Chapter 105: Autism and Post-Traumatic Disorder

Luo Qingchuan called in advance because the company was going to have a meeting, saying that he would come back later.

But before that, he had already contacted Wan Hanwen.

According to him, Wan Hanwen did not know that his second-married wife was abusing his son at home, and after listening to the relay, he was very shocked and angry, so he was originally talking about business in the United States and was ready to fly back immediately.

Fang Yi held the phone and pouted without a trace.

I don't know anything, what kind of father should I be?

Of course, she just slandered and didn't show anything in front of the child.

Even to Luo Qingchuan, she looked pleased, saying that it was great that Daddy Bear attached so much importance to him!

…… That's weird!

Fang Yi finished bathing the two little guys, and when he put them on the bed, he couldn't help but stroke the bear's long hair.

He didn't resist, but he still didn't respond.

Fang Ke is a little worried, if the father of the bear is still like now, away from home for a long time, and then hand over the bear to the nanny or someone else, the child's illness is afraid that it will be difficult to heal.

After all, most mental illnesses require the patience of family members for a long time.

But these will have to wait for Papa Bear to come back and watch them.

"Okay! Let's tell a bedtime story, and when we're done, we'll go to bed obediently!" Stuffing the two little ones into the bed, Fang Yili sat at the head of the bed, closed his eyes, and began to talk with confidence, "Once upon a time, there was a little fox, and one day, its mother said to it, "Child, you have grown up, you should go and see the outside world!" Although the little fox was a little scared, it still obeyed its mother's words and nodded seriously, and just like that, the little fox left the house......

As the two children's breathing grew longer, her voice grew quieter.

But they didn't sleep well, and every now and then, Doodoo would let out a whimpering sound, and Little Bear would gasp for breath.

At this time, Fang Yi gently patted them until the two fell asleep again.

At about ten o'clock, she felt that the two of them should not wake up again, so she quietly left the room and went downstairs to the living room.

At this time, Luo Qingchuan had already returned.

He was sitting on the couch and was whispering to a man.

The other party is about the same age as him, wears rimless glasses, and has a very elegant temperament.

As soon as Fang Ye saw him, he felt a sense of familiarity, and then he thought about it, this was simply an enlarged version of the little bear!

When she stopped being stunned, Luo Qingchuan saw her, he immediately stopped talking, got up and walked over to her, "Tired, come and sit!"

As he spoke, he reached out and brushed the hair back from her cheeks.

Because of his sudden intimacy, Fang Ye turned sideways uncomfortably, simply left the place, and walked directly to the sofa, "Actually, I'm not tired, the children are very well-behaved." Facing the eyes of Daddy Bear who looked at him quietly, she tugged at the corners of her lips, "This is ......"

Luo Qingchuan saw her looking at him, and the frustration of being avoided replied slightly, and he smiled, "This is Mr. Wan Han Wenwan, Yu Cheng's father." This is Fang Yike, Dudu's mother. ”

His introduction is quite selfish.

He has a child named Dudu at home, which is known to many people in the circle, although the identity of the child is not clearly stated, but everyone thinks that it is his illegitimate child.

At this time, Mingfang is also Dudu's mother, and his relationship with her has naturally become self-evident.

Wan Hanwen said with a clear jaw, "Miss Fang, hello." Today's event is thanks to you, otherwise I would have been kept in the dark. I don't know how to thank you!"

Fang Yi didn't notice Luo Qingchuan's mind at all, all her attention was now on the matter of Xiao Xiong.

Hearing this, he hurriedly shook his head, "It's just a coincidence, about the bear...... I mean, Yu Cheng, I have something I want to talk to you about. ”

Wan Hanwen was a little surprised, he wanted to go up to see the child first, but at this time he could only press it, "Of course." ”

"Don't stand, let's sit down. Luo Qingchuan interjected.

The three of them sat down again, and Fang Yi looked at Wan Hanwen opposite, "Mr. Wan, it's about the child, I'll get straight to the point." Yu Cheng not only suffered from domestic violence, I initially suspect that he has autism. So I hope you can take him to the hospital for a detailed examination as soon as possible to confirm the condition. ”

When Wan Hanwen heard about this for the first time, his eyes widened in shock, and the expression on his face was full of disbelief.

Luo Qingchuan was also slightly surprised, he thought that the child was just silent...... Seeing that the person was shocked and couldn't open his mouth, he asked, "Is it so serious? I mean, is it just because he was treated violently that he is particularly dull?"

He asked Wan Hanwen what he was thinking.

Fang Yi quickly denied this statement, "That's not the case. The difference between post-traumatic sequelae and autism is still very big, simply put, post-traumatic sequelae are acquired, while autism is a congenital brain development disorder, which usually manifests itself around the age of three. The most obvious is his social and language barriers......"

Trying to explain autism to the two people present in the most popular language, she continued, "Through my observation today, I found that Yu Cheng's response to the outside world is very small, the call to the outside world is only occasionally noticed, his attention is also difficult to concentrate, and the most serious thing is his language barrier, from the beginning to the end, he did not say a word. ”

As she recounted, Wan Hanwen had gradually regained his initial shock.

His eyes dimmed little by little, and the whole person exuded a gloomy aura.

It wasn't until she finished speaking that he confessed with difficulty, "I...... He was an incompetent father...... Ever since his grandfather and mother passed away, I found it difficult to face him, so after I remarried, I was busy with work and rarely came back. But I thought he would be well taken care of...... I didn't expect it to be like this......"

He blamed himself, was annoyed, and was very remorseful.

Fang Yi didn't feel any sympathy, she said solemnly, "You are indeed incompetent. It's not your fault that Yu Cheng gets sick, but if he gets worse because of the abuse, it's your responsibility. So I hope that no matter how important something you are doing now, or how much pain you are psychologically in, you can let go as soon as possible and help your child wholeheartedly. He needs you so much!" After a pause, she relaxed slightly, "If you can, I suggest that you also talk to a psychiatrist." ”

"Me?" a hint of panic flashed across Wan Hanwen's face.

Fang Yi sensitively caught it, and nodded helplessly, "With all due respect, as you just said, your behavior all along is a manifestation of post-traumatic sequelae." You don't have to worry, this kind of psychological problem will be encountered by many people after the death of a loved one, it is not very serious, as long as you see a psychologist regularly, it will not take long to overcome it. ”

"The reason why I suggest this is because you still have to take care of him, your words and deeds may affect him, and for his sake, you should maintain the best mental state, so that you can be a better example for him. ”

Fang can also try to be as euphemistic as possible, not to provoke Wan Hanwen's sensitive nerves.

A lot of people are like that now.

When I hear that I have a psychological problem, the first thing I think about is not how to treat it, but firmly deny it.

You must know that this is a pathological manifestation in itself.

Avoiding medical treatment will not make people heal of mental illness, on the contrary, if deliberately ignored, it is likely to worsen the problem under more and more serious stress!

Even for the sake of Wan Yucheng, Fang Ke didn't want his father to have this kind of situation.

Perhaps her attitude was sincere enough, Wan Hanwen nodded slightly embarrassed after listening to her explanation, "I'm sorry, I'm a little out of shape." Because I hadn't paid attention to this aspect before, I suddenly heard about it, and I was a little unacceptable psychologically. ”

Fang Yi said understandably, "I understand, you don't have to apologize, this is also normal." However, I hope that you will consider it carefully and make a decision as soon as possible. Also, be sure not to put him in that abnormal environment anymore. Otherwise, I'm afraid it will get worse......"

Wan Hanwen was silent for a moment before he said, "I won't make this kind of mistake a second time." "One time is enough to make him hurt for the rest of his life, and he won't fall in the same place!

At this point, Fang Ye breathed a sigh of relief.

Luo Qingchuan saw that their conversation was over, so he said, "Hanwen, don't take Yu Cheng back today, let him sleep well, and come back tomorrow morning to pick him up!"

“…… It's good. With a light word, Wan Hanwen got up and said goodbye to them.

After the two sent him away, they returned to the living room and sat on the sofa, Fang Yi sighed lightly.

"Don't think too much, it's actually a good thing that things broke out, otherwise Hanwen wouldn't know the situation and let that woman abuse his son!" Luo Qingchuan's hand was on her shoulder, and the fiery temperature made her feel a little overwhelmed.

Fang Yi bit his lower lip, and finally stood up again uncontrollably, and hurriedly walked towards the restaurant, "You, do you want to drink water? I'll pour you a glass!"

Luo Qingchuan slowly withdrew his hand and smiled reluctantly, "No." ”

Clench your hands and make a fist.

"It's not early, drink water, go to sleep. ”

Fang Yike answered in the dining room, but I don't know if he heard it, and when she slowly drank half a glass of water and left the dining room to go back to the room, she found that the other person was no longer in the living room.

I breathed a sigh of relief, but I was a little uneasy.

Back in the room and lying on the bed, Fang Ye tossed and turned for a long time before falling asleep.

She also had a dream.

In the dream, a man with a blurred face grabbed her hand and said, "Go!

"Don't!Who are you?!let go of me!"

She seemed to be roaring with all her strength to break free, but she couldn't match the man's strength, and her body was pulled forward stiffly.

It seems to have come to the edge of a cliff.

She was frightened and afraid that the man was going to push her down, and then, the man who was walking in front suddenly turned around, and the familiar handsome face smiled grimly, "You can't escape from me!"