Chapter 122: The Cause (II)
At this time, Zhang Wei's performance was a bit like a magic stick, but his guess was correct, which surprised the Jiang family, and when they heard that their old lady's lethargy originated here, the Jiang family's hearts sank.
Zhang Wei didn't seem to see this, and continued to himself: "I'll give you an analysis, and everyone should understand." ”
"First of all, Grandpa Jiang and Grandma Guo are both from Sichuan and Shu, because of Grandpa Jiang's work, Grandma Guo went to Yanjing with him, if Grandma Guo continued to work, maybe there would not be so much free time, this person, as soon as he has more free time, he is easy to think crankily, what to think, what to think? Fortunately, the family is around, so it won't be so difficult to be in Yanjing, so there are no problems. ”
"Secondly, Grandpa Jiang left two years ago, which is a big blow to Grandma Guo, it should be that your children are very filial and worried that the old man will be too sad, so he has been accompanying Grandma Guo, which makes her feel very happy, so at the beginning of Grandpa Jiang's death, there were no problems. ”
"Later, after a period of precipitation, you may think that the old man has passed that sad stage, plus he is really busy with work and study, and he has reduced the time spent with Grandma Guo, and this reduction should have decreased sharply suddenly, which made Grandma Guo feel a lot more deserted around her, plus the age of the person, it is inevitable that she likes to recall, which makes Grandma Guo have a 'long thought and sadness'. ”
"To put it bluntly, Grandma Guo's problem is caused by no friends, no hobbies, and lack of companionship. And she is a university professor, different from ordinary people in terms of thoughts and concepts, and her cognition of some things may be more far-reaching, I make a bold guess, for Grandma Guo, her lover is gone, her children are also promising, her hometown has been blurred, for her, there are too few things worth caring about in this world, so she is very open-minded about the length of life, and she doesn't care about anything, and she doesn't force anything. It stands to reason that this mentality is good, and it is also in line with the hearts of some elderly people, but unfortunately everything is too much, and Grandma Guo is too open-minded, so she doesn't care so much about anything. ”
Zhang Wei said this very level, in fact, the real meaning of so many words is, "The old man is old, his wife is dead, and he lacks companionship, plus the old lady is a cultural person, or a literati, she is more sad and sad, she likes to think nonsense, after a long time, I feel that it is not interesting to live, what others love me, it doesn't matter if I live or die, this is the so-called weak will to survive." ”
Everyone present understood the meaning of these words, and the living room suddenly fell into silence, Jiang Xinguo's face was very complicated, from the bottom of his heart, he did not agree with what Zhang Wei said, but objectively speaking, what Zhang Wei said may not be unreasonable.
Perhaps feeling that the atmosphere was a little depressing, Yuan Zhengze opened his mouth to break the silence and asked, "Brother Zhang, can Grandma Guo's situation be improved?"
Zhang Wei replied: "Of course, as I just said, Grandma Guo's situation is called 'soul disorder' in the folk saying, and there is no shortage of old people who die without illness in the folk
, that is, the body is good, you can still eat half a catty of pork ribs at noon, talk and laugh with people, but during the lunch break, as soon as you sleep, you leave, this belongs to the 'soul disorder', so we must have a correct cognition, you don't think that the soul dissipation is a disease and bad thing, in fact, this is a natural thing, and our human body aging is a truth, strictly speaking, the same is the case at the end of life. Let's just say now, each of our souls is actually in a state of dissipation, but very slowly, Grandma Guo's soul dissipates a little faster than others, if a normal person is one, then Grandma Guo may be one point five. It is precisely because of this situation that Grandma Guo feels that she is not energetic and always wants to sleep. ”
"You know, the body and the soul are two things, if the soul is water, then the body is a wooden barrel, the more intact the barrel, the water will not lose anything except natural volatilization, but the wooden barrel that carries the water has experienced wind and sun, plus natural damage, it is inevitable that there will be damage, once there is damage, the loss of water will be accelerated. Why young people are full of energy, it is because the body of young people is in the best state, the body is like a brand new wooden barrel, so the soul is stable, of course, it dissipates very slowly, why some monks in ancient times and some people who practice martial arts today live long, is that they understand this truth. ”
For this kind of statement, the people in the room heard it for the first time, and they couldn't help but feel a little magical, and they also recognized it somewhat.
"Brother Zhang, what should I do if you still haven't said anything about my grandmother's situation?" Jiang Ruijie was not too interested in such statements, she was more concerned about her grandmother's body, so she opened her mouth to ask.
Zhang Wei said: "After a while, when Grandma Guo wakes up, I will give her a full body massage, and use some techniques to help her stabilize her soul, this method only needs to be carried out three times, and I will come over at noon every day for the next three days, so that Grandma Guo's soul can dissipate slower, slower than normal people." However, my method can only cure the symptoms, if you want Grandma Guo to really open her heart knot, then she must have concerns and bonds for the world, which is the root cause. ”
"Mr. Zhang, is there any specific way?" Jiang Xinguo did not deny Zhang Wei's soul statement, and directly asked what to do.
Zhang Wei said: "To put it simply, it is to have more companionship and understanding for the elderly, and when you get older, some desires will naturally weaken, and you must cultivate the interests and hobbies of the elderly." Specific to Grandma Guo, the first thing is to control her to reduce the time she reads, there is an idiom called 'case work', which means that I don't need to say, a short period of reading every day is beneficial, and the benefits will become bad for a long time, which will lead to slight damage to the body, which is still too much. It is very good to cultivate her other hobbies, such as traveling, singing, raising flowers, planting grass, listening to music, playing tai chi, calligraphy and painting, etc., and if it doesn't work, find a way to let Grandma Guo return to campus and become a guest professor, and it is not bad to go to classes two or three times a week. Of course, this aspect cannot be forced, and it is best to obey Grandma Guo's own wishes. All in all, it is to let Grandma Guo have something to do, and don't let her have too much leisure time to think about philosophical issues. ”
Jiang Xinguo nodded, and said with a straight face: "I understand, thank you Mr. Zhang for your words, I don't know what you said about the treatment...
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"This has to wait for Grandma Guo to wake up, you can only do it when you are awake, you can rest assured, you can see the effect tonight." Zhang Wei said firmly.
Soon after Zhang Wei told everyone about the crux of Mrs. Guo, the old lady woke up, Zhang Wei came to the old lady's bedroom, and used the simplest method to help the old lady massage, in fact, it is to use the "dead wood in spring" magic to continuously deliver the life force to the old lady's body, although the old lady's body is very healthy, but the aging of the body is inevitable, Zhang Wei's life magic has a good effect on anti-aging, although it is not obvious to the point that the gray hair turns black, but the change in the body can definitely be seen.
When Zhang Wei announced that the first "treatment" was over, the Jiang family and Yuan Zhengze could clearly see that Mrs. Guo was full of energy, her face was full of red light, and her eyes were not as cloudy as before, revealing this clarity. This kind of visible change made the Jiang family immediately regard Zhang Wei as a heavenly man and thank him without a word.
It was getting late, Zhang Wei declined the Jiang family's banquet and insisted on going home, Jiang Xinguo saw that he couldn't keep it, so he and Yuan Zhengze sent Zhang Wei to the gate of the hotel.
At the time of parting, Jiang Xinguo took out a bank card and said very politely: "Mr. Zhang, thank you again for saving my mother, I am worried about my mother's body, I came in a hurry, and I didn't prepare any decent gifts, which is too rude." Therefore, there is 100,000 yuan in this card, which should be regarded as Mr. Zhang's carriage and horse fare, you allow me for three days, and I will definitely prepare a generous gift for you to show my gratitude. ”
Looking at the bank card handed over by Jiang Xinguo, Zhang Wei's face was flat, and he said: "Uncle Jiang, I don't practice medicine, at best, I did a small favor, you have come all the way, it means that you trust Yuan Zhengze and me, I will not accept this money for this trust, please take it back, I do have something at home, I will go first, and I will come again tomorrow after lunch." ”
After speaking, Zhang Wei didn't give Jiang Xinguo a chance, and got into the taxi directly.
Watching the taxi drive away, Jiang Xinguo looked back at Yuan Zhengze and asked, "Zhengzheng, do you think Mr. Zhang thinks the 100,000 yuan is less?"
Yuan Zhengze said with a smile: "Uncle, I don't know if it's too little, but my grandfather once said that Zhang Wei belongs to the masters of the game world, and it is better to owe favors with money. This is also the reason why my grandfather asked me to call Zhang Wei brother, just to deepen the relationship between them. ”
Jiang Xinguo nodded with all his thoughts and said, "Uncle Yuan is still thinking far-reaching, but I think about it." ”
And Zhang Wei, who was sitting in the taxi, didn't know that he had become a master in the game world, and was muttering in his heart, "It's different to have money, I don't even care about 100,000 yuan, I think this is my salary for two or three years without eating or drinking." ”
At noon, Zhang Wei did not go home, but ate something casually in the city and went straight to the city's automobile city. During this time, he traveled back and forth with the old house, the town, the county and the city, and it was really troublesome for each car to travel, and he just came to the city today, so he thought about buying a car, and it would be convenient for him to travel in the future.