Volume IV Section 206 Feelings and Marriages, Problems and Problems
"Utilitarian thinking is at work, Lu Ya, you are a member of the Communist Party. Sha Zhengyang stretched out his hand and nodded twice, and said with a smile: "This kind of thinking is not right, always thinking about results, dazzling results, I am afraid that if I go to a place with a good foundation, I can't get it away with three or five dances, and I will hurt my face?"
Lu Ya was stunned for a moment, and then thought about it, it seems that this is indeed the case, doesn't she just want to go to a county with poor conditions, and you can achieve results in a few moments, so that the leaders are impressed, and the colleagues around you are convinced?
Seeing Sha Zhengyang's forced gaze, Lu Ya shook her head and said with a smile: "County magistrate, it's really a bit like you say that, after all, there are still many differences in the situation in the county, the development zone is much simpler, and the county is much more involved, but what you said last time was right, experiencing more things in a more complicated place is more beneficial to my own growth." ”
"Well, it's good that you understand that. Sha Zhengyang nodded, "But Shandu and Yucheng are probably a little far away from home, and Wanyang and Longling are better." ”
"County magistrate, that's not much to do, I told the one in our family, if I go to the district and county, he will follow, and say what is in my heart, I really don't want to be under the nose of the city, and I will feel embarrassed to compete with the city and the city in the future and your true yang. Shaking his head, Lu Ya had his own thoughts, and said in a deep voice: "It's just that when the time comes, I will ask you to help coordinate with the Municipal Public Security Bureau." ”
"Well, okay, there is no problem with this, I said to Director Qi and Director Xue, if it doesn't work, you can also find the Organization Department, this worry can't be solved, how can you let the cadres work with peace of mind?"
Sha Zhengyang took care of everything, he didn't expect Lu Ya to be unwilling to stay in Wanyang or Longling, and preferred to go to Yucheng or Shandu, Yucheng is also fifty kilometers away from the city, and Shandu is even farther, more than eighty kilometers, and it takes two hours to drive.
But he can also understand that there are too many people pointing fingers at the urban area, but it is not easy to carry out the work, and at the same time, if you get a project in attracting investment, it is easy to attract the coveting of districts and counties such as the Municipal Economic Development Zone or Zhenyang, and sometimes it is also an advantage to be far away.
"County magistrate, I'm curious again, in addition to me and Lao Cao, Wen Yanliang is also leaving, right?" Lu Ya is still a woman after all, and she is also very curious in this regard, so she couldn't help but ask.
"Well, Lao Cao and Wen Yanliang may be the same as you, which district and county they will go to, if you really want to go to Shandu or Yucheng, you can bring it up with the organization, I estimate that Lao Cao and Wen Yanliang, especially Wen Yanliang, are willing to stay in the city. Sha Zhengyang said lightly.
Among the three people, of course, he admires Lu Ya the most, and has the closest relationship with Lu Ya, and Cao Hechuan has a good relationship, Wen Yanliang still has the ability to do things, and he has rules and regulations, but his personality is always a little out of place with himself, appreciation is appreciation, but it is difficult to become friends.
"Of course, Wen Yanliang's wife is on Longling District TV Station, and she is still a host, of course he doesn't want to stay away from his wife. Lu Ya laughed.
"Pay attention to your words and identity, you are a girl, why don't you pay attention to what you say?" Sha Zhengyang glared at Lu Ya.
"What kind of girl, Lao Huanghua, I have discussed with our one, if I don't go to the district and county, I will be ready to have a child, if I want to go to the district and county, I will go down to work for two years and then have a child, and I don't dare to delay it for too long. ”
Lu Ya's generous and heroic personality is quite in line with Sha Zhengyang's heart, straightforward and neat, not so much timid.
"It's almost, you're 31 this year, right?" Sha Zhengyang is still very concerned with Lu Ya's family life, her husband is a real person, and his relationship is not bad, he supports Lu Ya's work very much, and he has also eaten together a few times with Sha Zhengyang, which can be regarded as some friendship.
"It's 31, and it's 32 in May. Lu Ya also sighed with emotion, "I was only 28 years old when I first met you, and I still felt young, how could I be in my thirties in the blink of an eye? Time passed faster than I imagined." ”
"So we all have to hurry up and do more. Sha Zhengyang looked at his watch, "In the evening, I called Su Zihan and Chang Lei and Lao Bei, after I went to Zhenyang, I came back less, and now you are going to the county again, I am afraid that there will be fewer times to get together, and we will have a meal together." ”
If these people add a Qu Xiaowei who can't come back, it can be regarded as Sha Zhengyang's "poor and lowly friend", of course, this "poor and low" is also relatively speaking, no matter how you look at him, he is not considered "poor" when he comes to be the deputy director of the Municipal Party Committee Office, but it is finally a group of friends that Sha Zhengyang first met after coming to Wanzhou and then gradually got closer.
"Good. Lu Ya was also polite, "I called my husband?"
"Of course, you can have two people as much as possible. Sha Zhengyang said happily.
"What about you?" Lu Ya suddenly asked, "You and Xiao Sun seem to have a problem?"
This problem has become a concern for everyone until dinner in the evening.
It is true that this problem may not be a big deal for others, but it is a big deal for Sha Zhengyang.
You are a department-level cadre, but you are not married, and your marital status is still unmarried, which is unacceptable to the traditional Chinese concept of self-cultivation and family rule and peace in the world.
This is not a war era, you can also say that the Huns have not been destroyed, why do you want to use your family as a prevarication, your heart is in a peaceful era, why don't you get married? How dare you not get married?
How can you convince the organization that you are a mature person if you don't get married?
It seems that getting married and having children has become a sign of judging whether a cadre is mature and steady, although it feels a little unreasonable, but the reality is so, especially in the system, this is an unavoidable problem.
"Well, thank you for your concern, I believe that I am 26 years old and should be able to deal with my own personal problems rationally and calmly. Sha Zhengyang could only raise his hand in surrender in the face of everyone's gossip, curiosity and dissatisfaction, "Sun Yan and I did have some problems, which may have a lot to do with our somewhat biased views on the future, and we also tried to solve this problem, but the effect was not good, I also had an agreement with her, so we will have a result when the agreed deadline is up, whether it is good or bad." ”
Seeing that everyone was still dissatisfied, Sha Zhengyang continued: "As for my personal problems, please rest assured, I am not a celibate, and I definitely hope to have a good love life and marriage and family, but this thing is really hard to say, in a vulgar phrase, it is necessary to talk about fate." ”
"Zhengyang, I think that Xiaoqing is very good, she is beautiful and has a good personality, if you really don't have a relationship with Xiaosun, you can consider Xiaoqing. "Lu Ya has seen Qing Li's side, and she also knows Qing Li's situation, a teacher, a very good career, and it will not have any drag on Sha Zhengyang in the future.
"It doesn't seem to be surnamed Qing, right?" Fei Lu interjected, "I've seen that girl, she is very beautiful, with a doll face, and her surname is Gu, but it doesn't seem to be from our Wanzhou, she is working in the field, right?"
The two insiders "exposed" Sha Zhengyang's face at once, but they didn't expect Sha Zhengyang's woman's popularity to be so good?
Chang Lei, Yao Li and Bei Yihe Fei Lu both knew Gu Mei, but they didn't know Qing Jili, while Lu Ya knew Qing Jili, but didn't know Gu Mei.
originally thought that if he and Sun Yan didn't succeed, it would definitely be another one, but now two actually appeared, which made everyone immediately impressed by Sha Zhengyang, a guy who seemed to be very observant in this regard.
Sha Zhengyang could only smile dryly and wanted to talk about him, but everyone was obviously unwilling to let him go, "Tell me, which one is it? Are there any other people?"
In fact, Lu Ya still had some worries about the candidate in her heart, but she didn't say it.
Mr. Ning of Dongfanghong Group, and Mr. Jiao of Sanyo Ruosi Electric, although they are both a few years older than Sha Zhengyang, they are graceful and very lethal to young men, and it can also be seen that Sha Zhengyang has a very close relationship with them.
As for whether it has reached a certain state, Lu Ya is not available for comment.
If it's really a dewy couple on the spot, it's okay, I'm afraid that once some women are in love, they will become moths to the fire, although they die without regrets, then it will be troublesome.
Lu Ya had the words on her lips a few times, but she swallowed them back.
Although she and Sha Zhengyang have a good relationship, it is not easy to intervene in such private issues, especially the relationship between the other party does not violate legal morality, but it is difficult to be accepted by the real situation.
You Sha Zhengyang has an incomparably bright future, but you are mixed with a divorced woman who is a few years older than you, no matter how you look at it, it is difficult to satisfy the superior leaders and organizational departments, and I am afraid that your opinion will be greatly discounted.
Lu Ya also believed that Ning Yuechan and Jiao Hong must also see this, if it was really good for Sha Zhengyang, there should be no thoughts that should not be there.
"Hey, I'm as busy as a dog all day long, where do I have so much energy to think about other things?" Sha Zhengyang laughed at himself: "I've been in Zhenyang for more than half a year, and I've been home twice, both of which are to stay for one night and leave, the Gu Mei and Qing Lili you said can only be regarded as friends with me who have a good personal relationship, and there is no relationship you said for the time being, maybe I will only have such a relationship with them for the rest of my life." ”
A cadre of people scoffed at Sha Zhengyang's words.
Now Sha Zhengyang is no longer in the Municipal Party Committee Office and the Economic Development Zone, and he has no direct relationship between his superiors and subordinates with these people, but he can be more open between words, and there are no original concerns, which Sha Zhengyang and others have felt, Sha Zhengyang also likes the current atmosphere, mutual respect but without losing the relationship of affection, mixed with the feeling of friends and colleagues.
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