Recently, I can often find a video on Douyin:

A boy squatted in the underground passage of the crowded subway and sang to his heart's content:

It's hard to swallow loneliness as a dinner

Treat happiness as a fantasy but fall asleep

Only in the face of loneliness and silence slowly nostalgic

I want to love you but don't dare

I want to love someone, but I don't dare, so I can only guard the loneliness of a person by myself.

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I believe that it has caused a lot of love and unpopular resonance in love:

It may be a one-man show when a person is in love with a person;

It may be love that is defeated by reality, true love becomes worthless in the face of money and material things;

It is also possible to be naked by the details of getting along......

That's why this song has been liked more than 4.5 million times, and probably everyone has heard their own story in this song.

It is said that a person is not lonely, but only when he thinks about a person is lonely.

Are you also enduring the loneliness of being alone for that impossible person?

This can't help but remind me of Lu Xinghe in "The Best of Us", who proposed to Geng Geng 56 times.

Ten years of long-term companionship still failed to move Geng Geng, who already belonged to him.

Even if he would memorize the entire "Song of Long Hatred" for the sentence "The bell and drum are late in the long night, and the stars and rivers want to dawn".

Even if he will not hesitate to be punished by the school in order to confess to her, he will make the most explosive chemical reaction for her.

Even if he can listen to and sing Geng Geng's favorite songs, he will draw Geng Geng's appearance on the exam papers.

But in the end, he still lost to Yu Huai's sentence: "Geng Geng, I'm late."

He simply thought that there was no difference between Geng Geng Yuhuai and Geng Geng Xinghe.

It's just that he forgot, Geng Geng Yuhuai, everyone knows.

And Geng Geng Xinghe is just his dream.

Falling in love with an impossible person is just that.

Not only endured the loneliness and heartache of a person, but also finally accepted the end that had to be lost.

If there is an impossible person living in one's heart, it means being prepared to suffer from loneliness as dinner.

My friend Little L, has been fond of a boy for several years.

During her years in college, she gave almost all her heart to the boy.

She used to learn games that she was not good at for the boy day and night, in order to have a common hobby and conversation with the boy.

In order to give the boy the uniform of the basketball team, he ate a month of steamed buns and free soup from the canteen, in order to surprise and smile when the boy received the gift.

Even for the sake of the boy, he refused the love of all the people around him who liked him.

I endured it alone, no one had an umbrella when it rained, and I couldn't take care of myself when I was sick.

He regarded the boy as his loneliest heart, and insisted silently on his own.

However, his own efforts have never been exchanged for an accurate response from the boy.

It wasn't until one day that he saw the intimate circle of friends between a boy and another girl, which made her realize that she was just an outsider to this relationship, and she had to let go.

Little L says:

fell in love with an impossible person, I thought he could shelter himself from the wind and rain, but I didn't expect that the wind and waves were brought by you.

You can never touch someone who doesn't love you, just as you can never wake up someone who pretends to be asleep.

Fortunately, Xiao L finally met her current boyfriend and reversed everything she had done for the boy for her.

Since then, she has been saved from being displaced, and she has no branches to rely on, which has given her a full sense of security.

The most important thing is that it can also be seen from Xiao L's eyes that she is full of joy, and she really likes this incumbent.

For the person you can't love, you don't have to be oblivious.

That person who truly loves you will always come and make you understand that all the loneliness and waiting now has meaning.

Therefore, instead of letting yourself fall into the loneliness of love, it is better to meet the right person who really belongs to you.

It's really sad to like someone who can't be loved.

It's like when you walk into a long, winding alley with no doors or windows, and you're holding an old key and knocking on that thick wall.

Treat solitude as dinner

Jing Hao - Treat solitude as dinner

As the song goes:

I want to love you, but I don't dare, I want to give up, and I am unwilling

Think of happiness as an illusion

Take the oath as a lie

Treat love as possession

Treat affection as hurt

That kind of emotion that has a place to belong but has nowhere to be safeguarded will probably only be understood by those who are deeply involved in it.

But love is all-encompassing, and it never favors anyone because of who gives more.

Some possession, not a fluke, but some loss, it is better to let it enrich life.

Like when you like it, give up when you give up, you can afford to love and you can afford to lose.

When my favorite shoes are out of size, I go to the next store to buy a beautiful coat, and the noodle restaurant I often go to is closed, so I go to another house to eat a bowl of delicious noodles.

When the person you like leaves, you can go to work and earn more money.

There are countless ways to make yourself happy, countless roads to the future, and the right people waiting for you on the other side of the road.

As long as you dare not look back and go all the way, I believe that all the good things will come as scheduled.

So, don't treat loneliness as dinner, happiness can come together.

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