Chapter 0237 - Watching All the Way

Wang Zixuan groaned and said with emotion: "I have a friend who also works in a newspaper, and he once interviewed a shocking case. ”

"A seventy-five-year-old mother said she was going to sue her son!"

There was silence in the chaotic police station, and everyone was attracted by Wang Zixuan's words, and many policemen also put down their things and came to watch.

I only heard Wang Zixuan continue: "The old man, she has an only child, and she has been pampered since she was a child. When he grew up, he often beat his mother in order to ask for money. ”

The old man said: I swallowed my anger, was beaten and scolded for many years, but the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, for fear that my son would not be able to marry a wife. ”

"Once, when her son broke her left arm, the old man still didn't dare to publicize it, telling people that he had accidentally fallen down the stairs. Later, in order to ask for money to marry a daughter-in-law, the son beat the old man even harder. The old man was also injured in the hip and had to crawl home from the street, and since then, the old man has been lame. ”

What's even more outrageous is that her son also threatened in public that sooner or later he would beat the old man to death and told her to commit suicide immediately. ”

"One year on the third day of the Lunar New Year, my son suddenly became angry and beat the old man to the ground, and it was not until the next morning that he got up trembling......"

Hearing what Wang Zixuan said, many people's lips trembled: "That old man is stupid, why didn't he call the police?"

Wang Zixuan shook his head slightly: "Everyone, although this matter is typical, it is not an exception, ask the superintendent Ren behind you." ”

Everyone looked at Ren Darong: "Ah sir, if this happens, don't you police care?"

Ren Darong nodded gloomily and said: "What Mr. Wang said is the truth, but the parties insist on not pursuing it, and we have no choice, sorry, we are the police, and we must act according to the law." ”

Wang Zixuan said with a straight face: "I don't know how many families in the world have lived such a deformed appearance: one side asks excessively, and the other party tries his best to give. It's a pity that it can't really grow up for children. ”

"This kind of unfilial son should be destroyed humanely!" said the mother of the boy who caused the accident angrily, and the people around her echoed it.

The corners of Wang Zixuan's mouth raised slightly, and he asked instead: "Do you think that these parents who have paid for nothing are innocent? Are all unfilial children wrong?"

"What do you mean? Parents pay so much, is it still wrong?" everyone looked at each other.

Wang Zixuan said in a deep voice: "The fault is also the parents of these unfilial children, this is the cause they planted back then, they are swallowing the bitter fruit of themselves!"

There was an uproar inside the police station, how could it be?

Ren Darong was silent, he knew that Wang Zixuan's mouth was strong, which was enough to change a person's three views.

Wang Zixuan continued: "Do you know that the seemingly obedient education method is actually a disguised injury. Once, during a family gathering, a girl suddenly pushed a guest who was five months pregnant, causing the pregnant woman to have a miscarriage on the spot. ”

"Behind the unscrupulousness, the reason is surprisingly consistent, parents blindly connived and doted, so that they could not know their mistakes!

"The child who caused the accident today didn't know that he was doing something wrong, and he also rowed over his father's car, but his mother maintained it, and it was fine, so he became more and more bold. Today, too, after being found, his mother, this lady, rushed to the police station and repeatedly said: He is still just a child!"

"The Swiss psychologist Carl Jung once said that every person spends his or her life trying to integrate his or her personality that has been formed since childhood. If parents continue to 'spoil' like this, these stereotyped children will become so terrifying in the future, and even become potential criminals. ”

The boy's mother heard that something was wrong, and even talked about their mother and son, glaring: "Don't talk nonsense!"

Wang Zixuan looked at her with sympathetic eyes and continued: "The greatest sorrow of Huaxia's parents is to give their all, but they can't raise grateful children!"

"The Soviet educator Makarenko said: giving everything to the child, sacrificing everything for him, even sacrificing his own happiness, is the most terrible gift a parent can give to a child!"

"Many parents grit their teeth and shoulder the burden of life, but what they support their children is a vacuum. A person's true growth lies in being mature enough, strong enough, and independent enough. What parents should do is to cultivate their child's independent personality and let him learn to take responsibility for his own life. ”

"Encourage children to establish their own cognition, encourage children to arrange their own time, form their own views on cultural phenomena, events and people, and do not instill too many ideas, so that children can form correct three views in the exploration of things. ”

The thought-provoking words made everyone present thoughtful.

Yan Kuan, a reporter from Oriental Daily, asked: "Master, how to correctly cultivate children's independent personality?"

He put away the contempt for Wang Zixuan in his heart, and was able to say such in-depth words, which shows the true talent and practical learning of Wang Zixuan, a feng shui master.

Wang Zixuan smiled slightly: "The key to cultivating an independent personality is to allow children to express themselves and then self-realize. Whether it is a material or spiritual goal, giving children the opportunity to get in touch with the reality of life is a compulsory course for every good parent. ”

"Sigmund Freud once said that the main motivation for growth comes from separation from parents. ”

"Giving without boundaries deprives children of the right to grow. Drawing a clear line and stopping in moderation is the only way to promote children's growth. Let your child know that I can accompany you, but I can't take care of you. All I can do is watch you go all the way after you leave the house as an adult, and let it go!"

There was silence in the police station for a moment, and Ren Darong took the lead in applauding, followed by warm applause.

Wang Zixuan smiled and clenched his fists: "Everyone, I have taken my leave!"

He took Zhen Huimin and the others to the outside of the police station, and everyone along the way made a way for him, looking at him with respectful eyes.

The boy's parents were thoughtful, and they forgot to pester Wang Zixuan for a while, and the reporter was still quickly recording with a pen, what Wang Zixuan said was so wonderful that he was afraid that he would miss that sentence.

came out of the police station, Zhen Huimin's face was slightly red, and she held Wang Zixuan's arm and whispered: "Husband, what you said is so good!"

Zhen's mother, who had never spoken, also smiled and nodded.

Wang Zixuan smiled slightly: "I just told the truth." ”

Lawyer Liu asked, "Master, does this case still need to be followed up?"

After accepting the villa donated by Wang Zixuan, Barrister Liu transferred 60% of the equity of his private law firm to Wang Zixuan's name, and it can be said that he was voluntarily tied to Wang Zixuan's chariot.

Wang Zixuan nodded: "The Oriental Daily reporter intervened, this matter will not end so quickly, the child who caused the accident has a solid family background, and it should not be bad money, but if you spend too much, you will be resentful, and if someone fanned the flames, she will definitely not give up." ”