Chapter 17: Parents are short

Listening to his mother's complaints, Li Shaohui was speechless, when his generation was young, he always thought that love was perfect and pure, and he didn't need any material to fill the embellishment, as long as the two people loved each other, a better life in the future could always be made by their own hands.

But parents and elders don't think so, they don't believe that ethereal love can withstand the double test of life and time, they tell us that poor couples mourn all things with the experience of the past, and any love without bread will eventually perish in the near future, hurting others and hurting themselves.

Li Shaohui was silent for a long time, and then persuaded: "Mom, I have also met Yuanyuan's boyfriend, he has a good character, the key is to be very good to Yuanyuan, I think this point is more important than anything else." ”

The mother said angrily: "Okay, what's the use? Later, when we blamed Yuanyuan, she was still not happy, and she was angry at us and didn't let us take care of her business, she was really a white-eyed wolf." ”

"Mom, you don't know Yuanyuan's temper, you can't pull back the nine cows stubbornly, why don't you follow her wishes, after all, her own path still has to be walked by herself, and you can't blame others for making mistakes, besides, 'children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren', you can't manage a lot of things, why waste your efforts?"

"Yo, how old are you, don't let it go, in our hearts, you will always be little children who can't grow up. And you, you are embarrassed to tell your mother these big truths, Yuanyuan is only one year older than you, and they all talk about marriage, but what about you, in the past few years, except for the one surnamed Tang, my mother can't even see the shadow of a girl, let alone hold her grandson. Li Shaohui's mother shifted the topic to Li Shaohui again as she spoke, which has become her mother's biggest heart disease, and every time she receives a call from her mother, she will receive some education.

Li Shaohui sighed slightly, and said with a dry smile: "Mom, why did you talk about my head again?"

"None of you have any peace of mind, those who should get married don't get married, those who should ask for a bride price don't, even if you get married, you don't have a good time, you are arguing all day long, it really breaks our hearts. The mother complained.

"What's wrong with my cousin?" Li Shaohui heard that his mother said that the cousin of the third aunt's family, this cousin is more than ten years older than him, and he has been married for eight or nine years, it stands to reason that he has passed the "seven-year itch", and the husband and wife should love each other more and more, but the two of them are just the opposite, quarreling and fighting every day, picking noses and eyes, making chickens and dogs jump, and there is also a point that life and death do not divorce.

Li Shaohui's mother said: "During the Lantern Festival, I thought that since I had nothing to do, I would go to your third aunt's house to visit the door, and when I went, I realized that their family was really a mess. ”

"They're not going to fight again, are they?" asked Li Shaohui.

"There are no fights, but it's about the same, every day the whole family of five or six people is noisy, the noise is boiling, and the neighbors have complained many times, and your cousin is really not good, he is almost forty years old, he is not reasonable at all, and he respects his parents.

A few years ago, your third aunt and their business lost hundreds of thousands, your cousin not only did not help pay off the debt, but also said cool things on the side, your third aunt and uncle in order to repay the debt, the two who had never worked in their lives, went to work in the factory in their fifties, and worked tirelessly for more than four years, plus the pension of the two, they barely paid off the debt.

Later, it wasn't a few years later, the conditions of your third aunt's family were a little better, and with a little savings, they wanted to buy a car and a big house in installments. When I bought a car last year, your third aunt and your cousin discussed, the car cost half of a person, after buying, basically for your cousin, these were discussed, but when you arrived at the 4S store, your cousin actually said that there was no money, and the money was used to speculate in stocks and was trapped, and it couldn't be withdrawn. ”

Listening to the shortcomings of these parents, Li Shaohui smiled bitterly and said: "What can I do, my cousin has been spoiled since he was a child, he fought and skipped school in junior high school, and my third aunt didn't care about them, and they still blindly spoiled them, and now they are married or they don't grow up, and they always think about relying on their parents." ”

"Also, it is estimated that your third aunt will have a long hard life in the future, this year your third aunt plans to buy a house for her own retirement, they are almost sixty years old, and it is not a way to rent a house, so I went to discuss with your cousin again, thinking that I would make a big head, let your cousin pay a little less, after buying, let your cousin go to live in a new house, and the two of them will live in your cousin's old house, which is not for your cousin's sake, but I didn't expect your cousin to be more and more hateful and excessive this time, and he didn't say anything about it, so he simply refused directly, saying that his two children were under pressure and incapable, and said that the pension of your third aunt and two people can receive a lot a year, He spends a few dollars less every year, and he can save the full amount of money to buy a house in a few years. After the mother finished speaking, she angrily scolded Li Shaohui's cousin.

Li Shaohui listened to his mother's angry words, and could only say with relief: "Mom, you can also dissipate your anger, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and there is no way to do it." ”

Li Shaohui's mother is a very serious person, because his father is extremely macho and immature, never knows how to be considerate, plus his brothers and sisters were often naughty when they were young, often making their mother angry, sometimes the sad mother can only secretly wipe tears, now Li Shaohui's brothers and sisters are a few older, and they are much more sensible, so they don't want to see their mother sad about anything anymore.

"I can see through it, as far as you junior brothers and sisters, none of them are sensible and filial to their parents, and this time your cousin took away the retirement books of your third aunt and both of them to receive their salaries, which is really an unfilial son. After Li Shaohui's mother finished speaking, she sighed deeply.

Li Shaohui didn't want his mother to be too angry, so he joked: "Mother, I don't know where the little one upset you?

"You're embarrassed to say, how old are you, you only care about work, you don't even look for a partner, I don't have a heart in decline this day, and you are not much better. Li Shaohui's mother turned the topic back again as she spoke, pointing the finger at him.

Li Shaohui smiled bitterly in his heart, did his mother kill the chicken to show the monkey, and deliberately said that his cousin's matter was actually aimed at himself, he helplessly distinguished: "Mom, this kind of fate can't be forced to come, you don't want me to find one casually, and then like my cousin, it's not your old man who is sad at that time." ”

The mother laughed when she heard this: "You have a lot of excuses, forget it, I won't talk about you, but your cousin's little daughter Zhuzhu is really cute, pink, blinking a pair of big furry eyes, very good-looking, not one or two grades better than when you were a child." ”

After so many years, Li Shaohui's blow to his mother has long been numb, and sometimes he doubts that he is biological? Besides, his appearance is not determined by himself, it is completely taken from his parents, if he is not good-looking, then he is not slapping his mother in the face? "

In Li Shaohui's wry smile, his mother said again: "It's that there are some problems with that education, I'm too used to Zhuzhu, I can't stand it, your cousin and sister-in-law only buy one snack every time they buy snacks, and never buy it for Lulu, and when Zhuzhu is naughty and bullies Lulu, your cousin and his wife are not allowed to fight back, which is too unusual." ”

Lulu is her cousin's eldest daughter, a seven or eight-year-old girl, obedient and well-behaved, much better than her cousin and his wife, Lulu likes to go to Li Shaohui's house to play every winter and summer vacation.

"Oh, no wonder Lulu always likes to run to our side, so that's the case, but we can't take care of this kind of thing, so it's good to take her to us early on vacation. Li Shaohui was also a little distressed when he heard it, how could he be so partial to his own children?

Mother is like this, mother-in-law and mother talk about the shortcomings of the family, Li Shaohui also listened silently, at this moment, he suddenly felt that if he could listen to his mother nagging like this every day, it would also be a kind of happiness--- ordinary and fulfilling.

Li Shaohui chatted with his mother for more than an hour before hanging up the phone at his mother's instructions.

After hanging up the phone, Li Shaohui became more and more lonely, he thought of his mother's figure, and he was secretly ashamed, he was also a Ben San, family and career are very important to men, marking the maturity of men, none of them can be done well, let his mother worry all the time, it seems that he is indeed a bad child.

Li Shaohui sighed, looking at the time, it was already eight o'clock in the evening, and it had been about a week since he left Nanjing Far East Automation Control System Engineering Co., Ltd., and it was time for him to regain his strength.

Li Shaohui was born in the society for two years, and other efforts have not grown, but he has a unique understanding of interviews, because in the past few years, he has been looking for countless jobs, and the number of interviews is also as many as a cow's hair.

1. When the interviewer asks the interviewer to briefly introduce himself, it is likely to mean that before this, the interviewer has not read the interviewer's resume at all, so at this time, the interviewer should introduce everything about himself in detail, such as work runoff, specialties, hobbies, hometown, etc.

2. When the interviewer asks the interviewer why he wants to come to their company, it is likely to mean that the interviewer is the only one who goes to their company for an interview, and at this time, the interviewer has the capital to mention his ideas and benefits such as salary.

3. When the interviewer specifically describes a problem to the interviewer, it is likely to be one of his confusions, and he wants to solve the confusion through the interview, so this is the critical moment for the interviewer to perform well and prove himself...

The night is deeper, and Li Shaohui is still tirelessly revising his resume, which is generally composed of his hometown, job search intention, self-evaluation, work experience, project experience, etc.

According to Li Shaohui's experience, the content of the school learning situation in the resume is not important to an employee who has worked for several years, because no one has the time and energy to check the actual situation in your school, and more importantly, many interviewers are actually "985" and "211" for our country I don't know much about the school, and I don't know what to do with the majors, so there is no need to be too serious about this item of the resume, but the other items need to be carefully improved and modified, and we must not be careless.

After about an hour, Li Shaohui rubbed his temples tiredly, revised his resume, then took a shower and slept, and lay down in the quilt and secretly decided that he would have a good interview tomorrow and start again.