Seeing that it is November, the temperature in the air is getting lower and louder, and sometimes it seems to be whistling, and the time of the whole year seems to be about to be completed.

My husband is still constantly submitting resumes, and occasionally I am notified for interviews, but there is still no suitable one. He became more and more anxious, his temper became bad, although I have been relieved of him, but the inferiority of no work and the dignity of being constantly beaten, made him lose his normal ability to understand, even if he cared, he seemed to think that I had something to say, ulterior motives, and even disliked him.

Later, I decided not to interfere and just sit on the sidelines and wait for his progress. And he, on the other hand, completely hid in the game world and began to network and fight in teams with people. In the evening, when I came back from work, the sound of fights came from the study one after another, and I didn't have to think about the scenes inside, which must be more exciting than the ups and downs in the movie.

Seeing this, I began to constantly control my household expenses and erase unnecessary expenses from my purchase bills one by one. In addition to writing and reading manuscripts at work normally, I began to write and submit manuscripts every day. Although I was tired, I also gained a lot, not only to earn manuscript fees to supplement my family, but also to explore another potential, I can also write emotional texts in the future, and even make up some plots to move myself. For me, this is undoubtedly like entering a new world, and my writing will be richer and more diverse in the future. So, apart from worrying about my husband, I was busy and happy.

In order to write at night, I bought a laptop and kept it at home, and whenever I was inspired, I was racing against time to write, and I also wanted to buy that rare time in the dead of night or before dawn.

My daughter also followed me to the first day of work to resume normal kindergarten, every day back to pester me to tell stories or play games together, sometimes looking at my mobile phone with constant messages, and began a new desire to play with the mobile phone, before the trouble I caused has all been forgotten with three meals a day, or even without a trace.

"Mom, play with your phone for me again, okay?" for a while, each time I begged first, and then tried various methods such as coquettishness, crying and threatening.

For more than ten days, seeing that I didn't agree, I began to use secret tactics, first stealing the boot password of the mobile phone, and then secretly Chen Cang, seeing where I didn't pay attention for a while, I took the mobile phone and hid in a corner of the room, and secretly played. As a result, mobile phones often disappear strangely, or appear in different places, which makes people unguarded and nervous.

"Li Xiaochen, you take your phone again! You can't do this, it's not good for your eyes!" my anxiety resounded throughout the room.

"I saw her playing there just now, you don't care about her, she is so used to her, can she be bold!"

"Mom, why don't you talk about her!" I was a little annoyed by my mother's indulgence.

"I thought you let her see it!" said the mother with an innocent face, "I think she learned it from you, do you blame her for being useful?"

"Mom, I look at my phone a lot, but sometimes I can't help it. Wherever I put it, she can find it!" I said helplessly.

My daughter's memory really amazed me, no matter how much I changed the password, she always seemed to remember it in a split second when I didn't know it. Later, I was so poor that I could no longer do anything, so I decided that since I couldn't control it secretly, I should let her move under my nose through normal means, so I decided to hold a family meeting to discuss and formulate a specific method to stop this uncontrollable "unhealthy wind".

After dinner, I called out my husband and mother and started a discussion in the living room.

"Husband, my daughter always steals my phone when I'm not looking, so I decided to let her play for a while every day. "I started first.

"It's this again, your mobile phone will be a scourge sooner or later, and if you don't say anything about it, it will also affect the child. My husband was dissatisfied again.

"Qiangzi's words make sense, you see that you are there all day long when you come back, you let Chenchen play, is it okay? It's strange that she hasn't been short-sighted for a long time!" the mother added.

"The problem is that I can't use my phone right now!" I argued.

"No one else's job is like you, you have to stare at it all day. "My mother said, not impressed by my explanation.

"Are you really all about work?!" the husband suddenly asked rhetorically.

"Mostly," I'm a little weak-hearted, to say that it's definitely for work, there must be a certain amount of water, and it's common to have friends chatting often, and sometimes I want to brush up on the circle of friends at night, "Occasionally chatting, but it's normal." ”

"That's it, so you should first review and manage yourself, and solve the root cause. Since she is curious, it is okay to satisfy it for the time being, after all, prohibiting it will only encourage stronger desires to breed. My husband mentioned the key point.

"Yes, don't always make fun of the child and tell me that I can't let her start this at all!"

"But I can't use it all right now, I'll try to control it. "I have to admit that my problems also need to be taken seriously and solved.

"It's good that you know it yourself, then find a way to control it, and if you want to manage others first, you must first correct yourself. My husband seemed to hold back for a long time, opened the conversation box at once, and took the opportunity to educate me, "You didn't realize it when I said you before, and I didn't bother to talk about you." ”

"Well, got it. I suddenly looked like a schoolboy, "Then I can't play with her now, this Y head is too weird." ”

"It's impossible to ban it now," my husband saw that I didn't quibble anymore, didn't continue to talk about me, and continued, "In the information age, there are so many functions of mobile phones, and it is normal for children to be interested, so if she wants to play, she should talk to her about the conditions." "He's always been a more enlightened guy, not the kind of stubborn Conservative, which is what I admire.

"Well, that's what I mean. Then I'll work out a specific method, what do you think?" I said with confidence to find a point of convergence of opinions.

"Yes, yes. The husband nodded slightly in approval.

"I don't think it's good! What does the child know when she is so young? Don't get addicted to playing at that time, there are so many games on the Internet!"

"I couldn't have done better. I shrugged my shoulders at my mom.

"Sometimes you are too strict, sometimes you are too used to her, don't blame her for going back and having problems! Don't blame me for not reminding you!"

"Mom, you're right, but you have to try. ”

I didn't continue arguing with my mother, and went to the room to think about how to manage it.

I thought about all kinds of possible problems before and after, and finally finalized a mobile phone manual, and then called my daughter in front of me.

"Chenchen, you listen well," Seeing that I was so solemn, my daughter stood straight in front of me, even her breathing was very cautious, I looked at her and continued, "In the future, my mother will let you play with your mobile phone, but ......."

"Really?!" she seemed a little unable to believe my words, and immediately interrupted me.

"Listen to me, mom promised you a conditional ......"

"On what terms?" she interrupted me again, impatiently.

"Hear me out:

1. Playing with mobile phones must be after dinner and after eating;

2. Only half an hour is allowed at a time;

3. After playing, hand it back autonomously and cannot delay;

Fourth, you can't use WeChat to send messages or circle friends;

5. Don't make phone calls casually;

6. I can't secretly take my phone or play in a place I can't see.

Violate any of the conditions and you won't be able to play anymore. Do you understand? Can you do it?" I looked into her eyes and told her the conditions in one breath.

"Yes, Mommy!" she said in affirmation without even thinking about it, her face overflowing with joy, and she brushed a strand of hair from her forehead with her hand.

"Then it's a deal, let's high-five and swear!" I stretched out my right hand and stood in front of my body.

My daughter stretched out her little hand in the same direction and slapped me heavily, and the smile on her face was like a little peach blossom in March, pink and tender.