131. Rupture
The drastic change in my mother's attitude made me a little confused, but I was confused, I thought she just didn't want me to divorce again and become a third marriage, so I didn't think much about it at the time, and went to the lawyer the next day, the lawyer said that when he went to talk to Lin Rongshen's lawyer about this matter, the client Lin Rongshen was also there, but the other party's attitude was very cold, and he left without saying a few words on the grounds that there was something, leaving him to talk to the lawyer.
Lin Rongshen's lawyer said that in this marriage, his client did not agree to leave, and if he did not leave, it would mean that it was impossible to divorce, and my lawyer discussed with Lin Rongshen's lawyer again and again, saying that I didn't want a penny of Lin Rongshen's property, which was considered a clean house, and the two of us have been separated since we got married, which means that the relationship has broken down, and the divorce is the best destination for both of us, and asked the other party why he is unwilling to divorce.
The opposing lawyer said that the breakdown of the relationship is not determined by a one-sided person, and said that although we are in a state of separation, the relationship exists.
In a word, Lin Rongshen does not agree to divorce, and Lin Rongshen's lawyer is very powerful, one of the best in the legal industry, after they came back from talking, my lawyer said that this marriage may not be easy to divorce.
It was very different from his previous confidence, and I asked him why he couldn't leave.
The lawyer said that first of all, Lin Rongshen's lawyer is not easy to deal with, and secondly, we have only been married for two or three months, and if we have been separated for two years, we can be regarded as a formal relationship breakdown.
I said that the situation we are in now is cold violence.
The lawyer said that cold fury is difficult in terms of obtaining evidence.
In other words, I fought with Lin Rongshen in this divorce lawsuit, and the success rate was very low, and the lawyer told me truthfully that the chance of winning might only be half, and he asked me if I still need to consider it.
I listened for a long time without speaking.
Seeing that I was silent, the lawyer opened his mouth to persuade me: "Miss Xia, in fact, from the other party's conditions, it is beneficial to you, although I am a lawyer, I will only have food if I persuade you to leave or not to persuade peace, but you have only been married for so long, maybe it is only because of a little contradiction that it will become like this? ”
I naturally know that Lin Rongshen is not easy to deal with at all, but I already have a great sense of crisis in this marriage, and there is still deliberate revenge and torture, and now there is a little secretary.
Obviously, there is already a crisis around me, if I don't get a divorce, I have to constantly fight with the women around him, if I don't want to fight, I can only choose to be weak and ignore it, but I can't do it.
I shook my head and said, "Talking about lawyers, what if the other party cheats?"
Lawyer Tan suddenly looked at me with wide eyes, obviously a little surprised by my words, because I hadn't told him about Lin Rongshen's cheating before.
I said: "We have been separated for so long, in fact, we have only seen a handful of times, and I don't know if he cheated on him, I only know that he has a secretary by his side, and he has a very close relationship, as for what kind of situation I dare not talk about." ”
Lawyer Tan said: "Did you find out during this time? Did you bump into them and have intimate movements?"
I said, "No, I don't know." ”
Lawyer Tan said, "Do you have to divorce this marriage?"
I said, "Yes." ”
Seeing that my face was full of determination, Lawyer Tan said: "Actually, cheating is a good starting point, but you must have actual evidence to prove that the other party has betrayed your marriage, if your husband has an ambiguous partner as you said, and may even cheat, this will increase the odds for us a lot." ”
I said, "Really?"
Lawyer Tan once again emphasized: "But there must be definite evidence. ”
I didn't say anything because I had to prove that my husband was cheating, which was a really mixed feeling for me.
Of course, Lawyer Tan knew my feelings, and he said, "Miss Xia, you have to think about it carefully. ”
I said, "I know." ”
The lawyer talked to me about something else, and after clarifying the basic situation to me, he was naturally leaving, and after he left, I sat there alone in a daze.
But I didn't have a long time to be in a daze, Millie called me, I looked at the call reminder in a daze, and I already guessed what she called me for, thought about it, or pressed the reject button, but Millie had more perseverance than I thought, called again and again, until I felt a little unbearable, I could only answer.
As soon as I fed it, Millie asked me about divorcing Lin Rongshen on the phone.
I asked who told her, and she said it was Jian Ting.
I smiled and said, "Looks like you all know." ”
Millie felt a little incredulous and asked, "Why did you want to get divorced?"
I said, "Millie, you don't have to know. ”
Millie said, "Is it because of the little secretary?"
I said, "There's a reason in there." ”
Millie comforted me and said, "Sister Lailai, she's just a secretary, can't you beat her?"
I said, "Millie, you're going to start fighting now, what about in the future? Have you ever thought about what to do in the future?"
Millie was silenced by my question.
I said, "I'm very tired, I don't want to be fighting with the woman next to him forever, haven't you noticed that the relationship between the two of us has deteriorated a lot? ”
Millie was puzzled: "But what is the reason why you have a quarrel like this, I found that you were in the wrong atmosphere when you went to Grandpa's house for dinner that day." ”
I said, "Just ask him." ”
I didn't want to explain too much, so I just hung up the phone, but before I hung up, I remembered one more thing, so I stopped and asked, "Millie, do you know what Lin Rongshen has to do with his secretary?"
Millie said, "Isn't it a subordinate relationship?"
I said, "Have you ever seen Lin Rongshen have intimate movements with his secretary?"
Millie thought I was jealous of this, so she immediately said: "No, no, at most, that woman likes Rong Shen, he likes you so much, how can he like other women." ”
I smiled and said, "Yes, but during this time he was obviously suspected of conniving at the woman to humiliate me, and it was hard for me not to doubt that there would be no relationship between them, a secretary, if no one else gave her rights, how could she dare to be so presumptuous to me." ”