Episode 21 That's all here
On the other hand, Qian Haiping and Fang Tingting have been separated for almost a year, he has put all his energy into his work, and he has just recently jumped to a rising IT company and started to explore new markets as a deputy general manager. Such a brand-new job also brought him vitality and motivation in life. He arranges his work every day, so that he is full of fighting spirit every day to fight at work, and then, tired and home, he falls asleep, or after work, feasts customers and friends, and sleeps until dawn after getting drunk. In this way, he can not think about Fang Tingting, and not think about the fact that the person next to him has left him.
Obviously, his state still did not escape his mother's daily inquiries, and the old lady finally learned the fact that they had divorced. The mother blamed herself and said on the phone, "It's all because I have lived in your house for three years, and many habits are different from Tingting, which makes her feel uncomfortable, which caused a crack in your husband and wife's relationship and made you divorce in the end." As he spoke, he began to sob softly on the other end of the phone.
Qian Haiping comforted her, "Mom, it has nothing to do with you, it's all my own fault, because I was too busy with work, neglected Fang Tingting's feelings, and didn't care about her well and understand her, which led to the divorce." Don't think about it, it really has nothing to do with you. ”
I have to say that with the level of deputy general manager, the annual salary is even more generous, and he quickly saved a lot of savings, at this time, his sister and brother-in-law are not very happy in the south, the work pressure is very high and the money is not very much, and the loan for the house makes the two of them breathless. And the most important thing is the problem of children going to school, because it is a foreign household registration, it is difficult to go to a good school, so Qian Haiping bought a house for his mother and sister near his home.
The family can be regarded as reunited after many years of separation. My sister and brother-in-law set up a restaurant near their home and started their lives anew. The return of his mother and sister's family has brought some family warmth to Qian Haiping's life, he likes his little nephew very much, and he also regrets it very much in his heart, because of various reasons such as high work pressure, he does not agree to have children early, maybe he was not so persistent and stubborn at that time, and everything will not be like this now.
However, no matter how much he thinks about it, all his thoughts now are to do a better job and have a better income, at least so that his current family can live comfortably and without worries.
On this day, Qian Haiping's college classmate Wang Junqing returned to his hometown from other places on a business trip, and he lived in Qian Haiping's home, they were all good buddies in college, and they were of course very happy to be reunited. The two of them talked about a lot of things together, college affairs, and the recent situation at work.
His brother Wang Junqing was very surprised and regretful about the divorce of Qian Haiping and Fang Tingting, obviously, this pair is a very perfect and suitable pair in the hearts of him and his classmates, but he didn't expect this ending in the end.
Wang Junqing stayed at Qian Haiping's house for three days, and two days for him to go home to see his parents and reunite with his high school classmates. Coincidentally, one of his high school buddies is none other than Fang Tingting's attending doctor, Zhong Shijia.
On this day, after receiving a call from Wang Junqing, Zhong Shijia happily agreed to meet him at a barbecue restaurant near high school. In high school, playing skewers, drinking beer, bragging, and watching football should be the greatest pleasure for these teenagers, and when they meet again, both of them are already middle-aged.
The two of them had a great conversation. The TV in the barbecue restaurant is playing a promotional video of a blind date program, and it is none other than Fang Tingting. "Junqing, look at that woman!" Zhong Shijia pointed.
Seeing Fang Tingting appear on TV, or a blind date column, Wang Junqing was very surprised, how did the big beauty and goddess in their hearts fall into such a program to find a partner? He was very puzzled.
"This woman is a patient of mine, and a while ago, I thought she was dying, and I felt sorry. This woman is really serious, if I didn't have a family, and she was a cancer patient, maybe I would have been on this show for her and pursued her. Zhong Shijia said jokingly, obviously in front of his old classmates, he didn't have to hide his admiration for other women.
"Fang Tingting is your patient, is she a cancer patient?" Hearing Zhong Shijia's words, Wang Junqing was even more surprised.
"What, do you know her?" this time it was the Zhong family who was surprised.
"She's the ex-wife of one of my college buddies, when did she get cancer?" Wang Junqing felt that there was something strange in it, because when Qian Haiping mentioned Fang Tingting, he didn't tell himself such a big thing, so he decided to get to the bottom of it and ask for clarification.
So, about the process of Fang Tingting's treatment, Zhong Shijia told Wang Junqing 1510.
At Qian Haiping's house, Wang Junqing told Qian Haiping what he learned today with a serious face. Hearing this, Qian Haiping's face kept changing, "Could it be that Tingting left me and had something to do with her suffering from cancer?" That's right, the time happened on the same day, and on that day her eyes were red, crying and telling me that she wanted to divorce me. Could it be because she knew she had cancer? This stupid woman, how could she divorce me when she was terminally ill? Was she afraid that she would injure me? Was she afraid that I wouldn't be able to bear it? Why didn't you let me help her share it? Accompany her through the most difficult days?" Qian Haiping, who had the truth revealed, had a blank mind and sat on the sofa with his ass, tears gushing like a spring, and he couldn't stop venting wildly.
So, he slapped himself in the face, "I'm not human, I don't even know that my wife has such a serious illness, I'm not human, if I didn't make her unhappy and so depressed, how could she get that kind of disease? I'm selfish, I'm ruthless, when Tingting needs someone to take care of her the most, and when she needs people's attention the most, I leave her and let her suffer from the pain alone, I don't deserve to be her husband, I'm a cold-blooded animal." ”
"Don't be like that, Haiping, I don't blame you, this is Fang Tingting's decision, you don't know the truth, how can you blame you!" Wang Junqing comforted Qian Haiping and tried to stop his self-harm.
After sobering up, Qian Haiping decided to ask Fang Tingting about everything, if it was really as he imagined, then he would use his life's efforts to get Fang Tingting's forgiveness and redeem his sins.
When he contacted Fang Tingting through Liu Xiaoqian, the two finally had a chance to reunite after a long absence.
Obviously, Fang Tingting in front of him gave him the feeling that he was no longer the person he used to be. Her face is still the same beautiful, but she has lost her previous cold expression, and has become more bright and gentle, she seems to have a smile on her face that can't be hidden, and the whole person looks more peaceful and quiet.
"Tingting, I already know everything, why didn't you tell me when you were so seriously ill? Didn't we say that we would share weal and woe? Why didn't you tell me when there was such a situation? Do you have no confidence in me? I know my past, what I did failed to take care of you, I thought that working hard to earn money to support your family was the best for you, but now that I think about it, if you just want a rich life, it is too easy, and your expectations for me are just a person who can be relied on and considerate of you. Someone who cares about you. However, I understood this too late. Speaking of this, Qian Haiping's eyes moistened.
Yes, he is really a very low pattern of people, once a poor family environment, so that all his expectations for life is to change the status quo through his own efforts, to earn a lot of money to improve the living conditions of his family, but there is not only money in life, but also family affection and daily life bits and pieces, when they once had no money, life is very poor, but life is still very sweet, and later, in order to make money, for the career day and night work, completely ignore the meaning of family life lies in the company of each other, in dealing with firewood, rice, oil and salt. "Tingting, can you give me a chance? Let's start over? I want to take good care of you, I can quit my current job, and our savings are enough for the future life, I want to make up for my past mistakes, take good care of it first, and feel every moment with you." Qian Haiping really had an epiphany at this time, even if two people ask for food together, as long as they are together, life is sweet.
Fang Tingting shook her head, "I'm sorry, Haiping, maybe a few months ago, you said such a thing to me, we can still be together, but now everything can't go back." Too many things have happened around me, I'm sorry, I'm not the same Fang Tingting I used to be. Obviously, in her heart, Qian Haiping has become a thing of the past forever, and they can never go back to the past.
Leaving Fang Tingting, Qian Haiping was stunned, life seemed to have played a great joke with him, God gave him such a good woman, but because of his obsession and deviation in his perception of life, the two of them were lost while walking. At the same time, he also lamented the terrible time, it was only a year after separation, and the relationship for so many years was gone, he couldn't figure it out, he felt both remorse and loss in his heart, and stumbled back to his own world all the way.
That night, Qian Haiping had insomnia, and he suddenly had a deeper epiphany about life. The wonder of time lies in the fact that a change may occur in the next second will change a person's life, change a person's life, and change the direction of a family. A lot of times, missing out is just something that happens in a split second, let alone a year. Therefore, living in the present and cherishing the people in front of you is not a disease-free moan, it is the truth summed up by many people who have used their lives and past pains.