Chapter Ninety-Seven: Anxiety Calmly

"Personally, I believe that dreams and responsibilities are the keys to my success."

"When I grow up, through learning, through other media, I understand the different world outside, at that time, you will instinctively think, why can't we become the same as the outside world?"

"I think we know why you're successful," Oprah interrupted, "I instinctively think, like most people in that situation, I must go to a big city like that out there,"

"Oh, I don't think there's anything wrong with that," Feng Yiping said, "It's just that I did think that way at the time, and then, I felt like it was my responsibility,"

"Because I had this idea, I thought about it for a long time, what should I do? The book "Blue Ocean Strategy" published in my sophomore year should be a summary of my thinking,"

"To be honest, the reason why I came up with such a concept was also forced out, with my conditions, there is no way to compete with others in some fields, if you want to succeed, you can only find and set foot in some new blue oceans,"

"And you have indeed succeeded, and we have heard that your success comes from long-term preparation, strong faith, and a sense of mission, we are proud of you!"

"Thank you, thank you,"

"Then, I believe that many people like me will be very concerned about a problem, you only graduated from college in the first half of this year, and most of your peers should still be trying to find a satisfactory job at this time, or to satisfy your boss,"

"But at this time, you are successful enough, plus the recently acquired Coin Star, there are already three companies listed on the NASDAQ, plus your unlisted assets in China and the United States, your net worth has reached billions of dollars!"

"At your age, with so much wealth, what benefits will this bring you, and what troubles will ordinary people not know about?"

"On this point, first of all, I want to say that I am very grateful, grateful to all the people who support my work, grateful to all the people who care and help me, I know that my personal abilities are limited, and if it were not for everyone's support, I would never be where I am now,"

"If you want to talk about the benefits of these wealth, I think the first thing should be," Feng Yiping thought for a moment, "it will make me more relaxed than most of my peers, yes, just calm,"

"It's undeniably a great time like never before, but it's also undeniable that it's also a very stressful time for a young person like me,"

"Why do you say that? Shouldn't it be that with the progress and development of the times, the pressure on the younger generation is getting less and less?" Oprah asked. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

"No, I think it's the opposite," Feng Yiping shook his head, "Of course, maybe the situation I'm talking about only represents those peers in my country,"

"One of the most striking features of this era is that the pace is getting faster and faster, and this environment, on the one hand, requires us to react and deal with the same difficulty, or even more difficult work, in much less time than in the past."

"At the same time, the competition is becoming more and more fierce, and more and more jobs need to be faced, all of which are from the world."

"But it's still not the biggest pressure, it's the biggest pressure that comes from our anxiety about an uncertain future,"

"In this society, change is the only constant truth, in many industries and fields, there have been subversive changes, many popular industries, now is becoming more and more lonely, the original experience of many predecessors, has become more and more meaningless,"

"While we are working hard to do the current work, we will inevitably worry about whether the industry I am engaged in will be the next industry to be subverted or ********?"

"Although it seems that my industry is still like a store on the side of a busy road, and there are still many users who need us, will there be someone surveying and preparing to start building a highway somewhere next to it, and on the day it opens to traffic, it will effortlessly pull away all our current passenger flow?"

We all know that the current TV program is a very systematic project, from the formation of the pre-team, to the topic selection, preparation, to the shooting in the implementation stage, to the post-production, and finally to provide a platform for broadcasting...... ,”

"Every link in the middle is very not simple, and the investment is also very huge, so will this model be the same? 10 or 20 years later, will it still continue the current model?"

"Personally, I think there may be disruptive changes at that time, and with the advancement of technology, maybe one person can do something like what we do now at a very low cost,"

With the development of technology, such as the popularization of smartphones, and more and more public social platforms, in later society, anyone can become a journalist if you want.

Later, as long as you want, as long as you have the ability, you can also become a popular Internet celebrity with an audience of tens of millions at a very low cost, such as papi sauce.

At that time, there is no barrier to becoming an anchor, and you can easily broadcast live while walking.

"It is said that Feng's vision is very accurate, and listening to you say this, I think it is very necessary to start worrying about my future path now," Oprah teased.

Although from her point of view, what Feng Yiping said, not to mention the Arabian Nights, at least has a bit of a worrying meaning.

"All of the above is just one aspect of our stress, and the increase in our stress also stems from anxiety about success,"

"Although different people will have different definitions of the concept of success, generally speaking, it should be our individual and team efforts, in the society and individuals, bring beneficial services at the same time, we ourselves can also have a good harvest, this kind of harvest, both spiritual, but also material, of course, the most intuitive, is material success,"

"In this era, we are used to seeing successful examples, so we have been anxious for a long time, when will I be as successful as those people, and when will I be able to live like them?"

"This kind of anxiety can even make our age misaligned, when we are in high school, we are worried about whether we can be admitted to a good university in the future, when we are in college, we are worried about our future work, and when we first join the workforce, we have to worry about the expenses when we get married and start a family in the future, such as the problem of housing,"

"In fact, this is not only a problem of the house, the house is related to a lot, such as the education of children, but we all know that the speed of rising prices, houses are getting more and more expensive, and in many places, it is more and more difficult to own a house of their own...... , so, we're going to be more anxious,"

"When we just got married, we have to worry about raising the next generation, and generally at this time, our parents are also entering old age, so we have to consider the pension of our parents...... ,”

"In short, I think at least now my peers in China, in their 10s, are worried about what happened in their 20s, and when they are in their 20s, they have to worry about what happened in their 30s...... ,”

"Because of the pressure, sometimes, we even want to go back to the era when there were no phones, no mobile phones, and no Internet,"

Oprah thoughtfully said, "No wonder China is developing so fast, because people of your age are so eager to succeed,"

"Yes, they are so eager to succeed, it is inevitable that sometimes, there will be some utilitarianism, not very good at focusing on the long-term, in fact, it is not easy to say that it will not, it should be said that it is because of the reality of the force, so it can't,"

"And now, I am not as anxious as them, I can be more calm than them, I can think further, this should be the wealth I currently have, and it will bring me the greatest benefit,"

"So, what about the troubles?" Oprah asked.

"There are a lot of troubles," Feng Yiping said, "You just mentioned a lot of data, but there is one key data that you didn't mention, that is, all my companies currently have 20,000 employees, so many times now, I am no longer worried about my personal success, but more about my employees, their work, may be related to a family,"

"In other words, I am indirectly responsible for more than 10,000 families, which is certainly not an easy task,"

"Of course, it's pressure, but it's also motivation,"

"Yes, so when an individual's wealth reaches a certain point, it belongs to society," Oprah said, "and in short, now you have achieved something that is beyond the reach of many people -- and I say that, does it increase their anxiety?"

"Although the national conditions are different, there are some situations that must be common, whether it is in the United States or China, there will be many people of your age, who may not have found their own way at this time, that is, they are still far from success, what do you want to say to them who are anxious?"

"People my age? I guess the least thing they like is preaching, right?"

Sure enough, many people in the audience laughed approvingly.

"If you don't object, I still want to give some of your own opinions, I think, at this age, I don't know what I will do in the future, what kind of person I will become, this is not really important, the important thing is to determine and stick to what kind of person I will not become in the future,"

"Even if you may not be a superman who will save the world in the future, don't you choose to be a villain who may destroy the world now?" Oprah gave an example.

"That's what it means, instead of worrying and being anxious, it's better to improve your ability in a down-to-earth and little by little way, as long as you can persist in this way, then I believe that we will find our own way in the future and will succeed,"

"Maybe tomorrow, when you open the door, you find a coveted opportunity in front of you - it's very likely, and sometimes, it's just a step away from success, just open the door at the right time,"

After a moment of silence, the audience burst into warm applause.

"Finally, let's talk about these recent actions of yours, Coin Star and RedBox...... ,”

They haven't forgotten that Feng Yiping's show today has a very important purpose, which is to promote. (To be continued.) )