Chapter 418: The Experience of Three Wives and Four Concubines (1)
Yingwang Lantian Ye smiled and looked at Feng Han Zeng Lexin, who was breastfeeding together, "This kid ...... It shouldn't be yours, right?"
Su Minghe glanced at it, "It should be the little granddaughter of Song Ge's hometown." ”
"Well, this is my cousin. Zeng Lexin said embarrassedly, she has followed her grandfather to participate in some royal feasts since she was a child, and she also knew King Ying.
"I'll just say, I remember that Feng Han's wife is an actor. King Ying smiled.
Zeng Lexin was a little weak-hearted, "We are friends, we have known each other for a long time~"
Su Minghe asked for two bowls of fried liver, and said with a smile, "It's okay, it's okay, it doesn't matter if the relationship between friends and above is, anyway, Xiaofeng will be able to marry two soon!"
Feng Han was happy to think at the same time: I am not ashamed~
King Ying is not as fancy as Su Lao, he is more concerned about the terracotta warriors and horses that have been hyped up recently, as well as Feng Han's recent literary creations.
Because his wife is also surnamed Feng, King Ying naturally has a sense of closeness to Feng Han.
"Actually, I was planning to write a book about the Terracotta Army, which will be combined with the legend of Qin Shi Huang looking for the elixir of life. Feng Han spoiled a little, and King Ying and Su Lao both expressed their expectations.
The second old man was old and couldn't eat too greasy, so he simply drank a bowl of fried liver and parted ways.
Feng Han Zeng Lexin accompanied Su Lao home, and Su Lao smiled at Zeng Lexin, "Lexin, I invite Xiao Feng to be my guest, you have no opinion." ”
"He's him, what do I have to say. ”
When he arrived at the door of his house, Zeng Lexin took the baby in.
Feng Han was a little worried about the high-ranking and powerful old man like Song Ge, so he didn't come to visit, and he was still more comfortable in Su's hometown.
Moreover, Su Lao has three wives, and Feng Han especially wants to ask them the secret of the four of them living in harmony.
Of course, you can't say it plainly, as if you can't wait to do anything wrong after getting the privilege.
Therefore, Feng Han adopted the strategy of knocking on the side, and praised the peace of the old Su Tou's house vigorously, and the relationship between the ladies was good, and even the cats in the family were very united.
"Huh~" A long-haired cat flashed in front of Feng Han's eyes, Mupdoll?
Well, it should be Zeng Lexin's snowflake.
Feng Han couldn't tell the difference between Xuehua and Su Xiaoer, he continued to talk nonsense with Lord Su.
Su Lao should have heard his voice, he has always thought that talented people are generally amorous.
Just like him, from the beginning of love at fifteen or sixteen, to now, there are countless girls he likes, and at least a dozen of them have been loved, if it weren't for the law, he really wanted to marry them all, men, if even the men themselves don't understand men, it's really sad.
Feng Han is young, and he has such outstanding achievements in various fields, Su Lao decided to teach him a good lesson and lay a solid foundation for his happy life in the future.
"Xiao Feng, you sit," Su Minghe invited Feng Han to the study, "Is there someone else in your heart?"
Su Laohui's eyes were like torches, and Feng Han defended, "I like them the same!"
Su Lao said: "I believe in this, so you want to marry another one after you get the title?"
Feng Han nodded embarrassedly, after all, he was once the successor of socialism who grew up under the red flag, and he was a little embarrassed, he asked, "If I marry two, how can I ensure that the backyard does not catch fire?"
"Boy, you are asking the right person," Su Laoai said this, "I have a few very mature opinions on this, you must listen to it." ”
Feng Han was sitting precariously, and he must keep in mind the admonition from his predecessors.
"First, you must have a great personality!
You know the third child in our family, she was chasing me at the beginning, she and my youngest daughter are alumni, the relationship is not bad, I didn't want to accept it, but she loves me too much, why, it's not because of my personality charm, to that station, the same as forty years ago, is definitely the focus of the crowd, the kind of ...... that can't hide the light on a cloudy day"
Feng Han couldn't listen to it anymore, "Old Su, what I want to ask is, how to be stable and united after marriage, not how to pick up girls before marriage~"
"The truth is the same, if you don't have personality charm, how can you attract girls, as long as you are attractive enough, your wives are willing to maintain the stability and unity of the family for you, even if there is some friction in getting along, as long as you think of you as the core, everything is easy to say. ”
Feng Han nodded, he understood this truth, in fact, it is to continue to strengthen herself, Sister Xiao Wu likes to draw, she will write more stories for her to draw, Huan Huan likes to write, and now she has been admitted to the directing department, so she will give her the opportunity to make better movies, as long as she is confident, her wives can't turn the sky.
Lord Su continued, "Second, you must have a superhuman physique!
Don't think that love and marriage are sweet words and firewood, rice, oil and salt, physical communication is even more important than these, you can't reduce their quality of life just because you are a pair of many, I mean, you know, speaking of which, I have to boast, look at Lao Su I, I can still have children in my 70s, so my wives love me so much, it's not for nothing. ”
When it comes to men and women, what Su Lao said is quite subtle, but Feng Han seriously agreed, he would rather suffer his own kidneys than neglect Sister Xiaowu and Huan Huan, two, he can handle it!
"The third point is the most important. The more Su Lao spoke, the more energetic he became, and Feng Han was also engrossed, which was all good words for him!
Su Lao took a sip of tea, "Do you think that with your extraordinary charm and super long physique, you can make women live in peace and harmony? No, no matter how well a man does, a bowl of water is flatter than the water level, and women can't completely accept the matter of sharing their husbands with others."
If it's a good-tempered person, it's better, at most, it's to hold the unhappiness in your heart, and it's good to be properly guided as a husband, even if there are some small frictions, it's a family invitation. If you have a bad temper and a strong personality, tsk, you just wait for the house to be restless.
When the time comes, women will take away most of your energy, allowing you to divert what should be focused on your career to trivial matters.
Take myself as an example, the pinnacle of my creative career was before I married my third wife, my late third lady.
My eldest wife has a gentle temper, eats fasting and recites Buddha, my second wife is a famous lady, reasonable, is this third, although she is from a poor background, but her personality is strong and paranoid, and she is heavy-minded, she always feels that others look down on her, so she causes a lot of trouble, and the family has three days and two chickens and dogs, during that time I didn't have much heart to paint, and then I didn't paint a work that made me particularly satisfied.
So, don't think that there can be any constant formula theorem to help you solve the troubles in family life, the bitter, sweet, and sour in life, you can taste it yourself, and you will naturally know how to react.
I've always felt that my best painting was the family portrait I had drawn at the request of my deceased wife before she died, and at that moment, our whole family's hearts were screwed together. ”
Thinking of the deceased wife, Su Lao was moved to tears.
Sure enough, it is an amorous seed, but it is a pity that Su Minghe is not Su Dongpo, otherwise he will be accompanied by a song at this time, "Ten years of life and death, I don't think about it, I can't forget it." "It can be said that it should be the right situation~
Feng Han comforted Su Lao a few words, and Su Lao smiled bitterly, "I'm out of shape, I had a good chat with you today, and you and your little wives must be good in the future, don't leave regrets."
I've been writing a biography of my deceased wife all these years, and she likes literature very much, on and off, and finally finished writing it on the 10th anniversary of her death, and when the time comes, you can help me write a preface or a preface, and I will also help you write it when you publish "Triple Gate". ”
Feng Han agreed without thinking about it, the song "Jiangchengzi" should be enough to comfort Su Lao's deceased wife, anyway, Feng Han felt that he couldn't use it.
It was getting late, Su Lao sent Feng Han out, and before he reached the door, the door opened, and the figure of a young girl jumped in~