Chapter 524: How Can I Understand If You Don't Say It?
Lin Chuchu replied without hesitation: "Because he is good to me, like a kind of taming, but also like a kind of charity, he may like me, the kind of high-ranking wealthy son who likes a toy in hand, not like my love for him." ”
Love, and liking, in Lin Chuchu's eyes, are very clear.
She also said this in front of Chi Jinghan, and Chi Jinghan also remembered how excited she was at that time, her clear eyes flashed with anger and anger that should not have belonged to her.
But Chi Jinghan thought about it repeatedly, and she didn't know what she did wrong, so she had such a misunderstanding.
His performance was already so obvious, the people around them could see that Xing Yueshan and Lei Zheng didn't know how many times he had mocked him because of his change.
Chi Anna also changed her opinion of Lin Chuchu because of his changes, and it goes without saying that Yuke saw him most clearly from the beginning.
Now, even Wu Xinrui and Guan Qinghan around her are willing to help him save this relationship, but she, a little fool, is like an ostrich, blindly avoiding and misinterpreting his meaning.
It's hateful.
Chi Jinghan replied angrily: "This is your understanding and judgment from your perspective, you haven't thought about it, maybe his thoughts are not like this?"
"Of course, I'm not a selfish ghost who only cares about my own feelings, I asked him if he loves me, but he didn't give me an answer, and even got angry with me, as if he felt that I didn't care about myself and shouldn't ask like this. Mr. X, you are also a man, what happens when you love your wife? If your wife asked you, how would you answer?"
Lin Chuchu is also very curious, since she is talking about this, she also wants to hear what other men will do when they treat their girlfriends or wives.
Chi Jinghan took a sip of the strong tea on the bedside table, put it on the table again, rolled up the sleeves of his shirt, and began to type, quite the kind of posture that Lao Tzu must teach you a lesson.
"If she asks me such a question, I won't say I love you directly, because these three words make me feel difficult to speak, I believe that many men are like me, they don't like to say this kind of fleshy words directly, but I will express my love for her in my way,
For example, I will treat her wholeheartedly, spoil her, give her all my best, I will help her achieve what she wants, and I will sweep away all the things she doesn't like. ”
It's romantic.
Lin Chuchu was a little envious of his wife.
But she still stood by her point.
"It seems that you are a man of action, then your wife must be very happy, but I still think that love must be said, whether it is fleshy or not, falling in love is inherently fleshy, how do you know if you don't say it?"
Chi Jinghan: "......"
Is he in a relationship with a piece of wood?
If you don't say it, can't your body and eyes feel and experience it?
The more he thought about it, the more angry he became, and Chi Jinghan quickly typed and asked, "Isn't my kindness to her enough to mean that I love her?"
Lin Chuchu raised her eyebrows, and she could see between the lines of Mr. X's machismo.
Maintaining what little politeness remained, she corrected: "Mr. X, if you and your wife are happy now, then I congratulate you, you have found someone who suits your love style,
But if you stand in my position, I will tell you that people are different, do you think you don't need to say that the other party understands, but people are not roundworms in your stomach, where do you understand your mind in all directions?
If you don't understand, you think she understands, don't say it directly, she misunderstands it and it means something else, there may be a rift between the two of you, and after a long time, if there are more rifts, it will become a cliff, and you will never be able to return to the original starting point. ”
Cliff?
Chi Jinghan was frightened by her statement.
The two of them have reached the point where they can never go back to the original one?
What did he do?
Chi Jinghan began to think hard, the more he thought about it, the more weak his heart became, it seemed that there were many times, he thought that if he didn't say it, Lin Chuchu would understand, could it be that she didn't understand?
Damn, what about trusting each other?
Seeing that Mr. X didn't come back for a long time, Lin Chuchu felt that what she said was a bit excessive, why did she ask others to take care of her thoughts?
Lin Chuchu apologized to himself and said: "I'm sorry, maybe I'm too excited, this is my personal problem, it doesn't mean that all women are like this, my personality is not very good, I am very cowardly, I am very inferior, and I am easily insecure, so I will also be very harsh on my emotional needs, if it has caused any unpleasant impact on you, I am sorry." ”
"Didn't you think about trust?"
Chi Jinghan gritted his teeth and sent a sentence, after thinking about it, he felt that the expression was not detailed enough, and added: "Misunderstandings are often caused by not trusting him enough, if you trust him enough, even if he doesn't say it explicitly, you should at least believe him and don't do anything to hurt you." ”
Lin Chuchu replied with deep hatred: "Mr. X, trust is also situational, and it should also be based on a sense of security, will you talk about trust with a friend you have known for a day? That's just a fantasy, right? Unless you and he have a common goal, a common enemy, or other connections, you can establish a foundation for a sense of security, and there will be trust."
Emotionally, too, he can't give me the security I need, and once a misunderstanding arises, how can I trust him? Are there still fewer scumbags and scumbags in this era? If we all trust each other firmly as you said, and if you don't say it, I will understand, then there will be no breakup and divorce. ”
Chi Jinghan looked at her bunch of big truths, and I have to say that it makes a lot of sense.
At least, it got him in.
In other words, how could he, a person who can memorize calculus and various equations and business contracts in various languages, lose the debate on emotional issues?
In the end, he has a specialization in the art industry, and it is not a shame that he fell in love for the first time when he was so old, and he failed a little.
However, isn't this the first time for Lin Chuchu?
Chi Jinghan frowned deeply, where did she come from to comprehend these great truths?
Lin Chuchu was aroused by him to have a strong desire to talk, no matter whether he replied or not, he continued to type.
"At the beginning of me and him, there was no trust at all, although he reached out to me in the most difficult time, and later, there was an agreement on paper, but there was a gap between us, no one can cross, he looked at me unpleasantly, I looked at him, just like him, as if he was a gentleman, a strange brain circuit. ”
At that time, Lin Chuchu was afraid of Chi Jinghan, respectful, and had no choice.
And Chi Jinghan blindly wants to control her, like his subordinates, but Lin Chuchu always doesn't play cards according to the routine, and he can't achieve the results he is satisfied with, so he is always annoyed and angry, and he looks very hateful.