After the training session, there was still more than an hour left, and among the more than 100 travelers, there were 30 young people under the age of 35. At this time, several more girls asked the master to answer questions about love. The supporter thought about it and gave this job to Luo Tianxing. Everyone else left the training room, but the young man refused to leave, and had to consult the Fang family about love.

Xiao Luo is also a lover, and when he received the notice, he generously gave this young man a unique love lesson.

He said, since you want to hear about love, then you must understand its status, and I said, apart from the highest philosophical questions, who am I, where do I come from, and where do I want to go? But it's not like there's no basic guideline.

First, we will discuss its definition within the context of heterosexual affection. So, the first question is, what is love, and the second question is naturally what true love is. I say that love is the first belief in the realization of a lifelong love between people of the opposite sex. There are several elements of this belief, one is that mutual admiration, not unilateral pursuit, is the premise. This means that true love is not chasing, let alone forced or persecuted, but caused by chance, temperament and hobbies, ultimate love and willingness, mutual help, and no regrets. This eliminates the very non-love things and purifies the connotation and extension of love. This also warns people that true love is mutual admiration and desire, and both parties are willing to rush there, such as everyone crowding to take the civil service exam, not a certain position that your father or uncle and aunt shoehorn into you, such as playing games, is also consciously voluntary, not forced, not voluntary. This means that it must be unique, reciprocal, not exchanged, let alone bought or sold. This is the first layer.

Now everyone, who is still worthy of talking about love? Think about it, are you worthy, what about him, who is worthy, who is still qualified for this? Therefore, we must first understand the true meaning of love, and stop talking nonsense about what love is not loved, and we don't even understand the meaning of this word, or talk about love, right?

Second, love is exclusive, but it is not so much that there is only one true love in life. These are two different things.

Exclusivity means that it cannot be mixed with the actions of third parties, whether it is marital or extramarital affairs, it is its enemy. Of course, I'm not saying that apart from lovers, there can be no exceptions to emotions or unexpected relationships. I'm not a person who doesn't eat the fireworks of the world. What I want to convey is that true love should be pure and genuine, not a giant of words, a scum of action, and the act of fooling others is harmful to the object of love, and if you defile the noble feelings of the beloved, you will destroy the meaning and supreme dignity of love. What kind of love is this?

As for no longer loving and divorced, you can still have true love. I mean, you can't love two people of the opposite sex at the same time. This goes against the logic of love, which is the uniqueness and exclusivity of the emotions of the opposite sex. Morality is not in it, but in other words, it becomes love, what is that called?

The third is that the highest form of love is creative, holy, selfless, and mutually giving, but it is not exchange, much less taking or taking. The meaning of creation has several layers, one is to create the value of new life, and to give birth to the next generation because of love, even if it is a responsibility of human beings to continue life, it is also the fruit of love. The second is to create the value of new people. Because the mutual love and desire of men and women will produce the union of body and mind, as well as the purification and leap of the soul, which is the original intention of love between men and women. I love you, I have gained new strength from each other, stimulated my creative passion, study, work, etc. will have unexpected new realizations and gains, the meaning and value of life have become leaps and bounds, not only quantitative enhancement, but also qualitative leap. Over time, both sides of love have glowed with inexhaustible brilliance, more beautiful, more confident, more noble, more free, and become the master of their own life. This is the explosive power of love. But there are also more selfish, inhuman evils that manifest and result as a result. But not many people's performance, but it does not rule out the occurrence of this same anomaly.

Finally, separately, the types of realistic manifestations of love power and energy. There are probably some aspects like this. For example, the works are more beautiful and mellow, the work is more excellent and innovative, the mind is more stable, the beliefs are clearer and more durable, and the people and things are more smooth and beautiful, and so on. There are also creations in scientific inventions, righteous deeds and good deeds in social construction, and so on.

At this point, who of you here is still worthy of talking about love? Stand up, and I'll see.

Don't you have one? So many young people don't deserve it? I don't believe it, I haven't talked about the raising of the object's hand, what are you afraid of, I just discussed it with you, and it doesn't prevent you from pursuing your own happiness. Still no one dared to stand up.

I'm convinced. We are on a Buddhist trip, and when you come back, you ask such a question, and I explain it according to my own understanding, and you are all afraid? Don't you dare to stand up, don't you dare to speak? Then I'll continue to talk about the culture of love.

Our country is the only culture in the world that has not interrupted its history, and it can be called a civilization. Then, under the influence of this culture, love is also colorful and changeable. In order to survive in the basics, people in ancient times chose those with strong abilities and strong families, and later, after the establishment of the country, they chose the same ones and those who climbed high branches, and then later, due to the different trends of the times, the choices began to diversify and open up. But there are also some basic and unchanging things on both sides, such as those who are obedient, those who are right, those who are obedient, those who are obedient, those who are talented, those who are wealthy, those who are powerful, those who seek to read, those who yearn for freedom, and those who seek strange abilities. Only the incompetent, the weak will not be chosen. This is due to cultural attributes.

After 49 years, the selection of the army was also often changed, first the choice of the military, then the choice of the working class, later, the choice of intellectual youth, and then the evolution of more complex and diverse. Since entering the period of reform and opening up, people's pursuits have been separated from levels and levels. There are those who like to be rich, there are businessmen who like to be free, there are civil servants who like to work, and there are those who want to go abroad, and those who want to go abroad and have a foreign passport, and so on. But there are fewer and fewer people who pursue love, and they are almost extinguished. This is the fate of love.

Ladies and gentlemen, who is still talking about love? Luo Tianxing smiled and walked off the podium. When I was about to leave the house, I said, if anyone else has something to say, send it to me in the mailbox, and the publication has 85672212@