Regarding the protagonist Sha Zhengyang's first love attitude in returning to the old time and space, many people criticize Lao Rui, thinking that the first love cannot have such a deep imprint and feeling after more than 20 years, and the protagonist is already a veteran of officialdom who has experienced the ups and downs of the political arena, so he should treat it indifferently.

First love is young, sweet, and moving, but many end up fruitless, so it is the most memorable and relieving.

I think that there are many situations in the first love, there are shallow tastes, love and courtesy, fresh and eternal, hidden in the heart, occasionally reminiscent, there is a different taste.

There is also the first love that is transformed into passionate love and then go deep into it to stop, this is a huge imprint in the history of feelings for one or both parties, I believe that even in old age, many people will remember a certain scene deeply, especially this kind of love for the first time in their lives, it is even more unforgettable.

They will think that this is true love, after all, young people are always full of longing and fantasy, and I think this is normal, even after many years, it will last for a long time.

And this first love concept of feelings also has a lot to do with the personality and temperament of the man and woman, and it is also closely related to whether they are the first time that feelings and experience are integrated.

Sha Zhengyang's own personality and temperament belong to the kind of more emotional and impulsive, which can be seen from his performance when he was a secretary to the county magistrate, this kind of character can not be said to be bad, but it will undoubtedly make him suffer more setbacks in his career, but his simple emotional outlook is good news for women, of course, after emotional setbacks, it may also bring many unpredictable variables, including his own character and temperament.

And I think Sha Zhengyang and Bai Ling are not consistent in personality, maybe Bai Ling's character can be put down, Bai Ling is more rational than emotional, because she thinks that Sha Zhengyang and her three views are inconsistent, it is difficult to come together, but Sha Zhengyang is difficult to let go, because Sha Zhengyang thinks that he and Bai Ling are the most compatible, believe in fate, and everything else can be overcome.

Coupled with the integration of their first love feelings and experience for the first time, it may be just difficult for Sha Zhengyang to extricate himself.

Fortunately, with the ups and downs of his career more than 20 years ago, he has enough accumulation and tempering to deal with it, but when he really touches the most profound and regretful things, what kind of thoughts and mentality he has, I think it is normal, after all, the feeling itself is the most unclear thing in the world, mixed with real feelings, then everything is possible, otherwise there will be no Romeo and Juliet, there will be no Cleopatra and Caesar, and there will be no Edward VIII and Mrs. Simpson, so that's it.

The above is Lao Rui's argument, welcome to argue.

^_^ , In fact, the above are all a few nonsense of Lao Rui, mainly to ask the brothers for three or five recommendation votes, ^_^O(∩_∩)O haha~