Maybe your son has always regarded you as a role model since he was a child, no, not only your children, but everyone else took their father as a role model when they were young, and their mouths were full of sighs: I want to grow up to be as tall as my father, I want to grow to be as strong as my father, and I want to be like my father.

It's just that at that time, we were very young, especially ignorant, and didn't know anything, thinking that our father was the most powerful man in the world, in fact, when we really grew up, we would find that in fact, our father was indeed the most powerful man in the world, and at the same time, he was also the most difficult man in the world.

When we grew up, we found that my father was not so tall and not so strong, but he was not tall, his body was not very good, and he was sick, but why was he able to support a family like this? Why did he do this? Can't he take a break?

Of course, we can't rest, but if we don't care about what the family spends, who will give the money, do we really have to expect women to go out and earn money? Is that realistic? Not realistic at all, because all these things should be done by men, this is a man's duty, it is also a man's responsibility, and it is what every man should do.

I'm not saying that women can't earn money, that is, they spend money at home, they enjoy it, but it's not like this, women are also very strong, how many strong women are there in this world? They are more powerful than men, more brains than men, more able to endure hardships than men, more responsible than men, and responsible.

But this is only a small number of people, not everyone is like this, even men, and have you ever thought about it, can your man really bear to let you go outside to make money, let you go outside to suffer in the wind and sun? Can you go to a restaurant and eat a meal for ten yuan?

It seems that every man will not do this, a man will admit that he goes out to suffer, grit his teeth and swallow it in his stomach, and he will never let his woman go out and show his face, if he lets his woman go out to do this and that all day long, then he is still a man?

Since ancient times, what is the definition of a woman? That is, at home with children, and then sit with a mask, go out to play, or cook at home, and don't want to do it, then go out to eat, maybe I say this, some people will say me, don't you mean that women can't do anything, what do women do, do they have children, wash clothes, cook?

Of course it doesn't mean that, I mean this, as a man, he wants his daughter-in-law to live a better life, he wants his daughter-in-law to use nothing, and then he has money to spend, he can enjoy life, he can do what he wants to do, wear beautiful clothes, and maintain himself brightly.

What is the premise for doing this? That is, if you don't have money, what if you don't have money? Then you have to go out and earn money, who will earn this money? Of course, men will earn it, after all, a man is the pillar of a family, and a man is the backbone of the family.

There may be little girls who say, I don't need that, I can do anything myself, I want to be a strong woman, I don't want to be at home all day with children, washing clothes and cooking, I don't want to live like that, I want to live a wonderful life, I want to live a little nourishing, I want to live a very energetic life, very valuable.

It's true that there is no problem for girls to think like this, but have you ever thought about it, can you really be strong for a lifetime? If you go out to work, and your husband also goes out to work, what will happen to your children? Who will take care of it? Who will come to watch, who will have time to show you, if you can watch it for one day, if it is one year or two, three years or five years?

It seems that no one has this time, even if it is your parents, it is impossible to do nothing every day, and then run over to show you the children? Your husband's parents can't do it, they can only help you watch for a while, how can it be for a long time, everyone has something to do.

If you don't do anything and take care of the children, then who will make the money? Will you still give money to your parents, the money is left to your own children, right? Your parents and your husband's parents don't have that much time to watch the children, so can you let your husband watch the children? If you let your husband watch the children, can you really rest assured?

It seems that most people don't earn as much as their husbands, because girls' jobs are more stable, and men are different, men have their own careers, or money-making jobs, which are more hard, so girls generally don't earn as much as their own men.

Of course, there will also be some men who don't earn as much as their daughters-in-law, and they may earn half as much as their daughter-in-law, just like the example I gave, the uncle and the little girl, that uncle doesn't earn as much as his daughter-in-law, 3,000 yuan a month.

He has been working in that field for almost 20 years, and he is still 3,000 yuan, what kind of development is this? Is it possible that he wants to work for a lifetime? Earn 3,000 yuan for a lifetime? Maybe he really thinks so, I can't say.

If it is said that fifteen years ago, you earned 3,000 yuan a month, then you are more than a cow, and you are really amazing, at that time, if you earn so much a month, it is equivalent to more than 10,000 yuan a month now, then your life is the life of a superior person, and ordinary people are not as good as you, but your salary was not 3,000 yuan fifteen years ago, right?

However, if you put it today, fifteen years later, it is already 2019, if your salary is still 3,000 yuan, then what are you doing, prices have risen, 3,000 yuan is not as good as 1,000 yuan in the past, and it is not enough for a month's living expenses for the family.

If you say that the 3,000 yuan is enough for your life now, it is indeed enough, but in 15 years, when you are 50 years old, you still earn 3,000 yuan, then how can you live? Can you still live? Will you still live a happy life? Maybe you had to run out to ask for food at that time? How many yuan is the development of today's society, how expensive are the prices? The price is terrifying.

And this man is not motivated at all, he doesn't understand his own situation, he doesn't know how hard his daughter-in-law is, and he doesn't treat his daughter-in-law well.

I don't care too much about your son, I put all my experience on the calf, and put all my strength on the comparison, can you control your crotch as a man? You are a daughter-in-law, can't you control it? What's the matter? Is someone else's daughter-in-law so good, so energetic?

It's true that this is the case, and your daughter-in-law will be very tired after watching it for a long time, and she won't have the freshness she had at the beginning, but have you ever thought about it, how did you catch up with your daughter-in-law in the first place, what kind of mood did you have, and what kind of eyes did you have?

You always feel that other people's daughters-in-law are good-looking, energetic, feel together, chat, have fun, and give a small gift from time to time, but you treat other people's daughters-in-law so well, and at the same time, there will be other men who are so good to your daughter-in-law, this thing is the same.

Others see your daughter-in-law as very beautiful, very knowledgeable, and very good-looking, leading your daughter-in-law out to eat is also very happy, and going out to play together is also very comfortable, do you want your daughter-in-law to go out with other men? Do you want your daughter-in-law to be kissed by other men, and to be hugged by other men? Do you also hold hands when you walk?

I think you must not be willing at all, who is especially willing to be like a daughter-in-law, even if you are tired of looking crooked, then you are not allowed to let others touch your daughter-in-law, every man has his own bottom line, that is, his own children, and his own daughter-in-law, he can not like it, but other men can not approach.

You even have this kind of idea, is it possible that others will not have it? Other men also mind, maybe you still have to mind, since you know everything, then why don't you know how to be a little more restrained? Can't you let go of that little girl, and then make a good profit, go home to buy things for your daughter-in-law, and spend more time with your children?

Or do you think that you have a special cow ratio, only you can play with other people's daughters-in-law, but others can't get close to your daughter-in-law? Do you think this is possible? It seems that you don't have a special cow ratio, you are just an ordinary worker, and you are not a very powerful social person.

The little girl you hooked up with also has a boyfriend, and his boyfriend is also a man, although he is not as old as you, and he has not experienced as much, but he still has the nature of a man, right?

No one is a soft persimmon, don't go too far with your pinching of others, his boyfriend didn't look for you, he just didn't catch the two of you together, just a little chat history, it doesn't mean anything, if you really see the two of you on the street one day, what kind of consequences it is, you should know very well.

Some take a step back, but you press each other tightly, then I'm embarrassed, wait to be cleaned up, don't cut your peach blossoms, I'm sorry that I'm a man, and I'm forcing honest people to be anxious, that's very dangerous......