I saw such a passage in the message area: "I cut my favorite long hair short, I changed the skirt in the wardrobe to your favorite color, I read your favorite books, watch your favorite movies, and wait for you on the way you often get off work." I've done so many things you like, but all I can get in exchange for your annoyance. ”

How many people are like this, trying their best to please and leaving with disappointed eyes.

Relationships that are won by pleasing are too fragile, like walking on a piece of ice, and you have to worry about whether the ice under your feet will crack at any time.

I have seen a girl who did what others asked her to do, and she did not refuse or hesitate.

Once I saw her lying on the table and secretly wiping her tears, I told her that if someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to force yourself to accept it.

"I'm really unhappy, but I'm even more afraid that people won't like me," she said. ”

If you like it, you need to hide your true self, and you need to force yourself to become something you don't like, then don't like it.

Too often, we care so much about other people's feelings that we neglect ourselves.

It's too hard to be a person who makes everyone like, so you just have to be a person who makes yourself like.

Don't please, don't force, know how to listen to your inner voice, and do what you really feel happy about.

Life is neither long nor short, your story, don't let others point fingers.

Chapter 37 of "Essays on the Rest of My Life" ? Actually, you don't have to please someone is hitting the hand, please wait a moment,

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