My wounds are healing, and it's time to say goodbye again.

Modern Li Shutong's "Farewell"

Outside the long pavilion, by the ancient road, the grass is green. The evening breeze blows the willow flute, and the sunset is outside the mountain.

The end of the sky, the corner of the earth, the acquaintance is half scattered. A pot of turbid wine is full of joy, don't dream cold tonight.

Outside the long pavilion, by the ancient road, the grass is green. Ask you when you will come, and don't linger when you come.

The end of the sky, the corner of the earth, the acquaintance is half scattered. Life is rare for reunions, but there are many separations.

When I read this poem when I was a child, I only found that I wanted to talk about it, pretending to be worried; when I first fell in love, I saw it again, and I had some disease-free **, and my liver and intestines were broken; that is, when I was wandering outside, my bosom friend left, and then I felt that the piano was broken, and I lost my armor.

Now, when my parents return to their hometown, they finally feel uprooted from their hometown.

A lyric is written: What is returned, lovers, old friends, bosom friends, relatives, four different sentimentals!

It's like Zen.

Zen master Qingyuan Weixin in the Tang Dynasty said: "When the old monk did not participate in Zen thirty years ago, he saw that the mountain was a mountain, and the water was water. Later, when I saw knowledge with my own eyes, I saw that the mountains were not mountains, and the water was not water. Now I have a resting place, and I see that the mountains are just mountains, and the water is just water. ”

The mountains are high and the road is far away, goodbye to the rivers and lakes!

The night before leaving, the father-in-law and mother-in-law set up a feast.

Next to Jing'an Ancient Temple. "Tokai people".

Qingqing's wife, when I received my son and Yongliang, and when I arrived at the "Xiaoqiao Flowing Water" private room, it was already the beginning of the lights, and the family and friends were full.

Two tables of people, laughter, strong family affection.

Grandparents sat on the top.

The parents are next to the left, the mother-in-law Aunt Lin is next to the mother, and the father-in-law Uncle Zhang is second. Qingqing's wife is next to grandma, and I am second. Uncle Zhang specially asked his son to sit next to him, and Yongliang was in the center.

At the other table, it is the uncle's family and the grandfather's family.

"Dad, Mom, in-laws, relatives, today, my lover and I are holding a banquet here for three purposes. ”

The father-in-law stood up and said elegantly and boldly.

"First, it is to give food to the in-laws. Thanks to my in-laws, I gave our excellent son to our old Zhang family!

Second, I want to thank Yongliang and Yongrui for saving the little girl Shanshan!

Thirdly, I hereby declare that Xiao Rui will be my grandson from now on, well, my father's great-grandson, and inform the congregation relatives. ”

After the applause, my mother burst into tears.

Immediately, the father-in-law and mother-in-law gave their son and nephew a Lenovo laptop and a big red envelope of 20,000 per person.

My father-in-law gave me a zippo high-end lighter, and a high-end trench coat.

During the dinner, parents and sons became the absolute stars of the night.

All people toast, it all starts with them.

After a while of drinking, my grandfather was so childlike that he insisted that I change places with him, and arranged for Yongliang to sit next to my father-in-law and my son next to him.

Then, he had a small meeting with Qingqing's wife and son. Later, Qingqing's wife told me that the theme of the meeting was that every week, I had to go home at least 1-2 times a week to accompany my grandfather, act or build toys.

The advantages are: delicious, fun, and delicious, and each person can pick up 2 samples.

The son's face was flushed with excitement, and he persuaded his sister to happily accept the result of the negotiation.

My father-in-law and brother-in-law and I drank together.

During the banquet, it was warm and lively, and my mother-in-law always paid attention to my parents and provided thoughtful and meticulous care at any time.

Qingqing's wife also left her seat from time to time to pour tea and water for her parents-in-law.

In the evening, the two tables accompanied the father and mother, visited the Bund and the Waibaidu Bridge, and left a few group photos, as well as some group photos.

Among them, the parents and father-in-law, my wife and my son, with the Oriental Pearl Tower as the background, are still preserved.

In the photo, the father and son are filial piety, the husband and wife are harmonious, and the most amazing thing is: I, Qingqing's wife, son, three people, the longer they grow, the more they look like one person!

"Hahaha, it's not a family, it's not a family. ”

Half a month later, my father received the photo and said with a smile on the phone with my mother.

At the farewell platform.

Mom and Dad, sitting in the sleeper compartment, worried about a mountain of specialties and snacks.

Before getting in the car, I repeatedly told me to be good to my daughter-in-law, give birth to a girl as soon as possible, and after my mother retired, she would come to Donghai to help us take it.

can speak clearly, his wife is like a peach.

The father-in-law and mother-in-law also caught the right thing with their in-laws and said a few thoughtful words.

The train started, and it also took away my strong nostalgia.

Back at work, I started my routine again.

It's been delayed for too long, and a lot of things have to be overtime. stir-frying, it seems to have been contracted by Qingqing's wife.

Every night, when I came home from work, I saw my sister and brother discussing the art of cooking in the kitchen, and they were arguing, and I was very moved.

It's time to eat.

"Well, Dad, I made this tomato scrambled egg, how about you taste it first?"

I ate a chopstick, dare I say it's not fragrant?

"Junjun, this is my fried shredded fungus pork, you can taste it. ”

Qingqing's wife said with a blank eye, the vegetables are all fed to the mouth.

"Hahaha, Qingqing wife, the progress is too great! ”

eats other people's, and has a soft mouth.

Actually, I'm still a person who can enjoy it very much.

Someone who cooks can also be a judge, so why don't you say something nice?

A gentleman is far away from cooking!

"No, you've got to score and see which of us comes first, right? ”

Qingqing's wife, she has to be divided into high and low, and her eyes are affectionate.

"That's right. Dad, I strongly support my sister's proposal. “

The son also came to the heart, clapping his little hands and looking excited.

"Well, let's try each dish first, and then, by the way, I'll make a comment, okay?"

I tasted it while shaving rice.

He also said eloquently, "Look at other wine tasting masters, drink a small sip of wine, and you have to rinse your mouth once, and then taste the next glass, so as not to cross the taste, right?"

Keep your taste buds fresh!

We are masters of food tasting, and we must have rules.

Taste one dish, eat one bite of food, isolate the taste of the next dish, right?"

Dude solemnly.

"Uh-huh. ”

Both siblings nodded.

When I am full of food and drink, people are still waiting for the results of the competition!

"So, this, that, I'll go to the living room first, write down the characteristics of your dishes, and then score them one by one according to the 5 criteria of color, fragrance, taste, freshness, and tenderness, how about it?"

I couldn't hold back a smile as I watched the players look expectant and nervous.

"Okay. Son, let's eat first, and then we'll go out and see Dad's scores. If it's not fair, huh!"

Qingqing's wife served vegetables for her son, and her son also smiled and added food for his sister.

"By the way, by the way, I washed the dishes, come over early, see the results of the cooking competition, ah, and give awards!"

I was in the living room, cross-legged, puffing smoke rings comfortably, concerned about who would be the president on the other side of the distant Pacific Ocean.

By the way, I have a division of labor with Qingqing's wife.

Qingqing wife, manage the domestic people's livelihood. For example, the daily purchase of vegetables, the combination of meat, and the price of eggs, is it necessary to queue up for 2 kilometers with the uncle and aunt to rush to buy.

Also, the price of soy sauce is going to rise, how much vinegar should be stored in advance, and how much to eat every day is good for physical and mental health!

My family's vegetable basket project, Qingqing's wife is the commander-in-chief. The son is the minister she appointed.

Of course, over the weekend, I was also happy to serve as a glorious stevedore of the 5th Detachment of the Combined Fleet under the Transportation Committee.

I'm incredible! There's no substitute for it in this home!

Focus on the international situation. For example, in a foreign presidential election, how to pick out the good eggs from the eggs that are not too fresh, and we have to be responsible for the well-being of the people, right?

"Alas, Qingqing's wife, it's not easy to choose! Also, I've been in a panic lately, pondering which countries to unite with and bully a small country. ”

While I was watching the news, I was mindful of the words.

"Junjun, why are you and them fighting that small country?"

My peace-loving Qing wife, seeing the small country we bully, the war is raging, and the people are struggling to make a living, I feel distressed!

Sometimes, I burst into tears.

"Well, if you don't like him, make an excuse. I suspect that that small country may be hiding weapons of mass destruction, such as rotten eggs

Ton!

In fact, who let them keep the strategic reserves, oil. Not generous at all!

You're down the price, you, the rich man, you're picking and searching, and you're keeping the oil for the cubs?

Also, you can be generous and send some to us, what's wrong? If you are idle, we can also hold international competitions in the wild, barbecue BBQ and have fun!

You know, in some countries recently, the economy is not very good! There is no money to hold friendly matches. ”

"It's miserable! Well, it's not good. Junjun, can you help them resist?"

The noble man spoke, and I got the order.

Alas, I changed my mind and joined the International Rescue Volunteers.

So, every night, at my family's press conference, I, as the chief spokesman, release military forecasts in real time before the news starts!

Not to mention, it's accurate.

"Husband, I see you, you really should be a soldier. Maybe it's a regimental commander, general!"

Qingqing's wife, are you always so blindly worshipped? Also, regiment commander, he doesn't seem to be a general yet, okay?

Alright, let's announce the results of my family's cooking competition!

In the spirit of openness, bull, father-in-law, ah, little army, no, big army announced!

"Two first prizes! Richard Ostrovsky Yongrui from the Arctic Gallon Bear Team and Katyusha from the Antarctic Nano Penguin Team. Beautiful Flower Fairy!

Well, the prizes are all cash!

First prize, with a generous prize. $2.50 per person. ”

Dude's little vault, it's so distressing!

Alas, let's ask for the cook's salary.

"Hahaha, hehehe. ”

The sister and brother with their arms around my neck, saliva, lipstick.

You say, who did I recruit and provoke whom?

Fight for a while, clear his wife, and help his son with his homework.

Not to mention, this beauty is out of the horse, a top girl!

Son, he didn't rebel yet, and the generation gap disappeared from his mouth.

In order to get praise from his sister, this kid took the initiative to study for half an hour every day.

One day, Qingqing's wife said to me with a smile: "Junjun, I want to guide my son's learning and growth in this way, do you think it's okay?"

"Hahaha, the noble man said to listen to it. "The head of the family, I must be King Wu Zheng.

"Well, let me talk about my parents' education experience when I was a child. Qingqing's wife told the story.

"1. About scores

Since elementary school, my parents have asked me to do this, as long as I have a good attitude towards learning, I will not be blamed for how many points I scored in the exam, so I have no pressure on the score in the exam, so I rarely play abnormally, and the grades are not much worse.

My experience is to do your homework as seriously as you take it as it is, and take it as easy as you do your homework.

In our family, the reaction caused by the score is basically uneventful, whether it is 100 points or 80 points, there is no big repercussions. Life is full of examination rooms, face it calmly, and test your true level. In our family, material things are not tied to grades and grades.

Material things can bring convenience to life, and what my parents can afford financially, they will buy them for me, and it has nothing to do with grades. Mom and Dad believe that that kind of hook is easy to cultivate children's utilitarian thoughts, and deviates from the essence of learning and life.

I don't lack pocket money, I have a bank card in my wallet to spare, and in the small box at home, my parents often put a few hundred yuan of change for backup.

Mom and Dad's philosophy is that in today's tempting era, children are not short of money and love, and the probability of going out is much smaller.

2. Enjoy life

The ultimate goal of education is to empower children to create a happy life and enjoy life.

Mom and Dad feel that to enjoy life, don't say wait until you grow up, but start today, from now on.

Once, a grandmother said to me, your parents are so good to you, you must study hard and grow up to repay your parents. My mother corrected this statement and said to me: the reward for my parents is not a high score, but from now on, live well, every day.

So, studying is only an important part of my life, but not the whole story. Making friends, watching movies, dressing up beautifully, playing with puppies, playing games on the Internet, relaxing to accompany my loving grandparents, grandparents, and boys who have a good impression of me, etc., all of which make my life very rich, and also make my life full of love, and the fire of life burns passionately.

Mom said that she felt my understanding of love from each of my essays.

3. Read the classics

Reading the classics is the key to learning Chinese well. It is also an important way to understand life.

When you read it, you don't necessarily feel the obvious effect, but when you write a composition, the writing style seems to be not your own, and it trickles out. This is the influence of culture, which is unconsciously integrated into the life of the reader.

It is recommended that children do not read that kind of fast food books, such as various magazines, fairy tales, how to succeed quickly, etc., but read classic world classics. You may not feel the feeling when you first start reading, but after reading two or three books, you will find the rhythm.

Once, my mother asked me, "Do you feel happy when you read a famous book?" I said, "I do!" At that moment, my mother was very pleased. Because, pleasure, is the highest level of enjoyment.

In terms of the role of stages, reading classics can improve Chinese scores by about 10 points, which is about 10 points for the high school entrance examination.

4. Moisturize things silently

Today's children are extremely rebellious, and I am no exception.

For example, reading and listening to music, my mother did it very casually, without any traces, according to my emotions, when I wanted to rest or do other things, she would respect my opinion and not force the apportionment.

5. Train independence

From a young age, my parents consciously cultivated my independence. Because, it is impossible for a child to live under the wing of his parents for the rest of his life.

Respect your child's choice, that's the most important thing.

For example: When I was five years old, it was very hot, I came out of kindergarten, I was very thirsty, and I wanted a drink. My mother gave me money to buy it myself. I was shy because I had never tried it, and I was scared, so I refused to go on my own.

Mom told me that now you have two choices, one is to buy it yourself and drink it. One is that if you don't buy it yourself, then endure it and go home and drink water. I hesitated, chose not to buy it, and endured. My mother felt that this was also an option, so she respected me and didn't judge me.

When I was in elementary school, it rained after school, and my mother wouldn't take the initiative to give me an umbrella. She knows that I will always find a way, for example, to share with my classmates, such as doing homework first in the classroom, such as going to the supermarket to shelter from the rain, and visiting the supermarket by the way. Because, I once told my mother, your daughter is not as stupid as you think, and she will always think of a way.

It's all my choice, and my mom and dad respect me. No negative comments. That's it, I think all the way, my parents respect all the way, I gradually grow up, I don't run away from things, I learn to think, and I have my own opinions.

6. About carelessness

I often hear parents say this about their children, and my children know how to do a lot of wrong questions this time, but they are careless.

Here, I would like to talk about the point of view of our family. Since the fifth grade, my mother has told me: carelessness is a sign of poor ability and poor learning!

At any time, don't say that you didn't do well because of carelessness. Parents should also stop making excuses for their children to shirk their responsibilities.

Careful, calm, down-to-earth is a necessary ability, if you have these abilities, occasionally lose one or two points, it is understandable, more than two points, that is, the ability is still lacking, not solid learning.

My mother began to communicate with me in the fifth grade, and I gradually agreed. So, the idea that I can get high scores and have stable grades under normal circumstances should play a big role.

7. Cultivate children's abilities

Parents should let go and try to let go as much as possible within a controllable range.

For example, if you do something and your child does it, you may only score 30 points, and if you are not satisfied, scold him, or even do it for him, the effect of the thing at that time can be scored 90 points. But please note that this 90 points will always be your 90 points, and the child will still be 0 points.

If you ask him to do it, and point it out in a way that he doesn't dislike, this time it may only be 30 points, next time it may be 60 points, and the next time, it may be 95 points, or even better than you.

Therefore, parents should learn to show weakness wisely, give opportunities to their children, and encourage and affirm their children in time. Mom and Dad will eventually grow old, and they must learn to give the stage to their children at the right time and let them play.

Only in practice and thinking again and again can children grow up, become independent, and then surpass their parents. The back waves of the Yangtze River beat the front waves, and my parents were often happily photographed to death by me on the beach.

8. Appreciate children, support self-confidence, and care for self-esteem

The Chinese nation is a humble nation. In terms of educating children, it is easy to fall into a misunderstanding. Ignore the child's strengths and overemphasize the child's mistakes.

When I do it right, my parents will recognize me and praise me in time.

When a mother talks to a friend, when she talks about her child, she will fully affirm the child's strengths. We occasionally hear that on the surface we will pretend not to care, but in fact, we care a lot, and we will continue to insist on these advantages that we will continue to insist on and get better and better. I will calibrate my words and deeds according to the excellent appearance described by my parents."

"Ahh

"Hehehe, how can I be as good as you say? It's just a little bit of my own experience. ”

Qingqing's wife said happily.

"Well, that's right! Educate you to be in charge, you need my cooperation, the old man can't escape the blame, ah, no, it's my responsibility!"

I said with some misery.

"Hehehe, I love you to death. My little me".

She praised me warmly again......

Idle to nothing, buddy after reading the economy for half an hour, just pay attention to some of the latest international terms on the Internet, well, catch up with Ming'er someone to bluff people, let's not be like a rich man, a strong chicken pecks rice!

The son slept.

Next, Qingqing's wife is mine!

Usually, because we have to go to work the next day, we only perform three different plots of love suspense action blockbusters, and we clear the scene on time at 12 o'clock. Then, we murmured love words and hugged each other into a dream.

In the baptism of love and desire, we merged and found our other half!

Love!

One day, we will be familiar with each other as if we were yourself.

And so, we became relatives! The ties of blood no longer have the power to separate us!

The most romantic thing you can think of is to grow old with me. Until you can't go anywhere, you still treat me as a treasure in the palm of your hand!

This is all a realization after a long time!

It's a pity that Qingqing's wife can't hear my fallacy. Because, every day I am with her, I feel so fresh and exciting, and I feel that Xiao Bie is newlywed.

On this day, I went to work at work.

The younger brother called, greeted him, and said, "The azaleas in the mountains are blooming, but they are beautiful." ”

My heart was beating.

Wait for the following.

"Boss, Cuckoo is married. ”

Sure enough, the little brother said it.

"Mom and Dad went home and praised my sister-in-law now, she is beautiful, and she is good to her parents, alas, I shouldn't have told you, think about it or tell it to you, you two who have no fate!"

In that brief moment, I thought of the past.

The year I graduated from university, I was assigned to a bank in Shunqing.

At that time, he had just experienced the pain of falling out of love.

The cuckoo, so warm and affectionate, silently took care of the ground, came into my life.

She is beautiful and attentive.

I remember saying that my first 5-year plan was to have an orange lamp in my bedroom.

In the evening, when I came home from work, my wish came true.

On the square table, there are also two high-end cigarettes.

The clothes have been washed, dried, and even the buddy's panties have been washed.

Isn't this the myth of the snail girl?

Turn on the lamp. God said there would be light, and there was light.

At the beginning of the world, God created the heavens and the earth. The land was empty and desolate, full of dark abysses. The Spirit of God is like the wings of a great bird covering the waters. God said there would be light, and there was light. God saw light as good for the world, so He separated the light from the darkness.

Originally, I was also full of confidence and wanted to really start a vigorous love.

Instead of the moon in the mirror, the flowers in the water, waiting for the girl every day, the time that can never be squeezed out.

And then judge the probability of feelings from her words.

However, my good friend Qin Chuan also mustered up the courage to pursue.

There is no way, I am a blank sheet of love, and I firmly believe: a friend's wife, the adage that you can't be bullied.

also squeezed out some support for his friend's pursuit from his meager salary.

"Well, look at my face, let's talk about it again? Actually, Qin Chuan is very good, handsome, talented, and considerate. Talented and beautiful. How nice!"

I'm bitter about the cuckoo.

So, they continued to date for a while.

My buddy was busy with work at that time, and he often traveled on business, and his footprints were all over the 12 counties and cities of Shunqing.

One day, come back late.

The cuckoo drank the wine, blushed, and stood at the door of the dormitory.

Once inside, I poured a glass of water and said to her, "Well, I'm too busy to take care of you." ”

Who knows, she burst into tears.

Originally, I wanted to say that I didn't care enough about her and Qin Chuan's development.

I finally stopped crying, blushed and asked me, "Am I not beautiful?"

At the moment when the red lips opened slightly and threw himself into the embrace, I saw Qin Chuan's desperate face.

Alas, buddies also came out of lovelorn!

At least, I won't let my good friends fall out of love because of me!

Later, in order not to deviate, the buddy was in a hurry and dizzy!

I really didn't expect that Du Juan said to me, wait for me for 10 years, not casually.

Beauty, how many 10 years have you had?

Years later, I came home and met her.

The wind decided to go to the clouds and how to keep it

Once resisted the death entanglement and let go of the empty hand

Love is like flowing water, and it is always difficult to collect

I'm still standing at the intersection where you left off

Since you don't have the heart, I should let it go

Why bother with being stupid and stupid

It is a deep love and a shallow regret for a lifetime

is still shallow and deep, and resentful for a lifetime

Without me, I will drink less alone in the future

Is there anyone to collect the clothes outside the windowsill

Who are you in the future?

Saying goodbye will only make it harder

Traveling around alone without you later

Make three or two friends somewhere at a certain time

In the future, I will hold other people's sleeves

If you are destined to say goodbye, you must also learn to greet with a smile

I heard that my husband and son raised my eyebrows, which made me faintly regret it. Why couldn't he be braver at the beginning, in fact, even if his father was a big official, what happened?

I chose the right one, but doesn't her feminist still make me miserable?

Qin Chuan didn't get her either.

Perhaps, my life is a different story!

The famous writer Liu Qing once said: "Although the road of life is long, there are only a few small steps in the critical place, especially when people are young."

I haven't dared to sigh yet.

Mr. Wu walked in.

He said anxiously and depressedly, "Qin Lan, the financial manager of the headquarters, is making a big deal in the engineering department, saying that Liu Yongliang has not been at work for 2 months, has only been working for 15 days, and has not become a regular, so he should be fired immediately"!

I know, the rain is coming!

But I didn't expect that the rain kept falling, which triggered me, the flash flood of life....