Six Feet Under

Billie Eilish - Six Feet Under

The more I grow up, the more I understand that there is nothing immutable in this world, and there is no past that cannot be forgotten.

Love is a thing that always gives sweetness at the beginning, but in the end it tortures each other to the end, from the two of them meet each other and turn away, we have all failed ourselves many times because of our feelings, but no matter whether that experience is sour or sweet, it is our most precious memory.

I saw a girl on Weibo sharing the story of her breakup with her other half, she said that she belongs to the kind of person who loves each other more and more the longer they are together, but her love for him ended with the boy saying "Alas, finally freed" after the two broke up. “

This sentence has tormented her for many years, so that she still lingers in her heart, she constantly wonders if she has put pressure on the other party in this relationship, and condemns herself for making the other party uncomfortable.

Seeing these words, I suddenly felt very sorry for this girl, after all, feelings have never been to blame only one person. None of us can stop the final direction of a relationship, two people can't love to the end, and the promises they once made can't be fulfilled one by one, which is actually the norm.

In the past, when he chased you, he would frequently cook for you, saying that it was romantic, but now when he mentions cooking, he will frown and ask, "Is it bad to order takeout, why is it so troublesome?"

When we first got together, you always had a lot of topics to talk about, and you were reluctant to hang up on the phone for hours on end, but now, you sit face to face and have nothing to say.

When you quarreled for the first time, you would take the initiative to call to ask for peace, but now the Cold War feels irrelevant for a week, and the first thing you say after the phone is connected is no longer "I miss you", but "You have something to say quickly".

Every relationship starts with a promise that the sea is dry, and the person who said that he would accompany you to the end was him, and he swore that he would not marry you, but in the end you broke up.

Nowadays, when sweet love has become a burden, there is no reason to support you to continue to love each other, and finally you find that the original promise and apology are all the same mouth.

I've found that most people who have been dating for more than two years and break up have a hard time loving someone with their hearts and lungs out of their hearts. We live ourselves like a hedgehog, and after experiencing the rise and fall of love, we are a maverick for a long time.

Over time, we begin to enjoy the happiness that being single brings to ourselves, and no longer have expectations for relationships, not that no one chases, nor does we not want to love, but it is difficult to enter the life of two people from being single for many years.

I've been single for almost four years, and my guy and I have been together for more than two years, and we ended up going in different directions. But it is undeniable that after so many years, what he influenced me in my relationship at the beginning is still deeply rooted.

I still think of the happiness he once brought me, just like Song Dongye's "Guan Yibei" sings: "Do you know that your name explains my life." “

Thinking back to when I first separated, I said that it was really difficult for me to forget him in my life, and I really couldn't live without him, but I found out afterwards that in fact, forgetting one person is just like that, I lived as a team alone, and the soldiers came to block the water and cover the earth, and I lived a good life.

Gradually, I began to understand that there will be people in each of our lives who will accompany you on different journeys, no matter how deep the love is and how painful it is at that time, we still can't resist the healing of time, and we forget the past in those days that we will never forget.

Many things in this world are changing, no one will accompany you to the end, only we can really accompany us to the end.

If I think about it, although I didn't continue to be with that person, the traces of the two of us falling in love with each other are real, and that person has really given me a lot of happiness, and this love is meaningful.

From now on, I hope we can all live our lives well, and no longer be afraid of one person's gains and losses.

As the saying goes: "Your sense of security should come from getting better skin every day, the weight you want to maintain on the scale, the sufficient balance in the bank card and the full battery of the mobile phone, and it should not come from a man's love words and promises." “

This sentence is encouraged by you and me.

I feel like I'm the one who's been single for a long time, and it's hard to fall in love with someone else.

Alas, get used to it.

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