Chapter 8: The Spiritual Door to the Door
About Feng Jie, my brother-in-law still knows too little, especially in the three years he has been in graduate school, this former little man has really grown up, and his body and mind have changed greatly, and he is no longer the college student he knew before. No, tonight, this little guy still said one thing at a time, and he didn't dare to recognize her sense of indebtedness. Therefore, he thought, it seems that there are good students in the university who study hard and make progress.
Then tell me what I don't match with your sister. Wang Fengjie took another big sip of beer with her, looked at him and said, I, although I haven't talked about anyone seriously, and I have more experience in wanting you to live with my sister, but this doesn't mean that I don't have a view and unique understanding of the love between men and women.
Do you mean you have your own standards? Say it, and let me learn about it.
You, you want to hear it, don't you? Yes, while you haven't drunk too much now, it's not drunk, hurry up.
It's okay, I can't drink enough wine alone. First, I would like to say that the love between a man and a woman mainly refers to the kind of true love in the spirit, which must be a good match. But this is not the so-called formal, wealthy, and outward equivalence of ordinary people, but the desire of the heart, the nobility of the spirit, and the dignity and freedom of the form.
Do you think that your sister and I are not what you say? Or do you think that I am not worthy of her, or that he is not worthy of me? I still don't think so. At most, I'm a high school student who doesn't deserve her, you see, both of you are graduate students, and I'm still the same high school graduate.
Brother-in-law, why don't you understand, I'm not talking about the external things, but the reciprocity, coordination, and bosom friend in the bones, you know? She took another sip of beer, and then said, "In the eyes of the world, you have too low a diploma to be worthy of my sister." However, you are a genius, especially your observation of the world, your grasp of details, and the description and portrayal of the psychology of the characters are all very unique and in place. What kind of preparation and accumulation is required, as well as the struggle of your own inner world. It is very human, and it is a creative and independent enterprise. And she, that is, a master who loves to learn and is willing to scare kung fu to death, has no innovative spirit, and has no independent thinking, that is, she is just a housewife who lives on diplomas. Even if he is in graduate school now, it is to have a good reputation in the unit, he can get a quick salary increase, he can talk about it at home, and he is also a talented girl among his classmates and friends, and he is all he is for. Do you think it's still exciting? Ouch. Really.
That's pretty good, better than me. I also live on my salary, which is not much better than her.
Wrong. Feng Jie continued to elaborate on his view of love. "Dream of Red Mansions", you should have read it, right? Wang Xifeng is also the number one person. However, as a woman, he is not qualified, he takes care of everyone, but he delays his small family, men are always fooling around outside, but he is pretending to be deaf and dumb, this is not a good woman so-called, this is the fault of the role's position, I don't know what I should do, I don't know how to choose, I just want to show off my power in that big family, confused, and lose my heart and self. And my sister Fengzhu is far worse than her, and she can't do anything, so if you don't believe it, you can marry her and try to live for a year or two. Believe me. She's really unqualified. In that case, it can only ruin you and her, and both of them will end up seriously injured.
It means that you are ready to teach your husband and children, why don't you hurry up and find one.
Don't get involved with me, I'm talking to you about the male and female characters in true love. It's better to say that my woman is me, so we have a better story.
Let's talk about it. I'm going to hear your little nonsense.
Brother-in-law. You say, what is the highest level of love between men and women? You have finished talking at once, and I will talk about mine.
All right. This brings us to the second point. Because the key issues do not exist, there is no need to think about it, so the small and trivial things in life will be rushed to do, so that the exchange and communication of the soul after a long time will leave more time. It can also highlight the beauty of the husband singing the wife or the woman singing the husband with the wife. There is no need to talk about the true meaning or anything, because high-level dialogue, exchange and common ascension are the sacred love wishes that they have come together, and the rest of the things will be solved, right? I remember that there is an article in your QQ space, which is not long, but it has an appetite for me, that is, "Life is a hierarchical theory". Freedom of body and mind, intellectual quality, artistic creation, and ultimate care. I am analyzing according to your understanding of life and true love. If you really want to achieve such a high standard, at present, I have to be. It's true.
I don't want to hear your conclusions, what interests me most is your profiling.
All right. I'll give you the analysis. She is an extroverted person, there is nothing to say about the connotation, it can only be said that she loves vanity, including academic qualifications, and it is also one of the manifestations or comparisons, and maybe there is pressure on you, etc., all of which are external forms of artificiality, not with the depth of human nature and the height of life, and so on, right. Although you have been living with her for a long time, it is only the existence and experience of animal nature, it is a kind of experiment, an extremely ordinary sexual learning and a rudimentary sexual feeling, not to mention the sublimation of the noble experience of human nature. Don't believe me, and don't fight with me. Psychology, sociology, aesthetics, etc., you have seen more than me, and you have learned well, I do not deny it. However, it is not easy for men and women to be the right match. There are few pairs of real love role models in this world, very few and rare, so it is even more precious and fascinating.
Listen to me, this is also the reason why many men and women in big cities only live together and do not get married, that is, they are just playing with each other, and the casual style and form of survival of loving everyone is not so serious, let alone destining or dedicated, and just using each other. Those have nothing to do with true love, they are only about mutual benefit, saving money, worry, relative security, and being forced by life. Talking about love in this age when love has no intention is actually a rare and very funny thing. But this does not prove that love does not exist, and there is no equivalence between the two.
Your life goals and standards of life are very high, and there are very few people of the opposite sex who can understand and recognize, except me. That's where the difficulty lies.
According to the education that ordinary people understand and receive, how can there be your life world, how can it give birth to a sense of nobility and poetic dwelling in the open and far-reaching, the beauty and virtue of human nature can only be on paper to talk about the military style of decoration, creation will also become a kind of talking point, talk in the form of **.
But I rejoice in this fifteen points and am willing to obey and dedicate myself to it for the rest of my life. Look around you, is there such a woman? Think about it. A smile and a smile are love, every word and deed is true love, as well as the vast Civic, deep thoughts, harmonious leaps, the joy of crossing side by side, the condescending beauty, the freedom to walk in the countryside, the joy of breaking the intellectual disability, etc., you look for me, who else can resonate with you at the same frequency, only the little woman. Right. Come on, after this drink, go home, sleep, the sun will rise tomorrow as usual, maybe it will be the beginning of Writer Luo's new life, hahahahaha, check out and go.
When he got out of the hotel, he asked, it was already more than ten o'clock in the evening, so he took the graduate student's sister-in-law and walked towards his father-in-law's house.
Ouch,I'm finally back.,I'm worried.,I've been waiting for her.,This girl is really not worry-free.,Thanks to the four with my brother-in-law.,We're still worried about getting mixed up with a boy who doesn't have a tune.。 Father-in-law is very disgusted with her words, everyone is back, what do you say, quickly help my daughter back into the house and let her sleep, I will have tea with Xiao Luo.
Luo Tianxing sat on the sofa in the living room of his father-in-law's house, took a Chinese brand cigarette handed over by him, lit it, took a puff and took the initiative to say, Dad, it's like this, when I was about to get off work, Feng Jie took a badminton to find me, and then the two of us played for a while, and then walked around the street, and went to the top of the mountain to watch the juggling for a while.
It's good to have you by his side. Her mom and I also knew she was off work to play ball. But I can't go home after ten o'clock, so I'm a little worried about her. You can understand the feelings of parents. Don't talk about it, it's okay. Otherwise, don't go back, just stay at home for the night. He took two more sips of tea and said, "Today's tea is really good, which apprentice gave it to you?" This father-in-law put it away, that is, after following him for a few years, he is now the secretary of a big leader in the province, and that young man is a good mix. No, when he came to us with the leader the day before yesterday to inspect the work, he took the time to give it to me, so it's delicious.
I still have to go to work tonight, and I have a material to ask for tomorrow afternoon. I have to go.
In fact, in the eyes of his future father-in-law and mother-in-law, although the second child and her brother-in-law are not good to say, they also have Xiao Jiujiu in their hearts, at least it is better than keeping up with those gangsters in the city. Even if in the end, the second brother replaces her eldest sister, it is better than following outsiders. Although this idea is still a bit cheesy and selfish, it also has its own reason, which is the inheritance and inheritance of a culture, and it is no wonder that they are all blamed.