I interrupted her with great dissatisfaction: "What's wrong with me thinking that?"

"So have you ever thought about a man's sense of involvement in the family? Have you ever thought that when you try not to trouble him, he is on your side and feels that he is useless except to give you money. Wang Jing reminded me, "Maybe you mean well, but men don't think so." They're just that cheap sometimes. For them, a family that has not participated for a long time cannot reflect his tall image at all. For the sake of his psychological needs, he can only go outside to find a balance. ”

"At this time, a weak person appeared, it doesn't really matter who that person is, as long as they show weakness, they will immediately fall into it. This is a kind of psychology of men as male animals in nature. They have a natural need to be dependent, and this is a balance of nature!" Wang Jing paused, took a sip of water, and continued.

Seeing that I was still at a loss, Wang Jing said: "A complete home needs to be maintained by the male and female hosts, rather than you blindly paying." Think about my words when you have time. ”

After listening to Wang Jing's words, I was silent.

Home is a warm word.

What is home?

Home is a harbor, home is a safe haven. If life is a journey, then home is the warm place that we will eventually return to no matter where we drift to.

The head of the treasure cover covers the cold wind and rain outside, one horizontal and three strokes are the expectations of the family, and the two strokes outside are the views of the people outside to the home, and a vertical hook ties the whole family together.

Recalling the wedding day, I was very happy and said to Chen Xiao: "Husband, after working hard in the ocean of life,"

I patted myself on the shoulder: "Don't be afraid, I'm waiting for you at home!"

At that time, he was really smiling happily.

Regardless of whether he really loved me at that time or not, on that day, he was still willing to say: "I know, wife, please take care of me for the rest of my life!"

At that time, that smile was still so sunny, and that man was still so warm.

Later, in order to create a warm home as I imagined, I blindly carried all the things at home after marriage.

At the beginning, Chen Xiao may have thought about changing some of his previous attitudes towards me, so he took the initiative to take on some housework, but I rejected it with the excuse that you "work too hard".

Gradually, I was entangled in too many tedious housework, and began to accuse him of not caring about anything at home, just blindly making money!

But after more than 300 days and nights of marriage, I didn't calm down and realize that the man who was so radiant in front of me back then had become more numb because of my senseless accusations over the past few days, and finally he could no longer show me the smile he had when we first met.

Thinking of this, I suddenly understood. It is not so much that the destruction of the home I built is a matter of Chen Xiao's betrayal, but rather that it was ruined by my self-righteousness!

I have to say that Wang Jing's words gave me a slap in the face, and now looking back, it seems that I was really wrong, and I was ridiculously wrong!

Wang Jing was a little worried when she saw my stunned appearance, and she hurriedly said, "Hey, Lin Mengning, hey, what's wrong with you?" ”

Seeing that I still didn't pay attention to her, she blamed herself and said, "It's all my fault, why did you forget that you just lost your marriage today, and why did you tell you so many big truths?"

Suddenly, I reached out and hugged Wang Jing and said, "Wang Xiaojing, what you said today is very philosophical." You should have told me these things sooner. But I still love you to death, and you will remember to spur me more in the future. ”

"Damn! Lin Mengning, do you want to be so scary? I've known each other for hundreds of years, and you actually said such a numb thing, you see goosebumps on my arms!"

This time, I changed it, leaned over to look at her arm, and studied it.

"Poof... "A bang. The two of us immediately laughed together again!