"Brother, I met Sun Yan last night. Sha Zhenggang's casual words made Sha's father and Sha's mother both focus on Sha Zhengyang.

"Oh, she's also back to the silver desk?" Sha Zhengyang asked lightly, without even raising his eyelids.

"Well, it was sent back by an Audi, it should be a car from the Handu Municipal Party Committee, a small car. Sha Zhenggang wiped the corners of his mouth, he didn't want to talk about it, but he felt that about his brother's girlfriend, it was best to tell the truth, as for what was going on, it was only for the brother to judge for himself, "I just got out of the car and met me and Lan Hai ready to get into the car, and said hello." ”

"Just say hello?" Sha Zhengyang asked rhetorically, if it was just a hello, Sha Zhenggang would not be so stumbling.

"She asked me where I was and what I was doing, and I said, and she asked me again if you were back, and I said that you came back today, and I felt that she seemed to be a little hesitant, as if she wanted to say something, but in the end she didn't say anything, and left in a hurry. ”

Sha Zhengyang tilted his head and glanced at Sha Zhenggang, "Nothing else?"

"That's all. Sha Zhenggang said honestly.

"Mom and Dad, don't look at me like this, the matter between me and Sun Yan is already in the past, and it is basically impossible for me and her to have anything more. Sha Zhengyang knew that his parents had a very good impression of Sun Yan, and he felt that no matter what aspect, Sun Yan was the best daughter-in-law in their minds.

The problem is that some things are not as simple as they think, Sha Zhengyang estimates that it is difficult for people like Gu Mei and Qing Zhenli to get such a high score in their minds, family background, work unit, these aspects may not account for much in their minds, but they are different in the hearts of their parents.

"Zhengyang, your personal life, your mother and I will not interfere, although we are very sorry for you and Sun Yan's affairs, but we also know that relationship and marriage are a lifelong event, and you must make your own decisions, but we just hope that you can be sure as soon as possible, this is not for you to choose blindly and hastily, to make decisions, but we believe that our own son is so good, there is no reason not to find a suitable partner, you don't want to perfunctory us on the grounds that you are too busy with work, okay? Let's not talk about this matter, you and Zhenggang are in charge of it, let's eat. ”

Sha's father's words were reasonable, there was not much moisture, and his tone was also very neutral and peaceful, which made the two brothers Sha Zhengyang look at each other.

Sha's father's move was to retreat, which made Sha Zhengyang and Sha Zhenggang feel pressure.

If the parents are always talking, maybe the two of them will struggle to avoid it, but picking up the topic in such a frank way makes people have to pay attention to it.

The practice of the Sha family is that the regimental year is the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and although today is twenty-nine, it is only a little more abundant than usual.

After dinner, Sha Zhengyang and Sha Zhenggang consciously returned to their bedrooms.

"Brother, it seems that your personal problem must be solved, I understand you very well, but you probably have to be mentally prepared for this problem, and your identity is not suitable for such a long time. ”

Sha Zhenggang knew Gu Mei, but Lan Hai also told him about Gu Mei's family, and judging from Gu Mei's performance now, this girl is actually psychologically ready to launch, which is Sha Zhenggang's judgment.

As for Bei Jinglei, Sha Zhenggang can only say that the idea is beautiful, the reality is cruel, and the factors are too different in all aspects, if these two can come together, then Sha Zhenggang really has to believe in love and fate.

According to Sha Zhenggang's idea, his brother should still be down-to-earth and choose a suitable one by his side.

This appropriate understanding can be very broad, it can be like Sun Yan, whose family conditions and work are very suitable, or it can be like an ordinary family work, but with good conduct and character, and can take the initiative to take on the role of a virtuous helper, Sha Zhenggang feels that his brother doesn't like the former category very much, so the latter category should be very suitable.

Sha Zhengyang didn't want to pay attention to the other party, when was it Zhenggang's turn to educate himself?

But he also has to admit the objective reality of the other party's words, he estimates that this time Cao Qingtai and Lin Chunming will go back to Handu to meet him, but he is afraid that an unavoidable topic that will be the highlight is his own personal problem.

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"You know, I thought you really thought you could be a maverick on your own, ignoring traditions. Lin Chunming had a golden knife, his body was straight, and he looked at Sha Zhengyang with a serious face, "Xiaoqian really has no fate with you?"

Qian Xuan and I can talk about it, and now we are in constant contact, but we can only talk about it, there are more topics at work, and we are also helping each other in our personal lives, but we really don't call. Sha Zhengyang first affirmed.

"Then I remember that there is a girl in Wanzhou, well, it seems to be a teacher, right?" Lin Chunming even if he left Hanchuan, the news is very well-informed, although he has only stayed in Wanzhou for three or four years, but the prestige established by Lin Chunming in these three or four years is not low, especially some leaders miss the Lin Chunming era very much.

Seeing that Sha Zhengyang seemed to be thinking about this question and didn't answer himself, Lin Chunming became interested for a while, "Is this girl more suitable? Is it because of a different place? You can't solve it yourself?"

Seeing that Lin Chunming attached so much importance to it, Sha Zhengyang was moved and realized that his personal problems had really attracted the attention of several leaders, which was not a trivial matter.

"Mayor Lin, not exactly for this reason. Sha Zhengyang thought for a while before replying seriously: "I want to say that I don't have a little relationship with her, but I always feel that it is a little bit of taste, well, I have been in contact for so long, I want to say that I feel that all the conditions are quite suitable, but I just lack something, well, to put it mildly, the shortcomings are sparks of passion, and I don't have that special feeling,......

Lin Chunming looked at Sha Zhengyang: "Well, you probably want to talk about the feeling of love, right? Well, the love in your mind should be passionate and surging, not seen for a day as if it were every three autumns, or it is only one that sees the advantages and cannot see the disadvantages, right?"

Sha Zhengyang smiled bitterly and was silent.

"Zhengyang, I remember that you originally dealt with two objects, in addition to Xiao Sun, well, you also dealt with one at the earliest, is that one girl particularly impressive and feels very good, so you always want to find the same feeling as that again?"

Lin Chunming's words were extremely straightforward and sharp, and he directly cut through what Sha Zhengyang was hiding in the depths of his heart, is this really the case?

"Then let me tell you, everyone is different, everyone's emotional maturity is different in every period, you can't get that feeling back, you are almost thirty years old now, how can you still get back the feeling that you just graduated from college in your early twenties? Even if it's the same person, it's impossible, because you and her have gone through the changes and precipitation in the past few years, and they will never be the same again, and the feeling you expect can only exist in your memory. ”

Lin Chunming's tone was very affirmative.

As the executive deputy mayor of Jiazhou City, he took great pains to enlighten young people's emotional problems, and both Lin Chunming himself and Sha Zhengyang felt a little funny.

"I see. Sha Zhengyang knows that Lin Chunming's point of view may not be absolutely correct, but it should be a normal correctness, it is difficult for you to get back the original feeling, unless you can meet someone who is particularly destined for you, and can make you completely forget all the people before, but this is too difficult, because in the past and present life, what you have experienced is too complicated, and it is really difficult to get back the original feeling.

"It's good that you understand, then when do you plan to solve this problem?" Lin Chunming saw that Sha Zhengyang wanted to speak and stopped, so he said straightforwardly: "I don't force you, and I don't do that kind of bad thing of pulling Lang matching, so how about a year and a half? Before the National Day in 99, you have to get married, this request is not too much, right?"

Under Lin Chunming's scorching gaze, Sha Zhengyang nodded without hesitation: "I plan to meet Sun Yanzai, if I still have feelings, it's her, if I don't feel it, then let's see if others can accept it, well, all in all, I will solve my personal problems next year." ”

"Okay, now that your personal problems are over, let's talk about where you're going. Lin Chunming nodded, "I had a meal with Mao Xiangdong yesterday and told me about you, basically nothing has changed, at the beginning of April, you may have to go to the ministries and commissions, but because you are facing machine reform, so he doesn't know where to go, and he can't make the decision, but I told him, if you can go to institutions like the Development Research Center of the State Council and the Research Office ,......of the State Council, it is the best, if you can't go, you can go to the State Planning Commission or the Economic and Trade Commission, the Ministry of Finance and other departments."

Lin Chunming obviously also knows Sha Zhengyang's strengths, in fact, going to the State Planning Commission, the Economic and Trade Commission, and other ministries and commissions seems to be a big deal, but the time you go to the temporary post is too short, except for the possibility of getting acquainted with some contacts, it is difficult for you to play a big role, and going to relevant research institutions may allow Sha Zhengyang to give full play to his strengths on some particularly thorny or hot issues at the moment.

"Mayor Lin, I'm afraid it's not easy, right?" Sha Zhengyang also felt that Lin Chunming's idea was a little too beautiful and a little idealistic.

"It's man-made, that is, a few months of temporary posting, it doesn't matter where these ministries go, but for you, this may be a platform, a platform for you to show yourself, even if you only seize the opportunity once, you will be worth it." Lin Chunming's tone was irrefutable, "And I believe that the relevant leaders of the Central Committee should also pay attention to your recent performance, you are listed as a reserve cadre training of the Central Organization Department, and they must have a detailed understanding of your situation, of course, they must use people's strengths, so this is not impossible." ”