Those girls who go out to play with other boys behind your boyfriends, I really want to say that it is really not easy to have someone who loves you, don't let down the people who love you, because the vast sea of people is fate, don't spoil this hard-won encounter, cherish it, don't miss the true love around you.

When you go out with others, when you eat and drink with others, do you ever think about what your boyfriend is doing? He is thinking about where you have been playing, who you have been hanging out with, whether you have eaten now, whether you have been drinking when you have gone out, why you have not come back so late, whether something will happen?

When your boyfriend tells you this, you will definitely think, why are you so cautious, go out to play for a while, just do this and that, the phone keeps calling, what are you going to do, you will definitely be very irritable, and then say at every turn: Break up, I've had enough, I've had enough of this life, and I've had enough of you.

Then let me ask, what can't you stand enough? You can't stand your own boyfriend, can you stand other men? Are other men so good? Are they so good? Think about it, how long have you been with your boyfriend, and how long have you been with that man?

If that man is very rich, very career-like, and can give you a lot of help in your later life, if that's really the case, then that's fine, but what if that man has nothing? With a lot of foreign debts, he can't give you anything, then don't you think it's very bad? Don't you think it's ridiculous?

If it's a little more serious, that man still has his own family, maybe that man is a person who earns 3,000 a month, and then he drives a small car, with a cigarette of more than 20 yuan in his mouth, and then he has a bottle of Coke every day, how do you feel about this person? Is he a good man, is he an excellent man?

I don't think that's right, what can a man with an income of 3,000 a month do, not to mention that he's in a special grade, he's almost forty years old, what can he do with this money, it seems that he can't do anything, isn't it enough for his own flowers, don't you think it's very ridiculous?

I believe that you don't need to say it from the eyes of our men, go and see, you girls should be able to see it, this is a person who is very capable of pretending, there are no hairs, and he is willing to go out and load that big basket, brag about it, and fool the little girl, what kind of person is this, ah?

Let's do a rough calculation, 3,000 yuan a month, you have to pay off the mortgage, this will cost 1,000 yuan, and there are 2,000 left, and then refuel, count 500 yuan, 1,500 yuan left, a box of 20 yuan cigarettes a day, 600 yuan a month, this is 900 yuan, can't you eat 1,000 yuan a month?

This seems to be not enough, it has to be a hundred dollars less, where does this hundred yuan come from, who will give it? It seems that no one can give it, it's three thousand yuan a month, and it's enough to raise the salary, after all, it's all this grade, to put it mildly, it's been half a lifetime, and the soil is buried to the waist, right?

This is just a part of it, all the expenses have not been calculated, and this seems to be his own, the mortgage is what a man should do, there is nothing wrong with counting him, but the fuel money of this car can also be understood, after all, do you have to drive, but this smoking thing, is it a little incomprehensible?

You said that you earn 3,000 yuan a month, and you are still smoking a big cloud of more than 20 yuan, are you floating, I don't know what you do, are you a big boss, aren't you, you are just an ordinary person with an annual income of 30,000 yuan, no, I said less, not 30,000 yuan, but 36,000 yuan.

This smoking thing, can be understood, are they all men, men's pressure is a bit big, can't be said to be a bit big, at least a large part of the burden is on the man's body, sometimes he will not be able to breathe, men need to smoke a cigarette and rest for a while, this is a very normal phenomenon.

But you're just an ordinary person, just an ordinary person with 3,000 yuan, it's not a man who looks down on a man who earns less money, I really don't mean that, I'm just talking about this matter, because there are some things that may not be said in life, and you can only vent it in another way.

Since we don't make a lot of money, but it can't be said to be the least, at least it's okay, let's smoke less cigarettes, or smoke some cheap cigarettes, don't smoke more than 20 yuan, smoke 10 yuan, or smoke 7 or 8 yuan cigarettes, isn't that good, isn't it?

Although cheap cigarettes are not as good as expensive cigarettes to smoke, not as good as Dayun, not as good as China, these very expensive cigarettes, but cheap cigarettes have an advantage, that is, strong, special rush, if you smoke a few puffs, to ensure the spirit, to ensure that you can reduce stress, really, not at all to deceive people, deceive people are puppy.

There is another thing, that is, the problem of the car, the car is the most serious, the girls now, are very fond of the car, no matter whether your car is good or bad, as long as there is a car, after all, it is very convenient to go anywhere with a car, and you can get it with one foot on the accelerator.

And among our men, there is also a saying, although this sentence is not very absolute, but it is almost the same, it is very reasonable, that is, a man, you can have no money, but you can't not be sassy, a man, you can have no money, but you can't live without a car, because a car is a sharp weapon for men to pick up girls.

As for what the car can do, I don't need to say this, everyone goes to the brain to make up for it, a lot of men want to do something in the car, all adults understand, so I won't say it in such detail, after all, some things are still hazy better, what I want is the feeling of looming, just like those brothers and sisters who like to take candid pictures.

I think I'm really thinking that thinking about these issues from my standpoint doesn't represent everyone, at least a large number of men, and many men think the same way as me.

So let me ask, we men are very fond of cars, but when we buy a car, what will we do with the car? What can this car bring us, is it just to satisfy a little sense of accomplishment and vanity in our men's hearts? I don't think that's what it looks like.

Since we can buy a car, it means that we are not young anymore, we are no longer children, our thoughts are already very mature, we are almost thirty years old, and no matter how young we are, we may be twenty-eight or nine, not too small, and we are also an adult man, everything has its own faults, and it has its own purpose.

The purpose of having a car is very simple, if you are a person, it is for your own convenience in going to and from work, and it is also convenient to go home to see your parents, you have a car, you have a face, it is very easy to go out and do something, you can't do it without a car, it is not easy to do anything, especially in rainy days and winter, it is too sinful.

If you have a wife and children, it will be simpler, send your daughter-in-law and children to work and school in the morning, and pick them up at night, saving them from crowding the bus, and especially suffering, you don't care, send them away, how you go to work is the same, you have to save some fuel when you should save fuel.

Usually take your wife and children out to play, go back to your hometown to see, what a good thing this is, think about it is very happy, I don't drive out to play, where to take the bus, after all, the current oil money is so expensive, it is better to save more gas, send your wife and children to work and school, so that they will suffer less.

If it's a person, it's understandable that there's a little girl in the car, if a man is alone, then he buys a car, isn't it just to hook up with a little girl, so the probability will be very large, it will be easier to catch up with the little girl, single brothers, don't go and give it a try, no matter what kind of car it is, let's get him first, even if it's a loan.

But if you are a family person, then you have to be self-respecting, in addition to your two parents in the car, it can only be your wife and children, don't pull other women, you must refuse other women to sit in your car, because the co-pilot's position is reserved for your wife, not for others to sit.

Maybe it's a bit too absolute, too decisive, but it's true, either the woman you pulled is your relative, or your sister, no one else, even your wife's best friend, if it's your colleague, it's even more special, if you sit too much, something will definitely happen, and I'll eat if nothing happens.

If a man doesn't earn much money, it's 3,000 yuan, then I advise you to smoke the cheapest cigarettes, and after the car delivers your wife and children, you just take the bus to work, don't drive, don't go out to pretend to compare, pretend to be that big-tailed wolf, it's useless.

The money saved can buy some cosmetics for your wife, take good care of it, if you can't afford to buy too good, then buy some good face masks, buy some clothes for your child, enroll him in a cram school, and study hard, this is what you should do, not to pull the calf.

Although you have no money and no power, but your every move, everything you do, your wife and children are in the eyes, a man is nothing to suffer a little, it is not anything to lose some face, you must be responsible, have a sense of responsibility, this is the real man, understand?