A few days ago, I saw a video of Fan Bingbing and Li Chen's first relationship after breaking up on Weibo, in which she said: "I will try to marry myself." “

Some people in the comments lamented the once vigorous love between her and Li Chen, and remembered that they were also a sensation when they first got together, and Li Chen's ex-girlfriend Zhang Xinyu was also on the hot search with them at that time.

Like many ordinary girls, Zhang Xinyu posted a Weibo saying goodbye to her previous relationship, and was besieged and abused by some netizens.

At that time, many people felt that Zhang Xinyu's life and career had ended here, and there would be no more turnaround.

But no one expected that Zhang Xinyu met her husband He Jie at the worst time, and this love healed all her pain.

Now Zhang Xinyu's Weibo is quiet, and she will share some photos about food and painting from time to time, as if she has come out of the shadows of the past and has become the most envied by girls.

Guo Jingming has a saying: "Those things that we think we will never forget are forgotten by us in the process of being forgotten." “

The frustrated feelings of the past do not determine the happiness of your life, we can't rewrite the ending of the past story, but life goes on, what we can do is not to let everything that the past hates come back to us in the cloak of the future.

In the past, Hu Ge was a household name because of the TV series "The Legend of Sword and Fairy", but a car accident in 2006 put his life to a severe test.

His face was seriously injured in the car accident, and he still had a scar on his right eye after the operation, and since then, he has been very deliberate to cover the scar when filming.

Until 2012, he posted a Weibo "The face that can't go back, the transformation that can't be begged", since then, he no longer intentionally hides his scars, no longer sees himself as a star, but regards himself as an actor, calms down to read the script, star in dramas, and precipitate acting skills.

No one knows how many times Hu Ge struggled with himself in those six years before he came out of the haze of the past and faced his scars. But there is no doubt that it is precisely because he was not stumped by his past experience that he had the acting school of "Nirvana Rebirth" in "Langya Bang" and "The Pretender".

Not drowning in the past encounters, daring to face the bleakness of life, and having the courage to face difficulties, and never being afraid to start all over again, is the best state of life.

Leo Tolstoy said: "The so-called life is constantly changing, that is, the weakening of the physical life and the strength and expansion of the soul life." “

Everyone's past is only a part of his life experience, and those that have become the past cannot define your future life.

Really strong people know how to hone their souls, they can take very ordinary chips, play a beautiful turnaround, and turn the gloomy past into a bright future.

In the documentary "Seven Years of Life", the staff tracked and observed the fate of the children of the rich and the children of the poor in the first half of their lives, the children of the rich families have been well educated since childhood, and most of them have lived the life they want in adulthood, while the children of the poor families have missed out on the life they expected in the process of growing up for various reasons.

Of all the children of poor families, only one person is an exception.

He was not dragged down by poor family conditions, but by putting in countless times more effort than others, he got a college diploma, and in the years he went to college, he got many school scholarships, and finally successfully immigrated to the United States, breaking through the inherent difference between the rich and the poor, becoming a university professor, and making his life more possible.

We may be born in ordinary families, we can't afford hundreds of thousands of international school tuition fees a year, and most of us may only be able to do basic jobs and get a meager salary after graduation, but there are always a few people who are not willing to be ordinary, they pave their own way, and when others are still complaining about the unfairness of fate, they have already challenged fate.

I hope that everyone can become such a minority who is not willing to be ordinary, and can take a step towards "better" every day.

We can't change our past and origins, and the only thing we can do is to live in the present and plunge into the future with a resolute will that is not worried.

We are still young, and there will be countless possibilities in life, don't be easily blocked by those things in the past, because the life that is truly worth looking forward to is ahead.