, if it is generally two to five years older according to boys, it is more appropriate, and if the conditions are good, it can be relaxed to eight years old, that is, boys under the age of thirty-two can actually be considered。

"That Yuyang, you haven't even taken a fancy to it?" Zhang Xuemin couldn't help it.

"Because they don't fit my second element. Zhao Yuyang laughed, "I estimate that this second element is in great conflict with the first element, and many of them are difficult to compatible." ”

Zhao Zhantao and Zhang Xuemin sighed, "Say, what kind of tricky and weird request is the second one?"

"Mom and Dad, in fact, it's not weird, my requirement is that the other party should be interesting, and the future life should be colorful. Zhao Yuyang sighed softly, and his eyes became a little confused, "I don't think this is a high requirement, but ......"

"Interesting, life should be colorful?" Zhao Zhantao frowned, as if he was slowly chewing on his daughter's words, savoring the taste, "Well, Yu Yang, do you mean that your other half should be a person who is full of love for life, and should not only be obsessed with work and ignore other aspects ,......of life?"

"Yes, it's still Dad who knows me best!" Zhao Yuyang smiled, his flushed cheeks showed a sweet and bright smile, and Zhao Zhantao and Zhang Xuemin couldn't help but think of how good it would be if their daughter could keep such a bright and happy smile all the time.

"Dad, Mom, I think my other half should pursue something in the career, no matter which line of work is required to pay hard work and hard work, but this does not mean that you have to give up everything, work and rest combined with relaxation in order to have the best play, some things are also not achieved quickly, how to master one of the balance, in fact, is a reflection of a man's maturity. Zhao Yuyang's tone became calm at this time, "Some people think that they can be desperate for their careers, family, feelings, and their own private lives can be abandoned, I am not optimistic about such people, even if the career is successful, then your life is only a career, in the struggle to taste the sweets and hardships of life, this is the value and meaning of life, maybe my ideas are a little too idealistic, but I do hope to have such a goal." ”

"Yu Yang, what you said is indeed very good, but you also have to combine reality, how can there be such a suitable boy in the world?" Zhang Xuemin is much more realistic, frowning and said: "There are also many excellent boys in our industry, but to meet your requirements, it is estimated that they will not even be able to meet half of your requirements, young and hard work, this is the right reason, but also pay attention to a rich life, a wonderful life, can there be a degree?"

"Mom, I'm not saying that you shouldn't work hard now, but I don't believe that you have given up everything in order to work hard, can you even give up some principles of life? If you put it in the system, you are an official fan, and if you put it in a business enterprise, you are a financial fan. Zhao Yuyang pursed his lips and retorted: "Of course, this metaphor is not appropriate, I mean a person who devotes himself to work and is willing to give up everything else, not the person I want." ”

Zhao Zhantao waved his hand to stop his wife, who was still talking, and asked gently, "Yu Yang, what about the third one?"

"The third is actually a combination of the first and two, if I can do these two, and then I can meet again, that is my fate, well, it is fate, I will work hard to pursue. Zhao Yuyang had a serious look on his face.

"Hmm, I see. Zhao Zhantao nodded, "Yu Yang, Dad supports you, it is better to lack than to abuse, there is an old saying, wait for a long time to have a seat, it is yours, you will always come, but when you come, you must boldly pursue it." ”

"Thank you Dad. Zhao Yuyang finally breathed a sigh of relief and glanced at his frowning mother, "Thank you too, Mom." ”

"This girl!" Zhao Zhantao pretended to ask casually: "Yu Yang, who are the few university alumni you met at the door just now, apart from Ren Jie?

"Of course, I really didn't have time at that time, so it fell on Ren Jie. Zhao Yuyang said quite confidently: "In addition to any Jie, Wang Yaguang, who is one year lower than me, is the deputy director of the county party committee office in Qinghe County, Qindu, and after working for five years, he will be the deputy director of the county party committee office, which is very powerful." The other two fathers may know that Hu Chengfeng, the 85-level deputy, is the deputy county magistrate in Qiongshan, and Sha Zhengyang, the 86-level guy, this guy is the most powerful, and now he is the deputy director of the Provincial Development and Planning Commission, I am afraid that he has set a record. ”

"Well, Hu Chengfeng, I know, he is one of the most capable cadres who graduated from Han University, he is only thirty-one years old, and he has become a deputy county magistrate. ”

Zhao Zhantao glanced at his daughter who listened very seriously, and a smile appeared on the corner of his mouth.

In fact, when he heard his daughter talking to several of her classmates, his heart suddenly moved, Sha Zhengyang is also his daughter's college alumnus, and as far as he knows, Sha Zhengyang is now single and has no object, and now there is such a good opportunity to contact, it is a godsend, now it depends on whether his daughter is interested in this person.

"As for Sha Zhengyang, it is estimated that there are more people who know, less than 30 years old, I don't know how this guy got out, he was the county magistrate in Wanzhou Zhenyang, I heard that the investment promotion and economic development of the toss is very strong, there are indeed a few moments, and later transferred to the Changhe Group put forward a series of reform measures, won the appreciation of the main leaders of the province, especially the strategy of going to sea and the strategy of the retail system along the Yangtze River, have started, I have a classmate in PetroChina are saying that the new vice president of the Changhe Group, several moves in a row, each move has hit the soft underbelly of PetroChina and Sinopec, so that they are breathless, and now everyone is studying the strategy of the Changhe Group, turned into following the baton of the Changhe Group. ”

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